He is born on 22 October, c-section.
Mother and son had to stay 10 days in hospital, and I had to miss them very much, life was and is not the same without your partner.
Today is a joyful day, next to my wedding day this day is going to be one of the happiest days in my life. I am very nervous, but looking forward to it. They are coming home!
In this country various traditional things are tide to this Coming Home thing. She will have her parents, and spiritual parents and my son her God Parents with her when she arrives here. They will do some ceremonial blessings to make sure our son is protected from bad influences. ( like a lazy father
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And then they will put him in his sleeping clothes, a set of clothes they blessed last week. All these things should help my son in some way they claim. I am more a simple minded thinker and mumbled in myself something about " Lets hope i dont get charge backs this year and the years to come "
Anyway, in the last 10 days I was not myself. But the neighborhood acted very supportive. Food was brought every day, fresh prepared warm ready to eat. Every one was chipping in, and I tried to stop them. But they did not take a NO for an answer. I asked my wife why they came to bring food every day, she said she called them all up and asked them to make sure i would eat
Thats true love right?
Well, i had to share with ya all this little moment of joy. In a few hours I tuck my son into his bed and tell him his first bed time story