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  • SleazyDream
    I'm here for SPORT
    • Jul 2001
    • 41470

    #1

    Anxiety cripples me before I go to a convention....

    Anxiety cripples me before I go to a convention....

    I know many people see me as an outgoing guy but when I haven't traveled in a while the thought of meeting people and what they will say to do to me is crippling. Esp considering the events of this last year.

    In reality I see very few people in my day. My GF, my dog, maybe visit my parents so my dog can see them for 20 mins (he loves them and their dog) - and if I'm lucky some store clerk. That's about it. The rest of the time I'm cooped up in my house working, sleeping, eating, pooping or watching TV. Boring life. (actually the same life I had before bankruptcy and before i got into the bar biz). I like it like that and honestly I do LOVE the travel and the people from this industry.

    I guess you could call it fear. Maybe I mask it by forcing myself to get in peoples faces but in the end I feel this monster lurking over my back waiting to crush me. I understand the feelings others have about meeting people, I get them myself. It's why I try my best to introduce myself but sometimes I fall prey to my comfort zone and stick to those I know. Honestly one of the best people I know for forcing them self to get out of this 'comfort zone' is Brad Mitchel. I give him a lot of credit for having the guts to just get out there and introduce himself to strangers. He's inspiring.


    anyway, just want to vent and say I won't be able to sleep tonight worrying about what to do at this show, and that might make things worse for me tomorrow (Saturday)

    But I'm looking forward to this and hoping for the best.

    Thank you AaronM for the flight and for letting me stay with you!
    Thank you Evil Chris and AVN for your incredible hospitality.
    Thank you Brad, Dmoney, Mike and Fade for the dinner Invites and players ball invites.

    onward - Vegas baby Vegas.......
    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

    Now read without the word dog.
  • Agent 488
    Registered User
    • Feb 2006
    • 22511

    #2
    what if everyone there laughs at you? have you seen them lately? maybe they have changed while you have got worse?

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    • Agent 488
      Registered User
      • Feb 2006
      • 22511

      #3
      would make me worry myself.

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      • goldfish
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        • Jan 2009
        • 723

        #4
        Welcome to the life of a recluse. I am right there with ya.
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        • STAROTICA
          So Fucking Banned
          • Aug 2004
          • 1079

          #5
          xanax....works 4 me......

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          • Agent 488
            Registered User
            • Feb 2006
            • 22511

            #6
            go grab some morphine and a six pack. fuck it.

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            • JaneB

              #7
              A good therapist can help with that. A lot of people have fears, hell I hate large crowds.

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              • Spunky
                I need a beer
                • Jun 2002
                • 133986

                #8
                What do you do with Skufty when you're gone?

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                • Smokieflame
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                  • May 2008
                  • 596

                  #9
                  Im sorry I only read the title and first 2 lines. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???? I was a shy girl in high school, got in porn at 20, was timid as HELL at first!!! BUT the first thing i learned, the people in porn that matter, the people you want to be around, these people are the coolest people you will ever meet. Grab your dick and go if it isn't to late for you!!! Have some fun and lose your complex
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                  • SatansCandy
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                    • Mar 2007
                    • 235

                    #10
                    "The lust of the eyes and the lust of the flesh is not of God but of the world. Those who are friends with the world are enemies of God" - James & John
                    "Look You Deaf and Blind" - Isaiah 42

                    "The tares are the children of Satan, the Father of Lust. Bind the tares and burn them. Cast them into the everlasting fire" - Jesus

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                    • SleazyDream
                      I'm here for SPORT
                      • Jul 2001
                      • 41470

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Agent 488
                      what if everyone there laughs at you? have you seen them lately? maybe they have changed while you have got worse?
                      thank you for making it worse.
                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                      Now read without the word dog.

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                      • SleazyDream
                        I'm here for SPORT
                        • Jul 2001
                        • 41470

                        #12
                        Originally posted by JaneB
                        A good therapist can help with that. A lot of people have fears, hell I hate large crowds.
                        I absolutely HATE tight crowds and usually avoid them at all costs. I like small groups with space to breath.
                        This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                        Now read without the word dog.

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                        • SleazyDream
                          I'm here for SPORT
                          • Jul 2001
                          • 41470

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Spunky
                          What do you do with Skufty when you're gone?
                          my girlfriend is taking care of him, and when she's working he stays at my parents - they like about 8 houses away from me.
                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                          Now read without the word dog.

