Good luck. I just want to say some news that might be related to this thread topic. I read a recent article on the topic of Google's view towards cougar sites. Google denied a cougar advertisement, because Google said the cougar dating AKA older women dating younger men is "not family safe." Google refused to show a non-porn cougar-related advertising of some kind in mainstream advertising.
The article is here:
The New York Times
Google Tells Sites for ‘Cougars’ to Go Prowl Elsewhere
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/05/16/fashion/16cougar.html