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  • baddog
    So Fucking Banned
    • Apr 2001
    • 107089

    #1

    If you think you have it bad . . .

    My daughter just called. I could tell by her voice that she was really appreciative to have someone to talk to, so I asked her what was happening.

    She works in the emergency response group of LA County DCFS, so she is used to dealing with a lot of fucked up situations, but they just got a referral that hit her hard.

    A 12 year old girl was alone at home with her father, when he just dropped dead.

    She has no family and had called 911. Guess the cops got there and called DCFS, but in the meantime, this little girl was sitting alone, with her dead father while she waited for the Coroner's Office to arrive.

    Lots of sad stories out in the big city.
  • seeric
    ..........
    • Aug 2004
    • 41917

    #2
    man, this heat. i have heard about 3 deaths so far. 2 elderly from the heat in the last two days.

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    • baddog
      So Fucking Banned
      • Apr 2001
      • 107089

      #3
      Originally posted by A1R3K
      man, this heat. i have heard about 3 deaths so far. 2 elderly from the heat in the last two days.

      Well, this is in the South Bay area, so I highly doubt it was heat related, but you never know.

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      • tony299
        lurker
        • Aug 2002
        • 57021

        #4
        the poor poor girl,so sad.

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        • SpaceAce
          Confirmed User
          • Jul 2002
          • 6493

          #5
          Stories like that make my heart hurt. That poor little girl, what a crappy way to have human mortality shoved in your face.

          I've always been a very soft touch when it comes to other peoples' suffering. I've gotten more callous over the years in a lot of ways, but I don't think I'll ever completely get over stuff like this.

          SpaceAce

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          • spunkmister
            Confirmed User
            • Jun 2006
            • 1362

            #6
            Originally posted by baddog
            My daughter just called. I could tell by her voice that she was really appreciative to have someone to talk to, so I asked her what was happening.

            She works in the emergency response group of LA County DCFS, so she is used to dealing with a lot of fucked up situations, but they just got a referral that hit her hard.

            A 12 year old girl was alone at home with her father, when he just dropped dead.

            She has no family and had called 911. Guess the cops got there and called DCFS, but in the meantime, this little girl was sitting alone, with her dead father while she waited for the Coroner's Office to arrive.

            Lots of sad stories out in the big city.
            Man that sucks

            Something similar happened to my cousin...she was in the house with her dad when she was about 15 and her dad had a heart attack and he died in her arms...the fucked up part was that he had just gotten a physical the day before and was waiting for the wife to get back home so they could go and get the results.

            I still remember the look on my dads (it was his older brother) face when we got the call...

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            • Deej
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              • Jun 2005
              • 24386

              #7
              atleast it wasnt her...

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              • wyldworx
                So Fucking Banned
                • Dec 2006
                • 5144

                #8
                i live for free and am free to live as long as i last.

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                • spunkmister
                  Confirmed User
                  • Jun 2006
                  • 1362

                  #9
                  Originally posted by wyldworx
                  i live for free and am free to live as long as i last.
                  I've seen bots make more sense than you do.

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                  • CDSmith
                    Too lazy to set a custom title
                    • May 2001
                    • 51460

                    #10
                    Yup, that's a toughie. Anyone working in EMS or the medical field really has to have the ability to distance themselves and empathize rather than sympathize, or they'll eventually go crazy from all the horrible situations that happen out there.

                    I've got tons of such stories myself from my years working in a hospital. This one kind of reminds me of one of the saddest, a 48 yr old man dropped dead of a heart attack at his daughter's wedding. He was rushed to our E room but was DOA. I'll never forget all these dressed up people from the wedding party and the bride & groom coming in and finding out the news.

                    You either let it be the cause of your self-destruction or you find a way to get past it and continue on helping people and doing your job the best you can.
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                    • pornask
                      So Fucking Banned
                      • Aug 2006
                      • 6518

                      #11
                      Have you heard of Antonio Puerta - the soccer player who drop unconscious during the match and died later on? That was pretty disturbing too

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                      • wyldworx
                        So Fucking Banned
                        • Dec 2006
                        • 5144

                        #12
                        whilst ever survival mechanisms increase life expectancies so do the expectations of others wanting a go. And bot me not, free will i got,
                        besides, me have time, for bot-like rhyme...

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                        • CDSmith
                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                          • May 2001
                          • 51460

                          #13
                          Originally posted by wyldworx
                          whilst ever survival mechanisms increase life expectancies so do the expectations of others wanting a go. And bot me not, free will i got,
                          besides, me have time, for bot-like rhyme...
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                          • OG LennyT
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                            • Jun 2003
                            • 14345

                            #14
                            that's rough.
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                            • Shakula
                              So Fucking Banned
                              • Nov 2006
                              • 948

                              #15
                              Life goes on.

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                              • Nasty-Ass
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                                • Sep 2006
                                • 179

                                #16
                                The story

                                The story is really sad, but what is really sad is that your daughter needed someone to talk to and all she had to turn to for support was her ignorant moronic father.

                                Your daughter must have a sympathetic heart, I would have disowned your ignorant ass years ago.
                                oinkydoinker

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                                • pussyluver
                                  Clueless OleMan
                                  • Mar 2003
                                  • 11009

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Nasty-Ass
                                  The story is really sad, but what is really sad is that your daughter needed someone to talk to and all she had to turn to for support was her ignorant moronic father.

                                  Your daughter must have a sympathetic heart, I would have disowned your ignorant ass years ago.
                                  You know what is sadder yet? The fact that you felt compelled to make a post like the one quoted. It speaks volumes about you.

