I've gone through someone's cell phone before. And their e-mail too. Don't ask me how I got the password. And their entire pc, temp files, history, saved files, keywords he searched for in google. I don't regret it at all.
You can never trust ANYBODY. It's bullshit when people say "If you can't trust someone you shouldn't be with them", because 98% of people cannot be trusted. You have to screen your partners to know what your dealing with.
If they have nothing to hide, they should have nothing to fear!
I know I'm a bit psycho, but I have a strong desire to know everything!!
Psychology 101. People who chronically cheat on their significant others assume everyone does the same. This post speaks volumes about you.
Guys, I don't care what you say or how many times you have been screwed... if I ever caught anyone going through my messages or email, they better have a really damn good excuse or they're out of my life.
I love how girls will say shit in text messages that they would never say on the phone or in person. Their such sluts, especialy at 2am. Not that there is anything wrong with sluts.
opinions are like assholes.................
"They aren't after me, they are AFTER YOU! Im just in their way"
-D.J. Trump
I don't care if the guys I date go through my cell phone, address book, day planner, etc. I have nothing to hide.
The only rule I have is to stay out of my documents and files on my hard drive and my filing cabinet.
1. I'm a graduate student. I have papers I've written/am writing. Uni documents and forms. And lots of research. I don't want anybody mucking about in there. I've worked too hard to have some dude accidently delete or move a file.
2. Financial and personal information. THAT is nobody's business but my own. A boyfriend doesn't need to know my SS#, how much $$ I have or don't have, what I own, etc.
If I'm going out with a guy, then I'm going out with him. Just him.
Fuck, I hardly have time for one guy, let alone more.
After you get older, you will find that you honestly don't give a fuck anymore.
Once upon a time, I used to do shit like that. Now, you could leave your cell phone, PDA, little black book, and wallet at my house for a week and I probably wouldn't even glance at it. Not because I'm a good and ethical person, but because I just honestly don't give a shit.
Psychology 101. People who chronically cheat on their significant others assume everyone does the same. This post speaks volumes about you.
I don't cheat at all. Actually I am anti-social to the point where I don't even ASSOCIATE and have any friends with members of the opposite sex other than my significant other.
I have never EVER cheated, but I do read a lot of hooker message boards on-line, I see SO many men talking giving tips how they get away fucking around on their wives with hookers and prostitutes.
I am extremely disillusioned. I think most people in the world are cheaters.
I don't believe in good in the world.
I know it's not only men who cheat but women too. Most people in the world are evil.
I am paranoid because it is my worst nightmare to be cheated on, and sometimes I honestly feel I would rather be alone and single and be completely abstinent and have no sex at all, and never get married then take the chance and get cheated on. I would actually rather be alone. It's a phobia of mine to be cheated on.
Psychology 101. People who chronically cheat on their significant others assume everyone does the same. This post speaks volumes about you.
Also I have to be extra vigilant because my signifcant other had a bad past. I really believe that past behaviour is indicative of future behavior.
They were promiscupus in the past. I think either way you can't win because someone who was promiscuous already knows what's "out there" so they might want the same thrill again. And someone without a lot of partners might wonder "what else is out there" or what their missing out on. So you're basically fucked period.
So you have to be vigilant no matter what. I read somewhere that a very high percentage of people cheat,so you have to be extra careful. People always think that bad things don't happen to them, but they do, to people just like you and me.
Do you want to live in a lie or do you want to live knowing the truth? I would never want to live in a lie. I have to know the full truth. I have nothing to hide. I would let my partner view my emails and phone messages and vm passwords.
I would rather know the truth and be miserable for the rest of my life than be happy and live in a lie not knowing.
Don't be insecure and date some other insecure person who may ruin your insecurities.
It's that simple, yet so very difficult.
Like when you've lubed up and "accidentally" put it in the wrong hole... saying "Sorry, wrong hole" is such a simple answer, but doesn't cut it, sometimes.
Shit, between this and your post about camping outside people's houses, you scare me.
Originally posted by bausch
I've gone through someone's cell phone before. And their e-mail too. Don't ask me how I got the password. And their entire pc, temp files, history, saved files, keywords he searched for in google. I don't regret it at all.
You can never trust ANYBODY. It's bullshit when people say "If you can't trust someone you shouldn't be with them", because 98% of people cannot be trusted. You have to screen your partners to know what your dealing with.
If they have nothing to hide, they should have nothing to fear!
I know I'm a bit psycho, but I have a strong desire to know everything!!
Don't be insecure and date some other insecure person who may ruin your insecurities.
It's that simple, yet so very difficult.
Like when you've lubed up and "accidentally" put it in the wrong hole... saying "Sorry, wrong hole" is such a simple answer, but doesn't cut it, sometimes.
*shrug*
i don't follow you.
you don't know you're wearing a leash if you sit by the peg all day..
I am willing to bet she has, plant something in your phone and wait until your next argument and see if she brings it up. Some girls sit on the info and discuss it with their friends before busting your ass, others do it right away.
I have caught 3 girls going through my phone in the last year or so, the trick is to leave your shower running and just come out early haha. It's like seeing a deer in the headlights.
My gut instinct told me she was hiding something BIG. Talking on phone for a long time in the bathroom, on the back deck when its freezing out .. hanging up phone whenever i came in room.
I finally had enough and checked her call logs, text messages, recovered her deleted MSN chat history and confirmed everything
She had 3 other guys on the go. Fucking all 3.
Previous occurrence:
Girl moved in.. borrowed my cell a lot. Noticed weird text messages about a dude in love with her and her in love with him. Went on my computer and checked her IRC logs... yep. confirmed. Kicked her out.
I'd only ever do that if I suspected someone was up to something and they were unable to talk about it or got super defensive about certain questionable actions.
My gut instinct told me she was hiding something BIG. Talking on phone for a long time in the bathroom, on the back deck when its freezing out .. hanging up phone whenever i came in room.
I finally had enough and checked her call logs, text messages, recovered her deleted MSN chat history and confirmed everything
She had 3 other guys on the go. Fucking all 3.
Previous occurrence:
Girl moved in.. borrowed my cell a lot. Noticed weird text messages about a dude in love with her and her in love with him. Went on my computer and checked her IRC logs... yep. confirmed. Kicked her out.
I'd only ever do that if I suspected someone was up to something and they were unable to talk about it or got super defensive about certain questionable actions.
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