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i had no problems getting into sex after my son or daughter were born, i was pissed i had to wait 6 weeks.no sigComment
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Okay I have to say I understand how it would bother you to see that, BUT like it has been said try being in her shoes. My God the pain, the gross shit coming out of your body and then the man you love doesn't want you anymore. (Shit no wonder women get depressed after having kids. I would want to die too. haha) You are acting very immature though. A man would get over that and fast. I don?t? mean disrespect like I am sure you don?t mean to disrespect your wife.
Anyway, I AM NEVER HAVING KIDS AND I HAVE NEVER WANTED THEM. All the talk in this thread?????NO KIDS???...a poopy diaper kills the mood of sex appeal????NO KIDS?????a screaming baby kills the mood for morning sex???????.NO KIDS.
All joking aside kids are for some people and I see the beauty in it I really do, but it is not for me. I wish more people would realized how much having a child changes your life and how much work, dedication and responsibility is involved before they toss out kids and then resented them or not love them the way they need to be. If it happen to me and I was stuck having to do it well of course I would do it and I know it would feel amazing to hold your own flesh made from love, but I will do everything I can to make sure it doesn?t happen.
I DO want to get married though and die together around 95 years old, in a nice room filled with pictures and collections of our lives together. You know when people are together for so long and in love for so long if one dies the other dies when they are old? We watch each other grow, change and deal with the different stages of life together. We travel around where ever we want and we work hard together to accomplish goals and dreams and get as much out of our lives as we can. Surviving the tough times that life throws at us and making it to 95 together with our best friend. There is my dream. With a love like that sharing the pleasures of life together and letting them enjoy all the pleasures they can in their life is one great feeling.
Okay I have to go to bed I hope you grow out of this phase in your life fast. That baby feels your feelings. Trust me they are little sponges. Grow out of this fast and help your wife so your baby will absorb positive feelings and energy. You have no choice now and it?s not fair to them. Go away for the weekend or something and just lie to yourself and have sex 5 times a day for 3 days. Just force it and make it happen. haha~ loryn@loryntaylor . com ~
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You know what, you're an idiot in some way. Like what did you expect??? Havent you seen some documentary about the birth process? I mean, you knew whats gonna happen, you knew she's gonna have her vagine ripped by the kids head, so why the fuck did you have to look between her legs?? I know seeing something like this would leave permanent damage on how I see my wife, thats why I initially refused to be with her while giving birth to our kids. In the end she had that "ceasars cut" or whatever the word for it is, so I wasnt allowed to be with her anyways.
To tell you the truth, a few minutes before the birth, I decided to join her and hold her hand, but I swore to myself I wont look between her legs. I am supposed to be there to support her not to look at the process and face problems later on. You're an idiot for not doing the same, you must have known you'd not like what you'd see.
And now? It's a psychological problem you have to deal with, finding an affair and leaving your wife just after you have your first child would be idiotic move from a total moron. And for such a reason ... The birth process isnt nice, it's disgusting but it's natural. Deal with it and behave like a man not some crybaby pussy that can't handle a bit of blood.Last edited by matuloo; 10-11-2006, 04:53 AM.Matuloo.Com - My Affiliate Blog - Making paid traffic work.Comment
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That's why I should have kept my sightline above the equator when my wife had our kid.
When the nurse asked, "would you like to see your baby being born?" and I said, "wow thanks!" I was sure I could have taken it. But instead like a horror film, Aliens, etc...
Regarding me being a crybaby, c'mon. I've been "goatse'd" for christ sakes. Whenever I go down on my wife (since rarely), the first thing I think about was a head popping out of there. It totally kills the moment. A goatse'd vagina doesn;t help either. It's a scar I don't think I can live with. A mistress woman sounds unbelievably enticing though.
I don't believe all married men are cheaters because of this.Comment
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that's your problem right there. Stop thinking of it as your son ripping your girl up. Think of it as your girl giving you the gift of a beautiful child and look at the beauty of it all. Nothing in life is pristine and perfectly clean. Maybe you should seek the help of counseling. You are not dealing with this very well and I don't think it's just what you are describing. You owe it to your wife who made a MAJOR sacrifice and went through major suffering to bring you and her the gift and beauty of life you both created.I'm disgusted by the childbirth. I think it should be like the old days when men stayed in the waiting room and passed out cigars later. Men shouldn't have to see his wife and kid until she is scrubbed, cleaned and sutured up and put back together again. No wonder so many men cheat after the kids arrive. It's fucking gross.
