Sorry to hear of your tragic news riggo, glad to hear your wife & child were not in harms way
My little sister is in sunny Gran Canaria to wake one night to see a shadow creeping around her flat, lucky that when she woke, the burglar run out of the home & didn't get aggressive
Do you know in the UK... it's gross that if the burglar get's harmed in your home, bitten, scratched or cut from glass or nails, this kind of thing, they can sue & in some cases, have won! One fella lost money to the burglar as he crashed through the skylight & hurt himself on the glass! I hate the law sometimes!