Not sure what the drama here is all about but I know for a fact that the owner is on holiday. Having said that, this is a screen capture from within the site that I took just 10 seconds ago:
Looks like a link to one of your sites. Perhaps you'd like to send them links to pages that don't link back to you?
Additionally, as far as I am aware, you don't NEED to become a member to view your own submissions as these are available for you to view without a membership no matter if they are on the free section or within the archives.