Now because of that nightmarish experience, I can't seem to get rid of this image of my newborn son's head ripping her insides out.
Childbirth can be a very traumatic experience but if you truly love your wife that shouldn't matter. Enjoy her closeness and her desire for you as you both make love and stop thinking of the baby when you make woopie.Comment
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Your wife should just kick you in the balls, oh wait.. you dont have any!
Oh if us ladies thought about the turd coming out of your ass every morning while we were giving head... none of you fucks would ever get head.
Grow up, see a therapist, and get the fuck over it. Need I remind some of you morons, if it werent for women giving birth..not a goddamn one of you would be here..Comment
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Do your wife a favor and just tell her all of this..you might not have that problem anymore cuase she might leave your ass if you are this fucked up in your tiny head.Comment
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We have 2 kids and we still fuck like rabbits. It doesnt bother me at all.
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I just sent your wife this thread.This was about 4 months ago and I don't know what to do. She's been really great about getting back in shape and is even starting to get a little aggressive in initiating sexual contact. Before she got pregnant, we were like rabbits - all the time, anywhere, every position. Then, when she got pregnant, I started seeing her in a bit of a different way.
Finally, when she gave birth, I saw way too much. Our son's head ripped her vagina open. She lost control of her bowels. The resulting mix of blood, shit, and amniotic fluid produced a sight and smell in the delivery room I never EVER want to experience again.
Any other GFYer dads experience this? I should have stayed in the waiting room but she insisted that I " be there for the birth of our child. "
I'm really at a loss here. The result is that I find her unattractive, even sexually repulsive now. She might think I'm having an affair, but I'm not. Yet.
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this is just another one of this idiots bullshit threads...check his past threads..all BSComment
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Some of us have large enough cocks and never hit air. You my son, and your 4 inch cock might have a small problem.Comment
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ahh .. .maybe you just don't love your wife?
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Thanx for the heads-up, my gf is due in 2 monthsComment
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I witnessed the birth of both my sons... watched the whole thing. I have no problem fucking my wife at all. I'm just pissed I had to wait for her to heal.
Honestly dude, if that bothered you that much then you're a total fucking pussy. Like you had a real tough job during the whole thing. Be a man for fuck's sake!Comment
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you are a fucking asshole. You don't deserve your wife and your child. See a shrink!!!I'm disgusted by the childbirth. I think it should be like the old days when men stayed in the waiting room and passed out cigars later. Men shouldn't have to see his wife and kid until she is scrubbed, cleaned and sutured up and put back together again. No wonder so many men cheat after the kids arrive. It's fucking gross.
Now because of that nightmarish experience, I can't seem to get rid of this image of my newborn son's head ripping her insides out.Comment
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After a couple of years you will forget about the childbirth. It will be a distant memory. Trust me
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Ok...is it me or is that guy just a huge fucking loser?
Childbirth is a beautiful and wonderful experience and personal I have to feel sorry for your wife. While she is sweating and in pain, you are being disgusted!!!!!
You had no problem impregnating your wife which is not the most sanitary thing in the world, unless of course your used a turkey baster and your hand ( which if you did I am sure your wife is eternally grateful for since I am sure she feels like pleasure with you rutting over her).
In case you forgot that was YOUR poor child coming out of her body. Not that you deserve the pleasure or right to be a father with that sickening demented attitude.
I find it hard to believe that you had no idea that would be happening. No one ever said that the miracle of childbirth was pretty, pain-free nor blood free you stupid moron....didn't you take sex ed in high school and I am assuming (probably wrongly) that you are out of high school or at the very least didn't drop out before the sex ed class.
As for your poor unfortunate wife if I were her (and I have to be thankful I am not) I would be throwing your sorry ugly mother fucking ass out the door and hitting your for child support, alimony, the house and anything else I could get from you and find myself a real man.
GROW UP AND SHOW YOUR SON WHAT A REAL MAN IS MADE OF!!!!!!!!!Comment
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You are a FUCKING moron. You do not deserve your child or your wife, let alone deserve to be a man. I am DISGUSTED at how you think and feel about your wife. All you care about is yourself. You should be very happy and honour to have a wife willing to do this for you. Many women are traumatized by the thought of giving birth but your wife is doing this for you. Giving you something precious that you both created. However, all you care about is what happened to your pathetic sex life.