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                          • SleazyDream
                            I'm here for SPORT
                            • Jul 2001
                            • 41470

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Smokieflame
                            Im sorry I only read the title and first 2 lines. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???? I was a shy girl in high school, got in porn at 20, was timid as HELL at first!!! BUT the first thing i learned, the people in porn that matter, the people you want to be around, these people are the coolest people you will ever meet. Grab your dick and go if it isn't to late for you!!! Have some fun and lose your complex
                            i don't deny that for a second. I know 100's and 100's of people in this industry, but the anxiety is still there.....
                            This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                            Now read without the word dog.

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                            • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                              • Jul 2004
                              • 38323

                              #15
                              Do as I do, observe the Yes-Signals, and ignore the rest...

                              I know what you are saying to some extent, since I operate pretty independently, and I already communicate with everyone whom I need to do business with via the phone and internet. I fret more about not getting some of the work done that I would prefer doing, so I generally try to set up work while at shows.

                              For me, adult tradeshows are more of a vacation and reunion. I spend very little time on the show floor, and instead focus most of my time shooting content (since several content girls usually attend). Other than that, I enjoy the good local restaurants and sights, and then I spend my nights bullshitting at parties with old friends and business associates.

                              I'm always happy to get home and back to business on my workstation...

                              A tradeshow I actually love attending is MacWorld in San Francisco which usually takes place in January, but will be in February this year.

                              That show offers some incredible hands-on training, and I always come away with lots of ideas and inspiration.

                              Be sure rap knuckles with me in Vegas, if you see me (I stopped shaking hands since the swine flu epidemic thing)...



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                              • marketsmart
                                HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER
                                • Dec 2004
                                • 20419

                                #16
                                Originally posted by Smokieflame
                                Im sorry I only read the title and first 2 lines. ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME???? I was a shy girl in high school, got in porn at 20, was timid as HELL at first!!! BUT the first thing i learned, the people in porn that matter, the people you want to be around, these people are the coolest people you will ever meet. Grab your dick and go if it isn't to late for you!!! Have some fun and lose your complex
                                spoken like true content... save the adult conversations for adults...

                                i have anxiety, but its maore stress related than social..

                                i do keep a few trusty clonapins in my pocket when i travel..

                                i dont get anxiety once i am there, i get anxiety getting ready to travel...

                                scott, you already threw it all out on the table and adult is a very forgiving industry..

                                maybe not on the boards, but face to face most of the adult guys are introverts at best and dont have the balls to say what they post to your face..

                                so, take a xanax and get on the plane and you will be fine...

                                i swear to god its either something in the water or associated with blow and e, but i have so many friends that have anxiety these days, it cant believe how common it is...

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                                • SleazyDream
                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                  • Jul 2001
                                  • 41470

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                                  Do as I do, observe the Yes-Signals, and ignore the rest...

                                  I know what you are saying to some extent, since I operate pretty independently, and I already communicate with everyone whom I need to do business with via the phone and internet. I fret more about not getting some of the work done that I would prefer doing, so I generally try to set up work while at shows.

                                  For me, adult tradeshows are more of a vacation and reunion. I spend very little time on the show floor, and instead focus most of my time shooting content (since several content girls usually attend). Other than that, I enjoy the good local restaurants and sights, and then I spend my nights bullshitting at parties with old friends and business associates.

                                  I'm always happy to get home and back to business on my workstation...

                                  A tradeshow I actually love attending is MacWorld in San Francisco which usually takes place in January, but will be in February this year.

                                  That show offers some incredible hands-on training, and I always come away with lots of ideas and inspiration.

                                  Be sure rap knuckles with me in Vegas, if you see me (I stopped shaking hands since the swine flu epidemic thing)...



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                                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                  Now read without the word dog.

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                                  • SleazyDream
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                                    • Jul 2001
                                    • 41470

                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by marketsmart
                                    spoken like true content... save the adult conversations for adults...

                                    i have anxiety, but its maore stress related than social..

                                    i do keep a few trusty clonapins in my pocket when i travel..

                                    i dont get anxiety once i am there, i get anxiety getting ready to travel...

                                    scott, you already threw it all out on the table and adult is a very forgiving industry..

                                    maybe not on the boards, but face to face most of the adult guys are introverts at best and dont have the balls to say what they post to your face..

                                    so, take a xanax and get on the plane and you will be fine...

