Well, after my divorce I am having a blast.  I have about 10 different regular partners that I bang every couple of weeks.  The key is to be completely honest.  Some can't handle the situation so you drop those friends.  Others have commitments with other people and appreciate a good lay without the drama.... those are the keepers. 
At 24 I could only handle 2-3 because I felt the need to romance.  The funny thing now as I look back most of the chicks only wanted sex to begin with. My fake romantic plays were wasted effort and energies that could have been used bedding more chicks
