My son is gay.
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One thing to avoid, perhaps, is identifying him too much by his sexuality, either positively or negatively. I think being too "supportive" of your gay son could be almost as damaging as being real negative about your gay son. Instead, just talk to your son, not your "gay son".
He may being hanging out with people, reading literature, etc. that really focuses on "the gay lifestyle", "gay issues", etc., which separates a person from the rest of society by focusing on, and even inventing, differences. He's your son, he's a man, and a pre-med student, not your gay son, a gay man, and a gay student.For historical display only. This information is not current:
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This is all very good advice.
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It isn't specific to being gay (sort of hate the word 'choice' in association with sexuality but okay) but in this case, I meant that when parents say that sort of thing to a child that has come out that they then need to back it up and be the supportive parent they need. Certainly that is not exclusive to being the parents of an LGBT child but it the insecurity that often comes with the coming out period is something that does indeed involve the need for a different set of parenting skills.Originally posted by Jesus H ChristYou lost me on your post? Why should his father have to "prove" anything differently because his son made a lifestyle choice? Meaning, is it not a bit prejudiced to assume he'd treat his own son differently? Besides, most parents know their kids gay before the kid does.Comment
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Seriously, you ain't sure. He probably did this to shock or have fun. If not then, there's nothing you can do about it. Around 2% of the population are gay.
Reminds me of a shirt i saw on the street: "I'm gay, get over it"
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as a mother you should have worked it out by age 11-12 when the signs first start showing.Comment
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Or it is the case that any child that is going through anything that takes that amount of courage needs a support network. In this case, it happens to be because they came out as being gay. In any number of situations, there are parents who say they love and support their kids but then aren't actually backing those words up with that love and support. That is what I was saying. It could be a career choice, it could be dying their hair pink, whatever. In this case, it is being gay.Originally posted by Jesus H ChristSee this is where/how it gets complicated. The son made a "choice" to tell his parents he's gay. That's where I'm lost because they might not approve/understand why he's gay or like it, but how could a true parent, just stop loving their child or not provide endless ancillary support, regardless?
Your post reads odd, like gay people who newly "come out" must have some type of handicap and need constant coddling like a newborn? If I had a kid and he said dad, I'm gay. I'd say so, why didn't you tell me earlier? Now go park the lawnmower and rearrange/organize my workbench. That's it.
Anyway, reading between the lines I understand your gay and feel you were born that way. What bugs me is how gay people politicize this to enforce straight people to be tolerant and understand as if you were handicap due to your root sexual preference.
I also understand public gay events to get people to "come out", but I just can't grasp the reason why people need this type of attention when these resources/events can better/identify the root cause of why people truly "hate" homosexuals.
I don't doubt for a second people are born gay as this is not the core cause of the hatred. It's the collateral damage caused by gay people who were born/made gay, who hate being gay. They'll live a lie to protect this secret at all costs even if it destroys lives, as they run the risk of destroying their own lives/families/careers/reputations.
Instead of helping, openly gay people enable them, causing a a nonstop cycle of destruction that creates even more hatred, as your main focus it to brand breeders, bigots if called anything derogatory about a homosexual preference.
In short, I find fanatical openly gay people to be hypocritical and purely self absorbed.
I find the term 'fanatical openly gay' fairly ridiculous. How many straight people do you know that are 'fanatical openly straight' and that is just fine?
Yeah, the kid made a choice - though it looks like in this case he was discovered rather than made the choice - and a brave one at that. Congrats to him.Comment
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Where does the "son I am disappoint" come from... it's funny.Comment
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Don't change anything about what you would normally say or not say. In the grand scheme of things, nothing has changed. He's still your son and you still love him no matter what.Comment
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2%? At the very least, 10% confirmed, many suspect closer to 30% if you factor in the people who are bi.WELL I GUESS I LOVE short, blonde, cute and dumb girls
Seriously, you ain't sure. He probably did this to shock or have fun. If not then, there's nothing you can do about it. Around 2% of the population are gay.
Reminds me of a shirt i saw on the street: "I'm gay, get over it"
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He is still your son regardless of his gender preferences. You should be understanding and supportive. Dont try to change his mind because he has already made that decision on his own.Comment
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It is interesting ... Hmmm... did he experience a lot of "gay dreams" ?
you may want to try to look into the thought - dream - aspect of this to better help you understand his lifestyle....
A good way is to "consciously dream" (that is, control what you dream to get 'answers' to questions you may have about this lifestyle)
Example: (how to do this) : you have to 'say out loud' your question, then hit the sack; and await a reply tonight via sleep.
like so:
(say out loud) "I wish to know the truth, how does my son's dreams work into this new lifestyle?"
then go to sleep and write down your reply when you wake up.
You are now doing 'spirit work' or dream work!
Cheers!Last edited by nakeddutch; 11-09-2011, 08:10 PM.Comment







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