                                    i swear to god its either something in the water or associated with blow and e, but i have so many friends that have anxiety these days, it cant believe how common it is...

                                    actually it's not the plane or the travel that gives me anixiety. I have no problems there.

                                    the worst for me is when I'm about to go into a room or area with people from this biz and have to meet and talk to them and I have no idea who i'm going to run into.
                                    This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                    Now read without the word dog.

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                                    • marketsmart
                                      HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER
                                      • Dec 2004
                                      • 20419

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                      actually it's not the plane or the travel that gives me anixiety. I have no problems there.

                                      the worst for me is when I'm about to go into a room or area with people from this biz and have to meet and talk to them and I have no idea who i'm going to run into.
                                      you already hit rock bottom.. why do you care? you have no place to go but up...

                                      sure, you may not be able to play pimp like once before, but guess what... you are not alone..

                                      face your fears and you will see its a small fraction of what you have built them up to be..

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                                      • SleazyDream
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                                        • Jul 2001
                                        • 41470

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by marketsmart
                                        you already hit rock bottom.. why do you care? you have no place to go but up...

                                        sure, you may not be able to play pimp like once before, but guess what... you are not alone..

                                        face your fears and you will see its a small fraction of what you have built them up to be..
                                        I usually try and face them, doesn't mean the anxiety isn't there though.....
                                        This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                        Now read without the word dog.

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                                        • Trixie
                                          Confirmed User
                                          • Oct 2002
                                          • 1850

                                          #21
                                          Originally posted by marketsmart
                                          spoken like true content... save the adult conversations for adults...

                                          i have anxiety, but its maore stress related than social..
                                          Perfect example of how most pencil-necked douche webmasters in this industry deal with their social anxieties: they don't know how to talk to women, so they turn to their buddies and say, "let's not talk to her . . . she's just content".

                                          You score your bro-points for being a misogynist and can avoid the most stressful conversations of all: the ones with women (who if you haven't noticed are often also sponsors, producers, directors, photographers, etc.).

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                                          Note: I seriously had that happen to me once at a conference: one little punk turned to the other who was trying to ask me what I do and interrupted to say, "you don't need to talk to her . . . SHE'S JUST CONTENT".

                                          So yeah . . . take heart, Sleazy: no matter what, I'll bet no one will say that to you (or in front of you; the guy made a point of not making eye contact with me while he said it, whispering in the other dude's ear across a table from me)! It's really dehumanizing; on a board that's one thing, but to experience it in person -- unbelievable.
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                                          • JaneB

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                            I absolutely HATE tight crowds and usually avoid them at all costs. I like small groups with space to breath.

                                            I do too. I see a great therapist. Meds can help to a point, but I think therapy is also a great help. You get to the issue of what is making you anxious and how to fix it. Just something to think about.

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                                            • SleazyDream
                                              I'm here for SPORT
                                              • Jul 2001
                                              • 41470

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by Trixie
                                              Perfect example of how most pencil-necked douche webmasters in this industry deal with their social anxieties: they don't know how to talk to women, so they turn to their buddies and say, "let's not talk to her . . . she's just content".

                                              You score your bro-points for being a misogynist and can avoid the most stressful conversations of all: the ones with women (who if you haven't noticed are often also sponsors, producers, directors, photographers, etc.).

                                              *****

                                              Note: I seriously had that happen to me once at a conference: one little punk turned to the other who was trying to ask me what I do and interrupted to say, "you don't need to talk to her . . . SHE'S JUST CONTENT".

                                              So yeah . . . take heart, Sleazy: no matter what, I'll bet no one will say that to you (or in front of you; the guy made a point of not making eye contact with me while he said it, whispering in the other dude's ear across a table from me)! It's really dehumanizing; on a board that's one thing, but to experience it in person -- unbelievable.
                                              all I can say is when someone points a finger 3 are pointing back at them.
                                              This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                              Now read without the word dog.

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                                              • SleazyDream
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                                                • Jul 2001
                                                • 41470

                                                #24
                                                Originally posted by JaneB
                                                I do too. I see a great therapist. Meds can help to a point, but I think therapy is also a great help. You get to the issue of what is making you anxious and how to fix it. Just something to think about.
                                                I generally just face my anxiety and just avoid tight crowds. I see no real benefit to them.
                                                I don't like medicating myself.
                                                This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                Now read without the word dog.

