And this is why I chuckle at people like Jel.
What ever posts I just need to look at his site, does it compare with either of mine?
www.mixedracelesbos.com or
www.paulmarkhamteens.com/tour/ or
the members area look like this.
Or his stats look like this?
Or like this?
It's obvious why. he doesn't make enough money to invest in a good design, good content and then make the site worth signing up to. And when anyone does, they don't stay long.
I know what my sites make, the difference in promoting something really exclusive and unique. So I have an idea what a failure his site is.
He dreamsof being able to get a million hits off a SE to his site, not that it would make him rich. Because even with million SE hits they still aren't buying.