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  • jimthefiend
    So Fucking Banned
    • Oct 2003
    • 18889

    #51
    50 dudes who wish they hadn't told Playboy to get bent.

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    • Donny
      As you wish...
      • May 2002
      • 13754

      #52
      Originally posted by jimthefiend
      And lemme tell you where your "futures are going to take you".


      You'll be looking for shooting work in a matter of weeks. By then she will have moved on and will be shacked up with someone new.


      I know this to be true, I had a vision.





      You can't even separate yourself from GFY, much less the industry. Hypocrite.

      Separating myself would make me a hypocrite. Not sticking around. You're basing your statement on what MEN say. The example of the man they call Jesus, in the Bible, shows that he didn't hang out with the "church goers" of his time. He hung out with "sinners". So a true "Christian" would pattern their life after that example, rather than after the judgemental idiots that have soured all of us to Christianity.

      I hope to never get to the place where I feel too good or "righteous" to have a beer with you, Jim.

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      • jimthefiend
        So Fucking Banned
        • Oct 2003
        • 18889

        #53
        Originally posted by Donny
        Separating myself would make me a hypocrite. Not sticking around. You're basing your statement on what MEN say. The example of the man they call Jesus, in the Bible, shows that he didn't hang out with the "church goers" of his time. He hung out with "sinners". So a true "Christian" would pattern their life after that example, rather than after the judgemental idiots that have soured all of us to Christianity.

        I hope to never get to the place where I feel too good or "righteous" to have a beer with you, Jim.
        He may have hung out WITH whores, but he didn't hang out IN WHOREHOUSES.

        You see my point dude?





        Look. I have NOTHING against Christianity. Believe it or not both my father and grandfather were bigtime ministers. I GUARANTEE you that I know the Bible 20 times better than you. I'm also CERTAIN that I understand Christian theology more. Count on it.

        I'm just wondering wtf you're doing hanging out on GFY all day when you've had this recent spiritual awakening. Go to church dude.

        Forsake not the fellowship of the believers. Isnt that what it says? I'm also pretty sure the Bible is quite clear in telling you to flee from temptation.

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        • Donny
          As you wish...
          • May 2002
          • 13754

          #54
          Originally posted by jimthefiend
          He may have hung out WITH whores, but he didn't hang out IN WHOREHOUSES.

          You see my point dude?





          Look. I have NOTHING against Christianity. Believe it or not both my father and grandfather were bigtime ministers. I GUARANTEE you that I know the Bible 20 times better than you. I'm also CERTAIN that I understand Christian theology more. Count on it.

          I'm just wondering wtf you're doing hanging out on GFY all day when you've had this recent spiritual awakening. Go to church dude.

          Forsake not the fellowship of the believers. Isnt that what it says? I'm also pretty sure the Bible is quite clear in telling you to flee from temptation.

          My dad is a retired pastor. I had to memorize scriptures for Bible quizzes. I'm quite familiar with theology.

          Don't worry, I've been in church every Sunday and spend a lot of time on the phone with "Christians". And if you'll notice, I'm mostly in GFY threads that are about ME. There are a few exceptions to that, but not many since September 25th.

          Temptation? You think after producing porn 8 years that anything posted her is a "temptation" to me?
          Last edited by Donny; 10-10-2006, 02:09 PM.

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          • Theo
            HAL 9000
            • May 2001
            • 34515

            #55
            When you bring your personal life in pubic all the time expect the consequences of it.

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            • L-Pink
              working on my tan
              • Mar 2005
              • 39151

              #56
              Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
              When you bring your personal life in pubic all the time expect the consequences of it.
              You share personal details with people you wouldn't trust to park your car.

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              • jimthefiend
                So Fucking Banned
                • Oct 2003
                • 18889

                #57
                Originally posted by Donny
                You think after producing porn 8 years that anything posted her is a "temptation" to me?



                Lol ok dude.

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                • emthree
                  Dialer Kingpin
                  • Jun 2003
                  • 10816

                  #58
                  Donny is a fucking girl IMO. He keeps a fucking Diary of his life on the internet.
                  Need attention much?

                  • Sell Patches & Pills •

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                  • JP-pornshooter
                    Confirmed User
                    • Sep 2006
                    • 4007

                    #59
                    Why do people always jump to conclusions in their decision making based on religion.
                    jessus christ..cant you figure out yourself if something is right or wrong..
                    this is the only thing about Donny's situation really boiling my piss..if the guy was strong enough in himself to proclaim he doesnt want to do porn because he doesnt feel right about it..instead hes got to drag jesus and and other religious aspect into the equation, make your own fucking decisions.. right now you are no better than Iraqi millitants killing innocent lives in the name of Allah..religion told me to do so..go fuck yourself.
                    "Obscenity is whatever gives the Judge an erection." -- Author Unknown

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                    • CaptainHowdy
                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                      • Dec 2004
                      • 94150

                      #60
                      Originally posted by Soul_Rebel
                      When you bring your personal life in pubic all the time expect the consequences of it.
                      Amen...

