thank you for your responses!
I am not looking for a new host, but thank you anyways.
The VPS I currently have can be easily scaled to 8192MB RAM if needed, so yeah I think while the site is in it's infancy, I will go ahead with the VPS install, and when my daily traffic is such that it is stressing the system, then I will worry about a decently appointed dedicated box that I can grow with for a while longer.
Once again I thank you all for your input.