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                                                • weekly
                                                  So Fucking Banned
                                                  • Dec 2005
                                                  • 1785

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                  I generally just face my anxiety and just avoid tight crowds. I see no real benefit to them.
                                                  I don't like medicating myself.
                                                  uh huh....bump for sd

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                                                  • JaneB

                                                    #26
                                                    Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                    I generally just face my anxiety and just avoid tight crowds. I see no real benefit to them.
                                                    I don't like medicating myself.

                                                    Good for you. Facing your fears is the way to go. You are a nice guy, and if anyone says anything to you about filing for bankruptcy, fuck them. I think anyone that gets off on the pleasure of another persons pain is a jackass. I personally feel sorry for people like that.

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                                                    • weekly
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                                                      • Dec 2005
                                                      • 1785

                                                      #27
                                                      Originally posted by JaneB
                                                      Good for you. Facing your fears is the way to go. You are a nice guy, and if anyone says anything to you about filing for bankruptcy, fuck them. I think anyone that gets off on the pleasure of another persons pain is a jackass. I personally feel sorry for people like that.
                                                      You really believe that shit? Duh.

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                                                      • JaneB

                                                        #28
                                                        Originally posted by weekly
                                                        You really believe that shit? Duh.

                                                        Duh, I posted it didn't I? Yes I believe it. Unlike some of the tools on here, I post what I mean. I don't just post to get a higher count.

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                                                        • weekly
                                                          So Fucking Banned
                                                          • Dec 2005
                                                          • 1785

                                                          #29
                                                          Originally posted by JaneB
                                                          Duh, I posted it didn't I? Yes I believe it. Unlike some of the tools on here, I post what I mean. I don't just post to get a higher count.
                                                          How does it feel to be a sucker?

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                                                          • JaneB

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by weekly
                                                            How does it feel to be a sucker?


                                                            How do you feel being a troll? Not sure why you have a hard on for Sleazy but I don't think he is interested. Move on.

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                                                            • weekly
                                                              So Fucking Banned
                                                              • Dec 2005
                                                              • 1785

                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by JaneB
                                                              How do you feel being a troll? Not sure why you have a hard on for Sleazy but I don't think he is interested. Move on.
                                                              one born every day.....

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                                                              • SRT8
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                                                                • Oct 2009
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                                                                #32
                                                                get some xanax or valium... just parade around in a pink thong with ur big belly hangin out and jigglin everywhere with yessignals.com body painted and an arrow pointing to ur lil weiner and u will be the coolest person there then u will have no anxiety or worries.

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                                                                • SleazyDream
                                                                  I'm here for SPORT
                                                                  • Jul 2001
                                                                  • 41470

                                                                  #33
                                                                  Originally posted by SRT8
                                                                  get some xanax or valium... just parade around in a pink thong with ur big belly hangin out and jigglin everywhere with yessignals.com body painted and an arrow pointing to ur lil weiner and u will be the coolest person there then u will have no anxiety or worries.
                                                                  This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                  Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                  • weekly
                                                                    So Fucking Banned
                                                                    • Dec 2005
                                                                    • 1785

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by SRT8
                                                                    get some xanax or valium... just parade around in a pink thong with ur big belly hangin out and jigglin everywhere with yessignals.com body painted and an arrow pointing to ur lil weiner and u will be the coolest person there then u will have no anxiety or worries.
                                                                    Come on, even sleazy wouldn't do that. What are you thinking?

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                                                                    • BillyHoe
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                                                                      • Mar 2003
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      goto a clinic get some happy pills and you'll be fine. Kicking them is a bitch though..lol

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                                                                      • weekly
                                                                        So Fucking Banned
                                                                        • Dec 2005
                                                                        • 1785

                                                                        #36
                                                                        Originally posted by BillyHoe
                                                                        goto a clinic get some happy pills and you'll be fine. Kicking them is a bitch though..lol
                                                                        So Billy, that begs the question...why would you want to kick them?

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                                                                        • SleazyDream
                                                                          I'm here for SPORT
                                                                          • Jul 2001
                                                                          • 41470

                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by weekly
                                                                          So Billy, that begs the question...why would you want to kick them?
                                                                          just like I thought..... you're a junkie.

                                                                          explains a lot though.....
                                                                          This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                          Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                          • weekly
                                                                            So Fucking Banned
                                                                            • Dec 2005
                                                                            • 1785

                                                                            #38
                                                                            Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                            just like I thought..... you're a junkie.