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                      • Deputy Chief Command
                        Deputy Chief Command
                        • Nov 2005
                        • 4482

                        #61
                        Originally posted by L-Pink
                        You share personal details with people you wouldn't trust to park your car.

                        Amen ;

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                        • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                          Purveyor, Fine Asian Porn
                          • Jul 2004
                          • 38323

                          #62
                          Originally posted by Donny
                          My dad is a retired pastor. I had to memorize scriptures for Bible quizzes. I'm quite familiar with theology.

                          Don't worry, I've been in church every Sunday and spend a lot of time on the phone with "Christians". And if you'll notice, I'm mostly in GFY threads that are about ME.
                          "ME"...in capitals...

                          More blog quotes from the twisted and tormented mind of Deacon Donny:

                          Yes, I'm speaking of Christians again. The majority of them are hypocrites.
                          I was raised in church all my life. My father was a pastor for a number of those years. I say "was" because he's retired now. He was fortunate enough to retire at the age of 49.

                          But back to religion... there were two main denominations that I attended: the Assembly of God and the Pentecostal Church of God. That latter bunch was fucking crazy.
                          Religion is so much bullshit anyway.

                          The Bible has many inconsistencies.
                          Craig, Mike, and J.R. (of *********) think they're doing the work of the Lord by attempting to seek and save those addicted to porn. I think they just like the excitement of being involved in the adult industry.
                          The founders of the site (*********) claim God told them to try to save those of us in the porn industry and to help men who are "addicted to porn".

                          Supposedly God did this by whispering the simple word "porn" into their ears one day. Most men, when those voices in their head start bringing porn to mind, will simply jack off and be done with it.

                          But these guys couldn't face the fact that a personal relationship with "Santa Claus For Adults" (aka Jesus Christ or God) didn't relieve them of the male obsession with sex. They decided the voices were telling them to start attending porn conventions. Perhaps this would help ease the guilt they have for finding porn attractive?

                          At least in their minds they could feel better attending porn conventions if they're telling the believers back home that God wants them there, and not only does he want them there but he wants other Christians to donate money to pay for them to be there. Great racket!
                          Now, I personally don't believe these two men are doing any good whatsoever. Those who take one of their New Testaments or sign their yellow board will likely change nothing about their daily lives, but what they ARE accomplishing is exposing the Christian girls who came with them to give out Jesus Loves Porn Stars shirts to unbelievable amounts of porn.
                          So much for Donny not remaining here to preach and prosetylize (I kind of suspected that was his agenda from day one, given his "Jesus complex")...I guess lying isn't a sin, at least not according to Donny Christ.

                          He made millions shooting porn you know...



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                          • bl4h
                            Confirmed User
                            • Jul 2006
                            • 1282

                            #63
                            Originally posted by AVM
                            I think a mid-life crisis accelerated this entire process, not religion. When you're conditioned to be a hollow, superfictial shell - this is somewhat expected later in life. As time goes on and you begin to age, you become more & more aware of the unescapable truth. You feel a spiritual void....intellectuals typically turn to quantum mechanics, philosophy, or live life as normal before ride is over-- for comfort. While others, as in this case - with no self awareness or assurance turn to Christ or any deity-based religion for comfort.

                            The short of it....albeit I hate organized religion, and typically would classify this abrupt lifestyle change as "INSANE". However when someone turns to it at this point in their life? it's out fear. Not insanity, so if anything, I think he needs support of his dim-witted much much youngersidekick. Such a quick judgment/reaction to this entire circumstance....speaks volumes about her.


                            I doubt I need your assessment on the situation.

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                            • SureFire
                              Confirmed User
                              • Jan 2003
                              • 4398

                              #64
                              Originally posted by Donny
                              Separating myself would make me a hypocrite. Not sticking around. You're basing your statement on what MEN say. The example of the man they call Jesus, in the Bible, shows that he didn't hang out with the "church goers" of his time. He hung out with "sinners". So a true "Christian" would pattern their life after that example, rather than after the judgemental idiots that have soured all of us to Christianity.

                              I hope to never get to the place where I feel too good or "righteous" to have a beer with you, Jim.
                              Honestly Donny I tried to stay out of this, and just wishing you the best, but you are loosing it.

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                              • RRRED
                                Confirmed User
                                • Jan 2001
                                • 6754

                                #65
                                Originally posted by Donny
                                Jim,

                                Perhaps you should get your story straight before making ridiculous posts.

                                1. Taking time apart is my decision.

                                2. We're not "breaking up". We've just been together 24/7 for almost 6 years.

                                3. Belinda and I started dating when she was barely 19. She was a freshman in college living in the dorms, barely out of mommy and daddy's house. If we're going to do the "forever" thing, I believe she needs some time on her own, whether she agrees or not.

