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Originally Posted by NTN
I am average looking make decent money but I cannot get any girls to have sex with me. I need help please. Anybody have ideas for me  |
Self confidence is like an aphrodisiac for women. You don't have to have money or be that good looking and if you are confident in yourself they will come to you instead of you chasing them. The number one way to turn off any girl is by chasing them. They can't stand desperation and I don't blame them for that at all. My suggestion is that you stop trying to get laid and start working on loving yourself (let's not be juvenile GFY).
Here is a hand up for you. Make a list of 10 things you like about yourself and that you would never change.... then make a list of the top 10 things you would like to change about yourself. Start accentuating the things you like about yourself and work on changing the things you don't like... Go buy some post-it notes and write the things you like about yourself on them and put them up in your house where you will see them frequently. Put a couple on your mirror in your bathroom... put one where you can see it before you go to sleep... put some in your car under the sun visor (and look at them when you get into your car). Add a few that have what you would LIKE to be... for example... when I did this I had little post-it notes all over the place that said "You are a God among men", "You are a success", "You can accomplish whatever you desire", "You own your own life"... I also put pictures of material things I wanted on my refrigerator... a new car... or a vacation spot. Just to keep me motivated.
The human brain is an amazing thing and you can influence it by taking the actions I have outlined. It works... seriously. If you commit to it you will get laid within the next few months.... I have no doubt.