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True friends are hard to come by but people in general tent to have and ebb and flow when it comes to personal priorities, morals, etc. People go through selfish periods, up times, down times, and so on. If someone's in a dick phase just phase them out a bit till they come back around.
I've had primarily the same core group of friends since I was 13 and I turn 30 this year. We've been through alot and we've all gone through our own shitty self centered periods where at one time ot another and in one way or another each of us wasn't the best friend we could have been all the time. Its impossible to know and understand all the different factors effecting someone's personal state of being, so you gotta cut people some slack. Not saying be a doormat, but just because one of your mates doesn't drop everything for you when maybe they should have at least made an effort don't flush your friendship over it. Like Amp said, don't go tit for tat, real friends don't keep scorecards. These friends may be preoccupied with their own lives right now but might come around later on and be real friends when you might need them more than they need you.
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