I gave birth to my son 2 years ago and I am carrying another child. Both my husband and I are so happy and thankful that we are having beautiful healthy babies. Nothing has changed after the child birth. If anything, we are so much closer together because he feels so touched. He knows that it is the hardest thing that a woman has to go through. Yes it is scary for a man to watch because they are not used to it but you think it is even EASIER for us? First we have to go through 10-16 hours of contraction pains (and it gets more and more painful as it gets closer). Then you have to be stitched up, then go through a whole month of recovery.
You should be so thankful and blessed for God giving you a healthy baby. So now let me ask you a question: is all you can think about is sex???? If you still say yes, then all I can say is you do not deserve your child, wife, and you certainly do not deserve to live.Comment
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Yet another fine example of why I'm so fucking ECSTATIC I'm a Dyke!!!
When my Girlfriend gives birth I will be there to suport and cherish her as the wonderful sexy and beautiful women she is.
And I will LOVE/LUST her even more ample busom
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If you say so, but if there were more real men in the world instead of stupid little men with no balls we wouldn't have to throw your sorry ass out would we.
Saying you are not having an affair yet, what the fuck is that all about?
Why because you are afraid of a little blood and shit?
Christ grow up.....try being in her position when she is pushing that baby out and it burns like you are on fire and you feel like your eyes are going to explode out of your head.
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O can I offer a quick suggestion maybe we can shove a turkey up your ass and let you push it back out after 12 hours of some women punching you in the back.
O and btw no drugs since you are such a real man....Comment
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If I cheat on my wife, she gets half my shit. If she cheats on me, she still gets half my shit. Makes you wonder why the fuck should men get married in the first place STFU!!!!!
You know with all this talk of children I'm starting to find they are highly overrated. For every precious moment where the little fucking brat does something special, there are 1,000 moments where they drive you insane, puke on your TV, or shit n piss in your lap.
Women and children literally tear your life upside down. Marriage, sex life, your wives appearance, your social life, the list goes on and on and on. The truth is a large percentage of parents must HATE being parents. And now I'm starting to hate it.
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First don't tell me to shut the fuck up you big loser and second if you felt that way what the hell did you get married for you stupid idiot.
You are the one who asked her, she unfortunately accepted.
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Again, STFU you fat hippo. Who's fake nick are you again?
Btw, thanks for calling me a "loser," which in woman-speak means "you are a man who is smart enough to do things that are in HIS best interest."
Go seek your non "loser" then. You know the pussyfied man, or simply a pussy. A pussyfied man does what a woman wants - he is a docile schmuck who slaves away to pay her tampon bills and not pesters her for sex. The ideal husband.
Sex ends after marraige. Tr00f.Comment
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You know I realize in your little world (and I am sure that isn't all that is little about you) that I am an uneducated woman but because of men like you, women sacrifice themselves and their bodies for c section SURGERIEs which could be life threatening.
Did you ever consider that?Comment
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Well if I was married to you honey, it would have.
I am married to a nice guy who although far from perfect (but than who is but you) would never in his wildest dreams treat me the way you are treating your poor wife.
O and btw I am far from a fat hippo. If you judge people by looks than I guess you really are a low class loser with no morals and little respect for anyone but yourself.Last edited by MissEvil; 10-11-2006, 08:17 AM.Comment
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Dude if your wife lost weight quickly that's a 1 in 10,000 occurance. Chicks usually hide behind the 'childbirth excuse' for 2-10 years to shedding the pounds. So you are extremely lucky in that respect. Secondly, most chicks take a long time to get their sex drive back, so if she's ready to go then tape a picture of Britney Spears face over hers, and go to town.Comment
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Sure. Opting for a C-Sect should be a mandatory line item on all womens wedding vows. Divorce rate would plummet. Mens dingalings would be much happier. Mistresses would be unemployed.
For all the "sacrifice" you women do, you're still laying on your back in the operating room and thinking, "Hmmmmm ... If possible I should make it to the 7-10 year mark before divorcing him - that will yield maximum benefits!
And when I drop the bomb - I'll get a lawyer first and make sure he has to cover the costs."Comment
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OMG all these compliments are going to my head...how will I manage?
You sorry fucking loser, it is men like you that give the whole damn population of men a bad name.
I have to admit I am bi-sexual but I can certainly understand why women turn to being lesbians. I would rather deal with a couple of days of PMS for the rest of my life than be married to a close minded loser like you.
But than again maybe you would like your wife to do you with a strap on so you can find out how it feels.
If she isn't up to it right now I would be more than happy to apply for the job.Comment
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Or if that isn't to your liking maybe your can get one of your "special" male friends to help you out big boy....
