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Originally Posted by BestXXXPorn
Everything in life that you experience changes you... period...
If you shot yourself in the foot with a loaded weapon, you'd better be more careful next time. If you had a kid in that period I guarantee you've changed... If you adopted a pet, if you watched a TV show, if you LEARNED ANYTHING during a period you have forever changed...
You will make decisions differently, you will attach new and different emotions to stimuli, and genetically you have definitely changed...
To say you haven't changed is one of the most ridiculous statements I have ever heard...
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I may be wrong, but I don't necessarily think he's talking about that sort of thing.
I think he means the people who sort of... they're so bored that they think of things to do and ways to be solely to do it or to please others, not because it feels right or their experiences have led them there.
It does seem to be more common in females, but I have met guys who have changed their entire personality/look/interests for a girl or to have a "niche" of their own to make themselves feel special.
If that makes sense. Natural change/growth is a part of life, but forced change just means you're unsatisfied or insecure, IMO.