Alex, yes i am dutch. please send me details to
[email protected]
I do not know a lot about servers though, so managed is key.
About the other remarks:
- we have many stores yes, but these are on one admin, so that does not matter a lot
- we have very few visitors (hundreds, not thousands), all targeted. There's other magento users have up to 100k / daily with 100k+ products on equal servers. We only have 12.000 or so products on 200-500 users daily.
It all seems to be about the right settings and up to date modules.