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To xenigo,
You think you get pressure and judged, can you imagine what the girls and guys who are actually posing is getting? I wonder if they only associate with those in the business or those who can accept.
Because, their faces probably get recognized and it's not easy to say 'no mom, I don't do porn' with a file of hundreds of photo shoots.
They must have it TOUGH.
I haven't dealt with this yet. But, I have 3 theories for this.
1.) I think that most people have a mentality that women are forced to do things. Of course it isn't true, but especially fellow ladies, they see the drunk college girls on camera and think, 'it's so sad that he got her on camera when she was drunk.' and they assume the same thing with the porn sites. They assume, it's sad that the photographer/webmaster, etc... took advantage of her. Why? Because 9 times out of 10, if you ask a stripper, why she strips, she will say that it was the only way to make money or to pay for college or something that makes you think 'how sad, that she HAD no choice but to do this'.
So, when people judge, they probably just ASSume that you talked some 'poor naive chic into taking off her clothes for $20 bucks'.
2.) Just plain ignorance. They think porn is associated with bad men who kidnap kids. They don't know that Most Webmasters and people who produce porn keep it legal and don't do gross illegal things to make money.
3.) Un-popularity by association, they get scared that if they don't act offended and distance themselves from you, that one day others will connect them to porn.
Anyway, maybe that's not it, but that's what I make out of it. OR, they're just jealous assholes.
Think about it, if there was no one creating the porn/pornsites/magazines/etc... those people who are so 'offended' would be jacking off to every short skirt that walked in a burger joint. So, it's really a favor being done to them. They get to be in the closet 'perverts'.
This is my last post on this thread for now.
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