Or you can find a male companion with a tight ass you can fuck instead of your wifeLast edited by MissEvil; 10-11-2006, 08:31 AM.Comment
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You need to remember and visualize how you remembered enjoying her before. Whenever your thoughts wander, bring them back to 'that isn't how it is now' and then go back to the enjoyable images / thoughts again. It will take some effort, on your own, and then in person with your wife.. give yourself enough time, and realize it won't happen overnight, don't worry that it won't happen overnight either.
Goodluck.
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Well I don't know if I would call your wife that since I have never met her, but if that is what you want to call her it is your right.
And to be honest what decent mid priced whore would want a small dicked two second guy unless she did it for the quick cash and good laugh she got.Comment
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You are angry, too angry. You're worrying about everything. Just stop and relax. Deal with one thing at a time, but don't concentrate on it. Start yoga or meditation, or a martial art.If I cheat on my wife, she gets half my shit. If she cheats on me, she still gets half my shit. Makes you wonder why the fuck should men get married in the first place STFU!!!!!
You know with all this talk of children I'm starting to find they are highly overrated. For every precious moment where the little fucking brat does something special, there are 1,000 moments where they drive you insane, puke on your TV, or shit n piss in your lap.
Women and children literally tear your life upside down. Marriage, sex life, your wives appearance, your social life, the list goes on and on and on. The truth is a large percentage of parents must HATE being parents. And now I'm starting to hate it.
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Someone owes me $2,000 because they didn't do any work that was paid for *pointing at pr0 / William / UntouchedMarkets*
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Owned by whom you???????????
I haven't laughed this hard in years..mainly because I haven't met a man this stupid.
I actually think I am turned on by you and your stupidity, maybe we should get together.....roflmao.
I really didn't realize that men still thought the way you do....close minded and fucked up.
In case you forgot this is not the 1800s....equal rights works in this country.
When you are ready for a real woman let me know and I will show you how to use what little you have.Comment
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maybe your dick is just too small and your ego overinflated?
My girl has had 4 kids naturally and it's not like pumping air at all.
You DO need counseling. The problem is YOU.. not her vagina. A pussy is a pussy. It will tighten up with time... besides... what did you expect? Her pussy to become virginized? From what I'm reading here you neither deserve your wife nor your child. If youc an't be man enough to continue to make love to the mother of your child just because of an insecurity about her vagina then I'd hate to see what happens when your child has his first bout of projectile vomit.. are you going to get a mistress child to hug and hold and care for then?
Be a fucking man and do what it takes to continue to love your wife for whatever she is "shaped" down there. You owe it to her and your child. You're a fucking pathetic man. No.. a boy... a man would not treat his wife like that.Comment
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Stay up by her head and hold her hand during delivery, douchebags. Don't jam your face down there in the mess.
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my wife is giving birth end of nov - I intend on being in the room with her to help, but will be focusing on her - not whats coming out of her. There is a strategy and reason why hospitals dont like husbands in the room because of that attitude - try to get over it - its a natural thing, reality. Get use to it and think , love is not just for the good times but also the times when you dont feel like love. Your putting way to much pressure on sex and not realizing what she went through because of you - be appreciative and grow upComment
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a friend of mine told me that her husband brought up to her how after she gave birth to their child, the sex was soooo much better. she and he both credit that to the fact that giving birth in front of someone is a very vulnerable moment where all the cards are out on the table (as i'm sure you can attest!).. they think that since she's given birth in front of him, she basically lost any other inhibitions in the bedroom and is up for anything he wants, and anything she may have wanted before but was too "shy" or private to try..
whatever you end up doing, though, please do not cheat on her. no one should be cheated on.. if you don't want to be with someone, then leave them (not that i sugget that you to leave her over this - i'm speaking in general), and if you don't want to leave them, then you shouldn't want to cheat on them.
and you should be really proud that she's back into shape!
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That is not the case. If it were, the species would have become extinct long ago. Some men don't want kids and some women don't. That is just natural variation.Comment
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Oh ouch.
If you wanted a woman who "works correctly" then why did you get this one pregnant? You had nine months to read and learn alllllll about the process and child-rearing from books, tv, friends, the internet, family, whereever! Now you're acting like it's a huge surprise and you don't want anything to do with it!
You couldn't have honestly believed that the stork brought babies in the middle of the night, right? They have to come from somewhere. A baby can weigh eight pounds, and you knew ahead of time what hole it had to come out of. Claiming ignorance is laughable.
You and your wife (I'm assuming) planned to have this child together. So go to counselling or do what you need to do to fulfill your part of the bargain. She's giving her 120%. So should you.email: [email protected]Comment
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