You have to figure out which one better suits your goals for the future, which one you can't live without... Which one you can picture yourself with 10, 30, 30, 40, 50 years from now. If you were truly in love with the first one, the second one wouldn't have been able to make an impact, and not moving forward is being unfair to her. Make your choice and stick with it, hopefully you can remain friends or at least congenial with the one you don't choose.
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