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Well, I admit I've read some books dealing with criminal psychology over the years, and not meaning popular blood filled crap but official sources (=not so flashy / boring reading).
While you can't prevent some things from happening (the popular debate whether there is a gen of evil or whether people become menace during their upbringing), they say that you adapt as much as 90 pct. of your core life values by the time you are 6 years of age - forming your basic subconscious reactions and the view of what is good / evil.
That being said - a complete family and a sense of being cared about logically equals a positive influence during that essential time.
Another thing that's interesting
- some women I know would most likely be labeled as terrible bitches, I was always surprised how they could be bitchy with other men etc. killing them just wouldn't be enough.
But they never behaved like this with me around, I don't know why - seems like unless you cross the line that triggers some bad animal reactions from their side and you treat them with respect, they will MUCH rather do their best to keep being cool in your company, just so you don't have one single reason to view them with disrespect.
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