                                                                            explains a lot though.....
                                                                            Come on buddy, you can do better than that. Pathetic. I might have to give up on you and watch tv or something.

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                                                                            • SRT8
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                                                                              • Oct 2009
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              sleazy if u want to make everyone talk about ur site and brand it right do what i said do some yayo too for some extra pep and bullshittin u need to do

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                                                                              • SleazyDream
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                                                                                • Jul 2001
                                                                                • 41470

                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by weekly
                                                                                Come on buddy, you can do better than that. Pathetic. I might have to give up on you and watch tv or something.
                                                                                i wasn't trying to insult you - just pointing out that I can see that you have a problem and probably should look at getting some help for it. There's no shame in self improvement and you'll live a better life if you make a change.
                                                                                This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                • BillyHoe
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  Originally posted by weekly
                                                                                  So Billy, that begs the question...why would you want to kick them?
                                                                                  lol I hate being Dependant on substance, but that's just me.
                                                                                  Last edited by BillyHoe; 01-08-2010, 09:52 PM.

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                                                                                  • BillyHoe
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                    i wasn't trying to insult you - just pointing out that I can see that you have a problem and probably should look at getting some help for it. There's no shame in self improvement and you'll live a better life if you make a change.
                                                                                    lol sorry dude but perhaps you should repeat that statement in the mirror. After seeing how you handled some of the constructive criticism people gave you about your new site you're far from one who should be preaching.

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                                                                                    • SleazyDream
                                                                                      I'm here for SPORT
                                                                                      • Jul 2001
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by BillyHoe
                                                                                      lol sorry dude but perhaps you should repeat that statement in the mirror. After seeing how you handled some of the constructive criticism people gave you about your new site you're far from one who should be preaching.
                                                                                      perception is one thing - reworking a lot of what was in that thread into the site actually.
                                                                                      This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!

                                                                                      Now read without the word dog.

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                                                                                      • Loch
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        Ohhh i hate being at the internext show, simply hate it and cant wait to leave every damn time.

                                                                                        Well OK, last year i had a great time but then again we were 6 of us there which made it a lot more fun....but still...

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                                                                                        • Trixie
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                          all I can say is when someone points a finger 3 are pointing back at them.
                                                                                          I would never EVER treat anybody like that.

                                                                                          And on that other topic, filing for bankruptcy does not make somebody a failure.
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                                                                                          • CunningStunt
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                                                                                            • Aug 2006
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            Sleazy makes all this shit up to attention whore, then sits back and laughs at the responses.

                                                                                            Different thread, same tactics, year after year.

                                                                                            It's getting boring.

                                                                                            Btw, most people are probably laughing at you behind your back, some to your face. I wouldn't go.
                                                                                            Last edited by CunningStunt; 01-08-2010, 10:35 PM.

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                                                                                            • BillyHoe
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                              perception is one thing - reworking a lot of what was in that thread into the site actually.
                                                                                              You're right correcting spelling mistakes is a hard task. ;)

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                                                                                              • Sarah_Jayne
                                                                                                Now with more Jayne
                                                                                                • Dec 2002
                                                                                                • 40077

                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                I have anxiety issues too. That crippled with always having been pretty rubbish at small chat with strangers doesn't help. I am not totally sure where it comes from because once I know people I think I give pretty good chat Something in me just always assumes they will be more together, cooler,etc than me.

                                                                                                The best times I had at conventions were with Tofu by my side because he has NONE of those worries and would break the ice for me and then I was fine.

                                                                                                Some of us are just more shy than others and this work 'cuddles' us by allowing us to ration who we deal with face to face. However, it also makes it worse when we have to actually emerge from our dens.

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                                                                                                • GTS Mark
                                                                                                  Vrume Mark
                                                                                                  • Jan 2001
                                                                                                  • 20912

                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Go pick up "How To Win Friends And Influence People" By Dale Carnegie and read it on the plane ride down.

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                                                                                                  • Quagmire
                                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                                    • Jul 2005
                                                                                                    • 6490

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by marketsmart
                                                                                                    spoken like true content... save the adult conversations for adults...
                                                                                                    Are you ragging on her for being honest about only reading the first two lines? Fuck man that is pretty weak if you are, especially generalizing the statement towards content models. The so-called 'webmasters' around here are far worse for doing it.

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