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                                  • american pervert
                                    Confirmed User
                                    • Sep 2002
                                    • 6840

                                    #18
                                    people die everyday, some sooner than others
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                                    • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                      • Jul 2004
                                      • 38323

                                      #19
                                      Your daughter should take consolation in the fact that she also helps people every day in her job. As difficult as it may to have to contend with situations as the one she described, I'm sure she has some heartwarming stories as well.

                                      As she gains experience, she will learn to cope with tragedy better, and thus be more and more able to help people that suffer such tragic losses.

                                      At one point, I think I told you before, I wanted to be a social worker. I worked with severely physically and mentally handicapped children, many with terminal illnesses - it really changed my outlook on life.

                                      Although I still felt great pain and sympathy for the kids and their families, I was happy knowing that I could provide them with some positive comfort and relief, if only by providing a caring shoulder for them to cry on.

                                      You have a good daughter (and son, too)...

                                      God bless,

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                                      • baddog
                                        So Fucking Banned
                                        • Apr 2001
                                        • 107089

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                                        Your daughter should take consolation in the fact that she also helps people every day in her job. As difficult as it may to have to contend with situations as the one she described, I'm sure she has some heartwarming stories as well.

                                        As she gains experience, she will learn to cope with tragedy better, and thus be more and more able to help people that suffer such tragic losses.

                                        At one point, I think I told you before, I wanted to be a social worker. I worked with severely physically and mentally handicapped children, many with terminal illnesses - it really changed my outlook on life.

                                        Although I still felt great pain and sympathy for the kids and their families, I was happy knowing that I could provide them with some positive comfort and relief, if only by providing a caring shoulder for them to cry on.

                                        You have a good daughter (and son, too)...

                                        God bless,

                                        ADG
                                        Oh, she deals with some pretty fucked up shit 5 days a week. That is why we have our weekly father-daughter dinner every Thursday, so she can vent, unwind, and whatever else she needs to do to get in a better frame of mind.

                                        I think this one just made her thankful that she had her dad, that she could call and always makes time for her.

                                        I know we both look forward to Thursdays.

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                                        • baddog
                                          So Fucking Banned
                                          • Apr 2001
                                          • 107089

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by Nasty-Ass
                                          The story is really sad, but what is really sad is that your daughter needed someone to talk to and all she had to turn to for support was her ignorant moronic father.

                                          Your daughter must have a sympathetic heart, I would have disowned your ignorant ass years ago.
                                          How are your meds holding out? Still taking them daily?

                                          Good girl.

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                                          • irinasp
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Apr 2007
                                            • 2160

                                            #22
                                            yea((( our life is cruel and we should be prepared for evrything!! but it's really sad that this little girl experienced it tooooo early in her life...

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                                            • spunkmaster
                                              Confirmed User
                                              • Jan 2004
                                              • 2052

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by baddog
                                              Oh, she deals with some pretty fucked up shit 5 days a week. That is why we have our weekly father-daughter dinner every Thursday, so she can vent, unwind, and whatever else she needs to do to get in a better frame of mind.

                                              I think this one just made her thankful that she had her dad, that she could call and always makes time for her.

                                              I know we both look forward to Thursdays.

                                              Most of these idiots don't have a clue what life is about and the dickheads posting on here on drugs won't have a clue what your talking about for another 20 years.

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                                              • FuqALot
                                                Confirmed User
                                                • Dec 2001
                                                • 3817

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by wyldworx
                                                whilst ever survival mechanisms increase life expectancies so do the expectations of others wanting a go. And bot me not, free will i got,
                                                besides, me have time, for bot-like rhyme...
                                                hahahah..........

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                                                • munki
                                                  Do Fun Shit.
                                                  • Dec 2004
                                                  • 13393

                                                  #25
                                                  This week is just plain fucked...

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                                                  • Jet - BANNED FOR LIFE
                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                    • Sep 2002
                                                    • 7515

                                                    #26
                                                    This is sad

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                                                    • Adultnet
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                                                      • Sep 2003
                                                      • 8713

                                                      #27
                                                      very sad ...


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                                                      • sniperwolf
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                                                        • Mar 2005
                                                        • 17743

                                                        #28
                                                        very sad indeed! poor little girl.
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                                                        • CherryLipsRosa
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Mar 2004
                                                          • 3603

                                                          #29
                                                          That is rough for a 12 YO girl. one day you are just worried what outfit you are going to wear and the next day worried about your next meal.
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                                                          • HorseShit
                                                            Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                            • Dec 2004
                                                            • 17513

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by baddog
                                                            My daughter just called.


                                                            Does this mean someone actually fucked you??

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                                                            • GAMEFINEST
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                                                              • Nov 2006
                                                              • 14472

                                                              #31
                                                              thats sad ...
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                                                              • seeric
                                                                ..........
                                                                • Aug 2004
                                                                • 41917

                                                                #32
                                                                Originally posted by baddog
                                                                Well, this is in the South Bay area, so I highly doubt it was heat related, but you never know.
                                                                ahh, yah. sad. the ones i heard were here in the valley so i can understand. poor little girl. her life just changed permanently. if she has no one she'll be thrown into a foster home.

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                                                                • stev0
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Aug 2003
                                                                  • 6801

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                  Yup, that's a toughie. Anyone working in EMS or the medical field really has to have the ability to distance themselves and empathize rather than sympathize, or they'll eventually go crazy from all the horrible situations that happen out there.
                                                                  If you were distancing yourself you would be sympathizing not empathizing.

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                                                                  • baddog
                                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                                    • Apr 2001
                                                                    • 107089

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by jdavis
                                                                    Does this mean someone actually fucked you??
                                                                    It gives you hope I guess.

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                                                                    • frostyimpressions
                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                      • May 2007
                                                                      • 918

                                                                      #35
                                                                      Poor thing. That made me so sad to hear. Makes you appreciate all you have right now.
                                                                      Lisa

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