                                4. She wants to keep producing porn on her own. This is no BS: I told her I'm proud of her running a business on her own. She'll have plenty of support and will learn a lot. This is going to be good for her.

                                5. I am definitely going through a time in my life where I need some time alone as well. I was with my ex-wife for 10 years. Almost immediately after we broke up, Belinda and I started our relationship. So for 16 years I've lived with someone. I need some time alone right now.

                                Nobody has been "dumped" at this point. Who knows what the future holds? That's what we're doing this for: to find the answer to that question.
                                So, you're not going to be living together but you are going to be loyal to each other and agree not to see other people?

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                                • Donny
                                  As you wish...
                                  • May 2002
                                  • 13754

                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by SureFire
                                  Honestly Donny I tried to stay out of this, and just wishing you the best, but you are loosing it.
                                  Surely you know what the use of quotes means. I put into "quotes" those phrases or words that a typical Christian would use. I realize there are few on GFY who read much, but surely YOU know how to read for context.

                                  Re-read what I've written. Pay attention to how I wrote it this time.

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                                  • Donny
                                    As you wish...
                                    • May 2002
                                    • 13754

                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by RRRED
                                    So, you're not going to be living together
                                    Correct.

                                    Originally posted by RRRED
                                    but you are going to be loyal to each other and agree not to see other people?
                                    Throughout our relationship, Belinda and I allowed each other the freedom to "see other people" as long as we were honest about it. In other words, Belinda's her own person and can do as she wishes.

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                                    • Donny
                                      As you wish...
                                      • May 2002
                                      • 13754

                                      #68
                                      By the way, ADWG:

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                                      You've had nothing good to say. All you want to do is try to argue with me. It's rather refreshing to not bother reading your posts. Once you decide to stop projecting your feelings of frustration with organized religion onto me, perhaps I'll read your posts again. But for now I won't be reading a word you've written, unless someone else quotes you. And even then I'll skip over it. If you have something of importance to say to me, instead of trying to show how large your penis is on a message board, feel free to email me:

                                      [email protected]

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                                      • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                                        Purveyor, Fine Asian Porn
                                        • Jul 2004
                                        • 38323

                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by Donny
                                        By the way, ADWG:

                                        AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
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                                        You've had nothing good to say. All you want to do is try to argue with me. It's rather refreshing to not bother reading your posts. Once you decide to stop projecting your feelings of frustration with organized religion onto me, perhaps I'll read your posts again. But for now I won't be reading a word you've written, unless someone else quotes you. And even then I'll skip over it. If you have something of importance to say to me, instead of trying to show how large your penis is on a message board, feel free to email me:

                                        [email protected]
                                        More quotes from the Jesus "Donny" Christ (these are all real):

                                        "There's no way I'll ever go back to [Christianity]. It's all bullshit. There's no supreme being watching out over everybody."
                                        Luke: "Has he (Donny's ex-Pastor Dad) asked you for a free log-in?"

                                        Donovan: "No. He did ask me to see photos I photographed of people who he knew.
                                        Donovan: "To be honest, I hate Christians because of their hypocrisy and how they shun people who aren't doing what they think is right."


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                                        • BradM
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                                          • Dec 2003
                                          • 3397

                                          #70
                                          Donny: How many years is it? You keep changing your mind. It was 6, now 8.... pretty soon it is going to be 900. Better pick a year, write it down and stick to it.

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                                          • SureFire
                                            Confirmed User
                                            • Jan 2003
                                            • 4398

                                            #71
                                            Originally posted by Donny
                                            Surely you know what the use of quotes means. I put into "quotes" those phrases or words that a typical Christian would use. I realize there are few on GFY who read much, but surely YOU know how to read for context.

                                            Re-read what I've written. Pay attention to how I wrote it this time.
                                            Re-read it.

                                            Donny, I don't want to debate or argue; I wish you the best of luck and I hope you will do the same.

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                                            • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                                              Purveyor, Fine Asian Porn
                                              • Jul 2004
                                              • 38323

                                              #72
                                              Originally posted by BradM
                                              Donny: How many years is it? You keep changing your mind. It was 6, now 8.... pretty soon it is going to be 900. Better pick a year, write it down and stick to it.
                                              Don't forget that he's made millions of dollars in those 6-8 years of shooting porn too (even though he didn't make much at first and went bankrupt 3 or so years back)!!!

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                                              • iwantchixx
                                                Too lazy to set a custom title
                                                • Oct 2002
                                                • 12860

                                                #73
                                                that's bull... if she really loved him she would support his life decision and still find a way to do what she wants to do in life.

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                                                • tony299
                                                  lurker
                                                  • Aug 2002
                                                  • 57021

                                                  #74
                                                  First off I will ask again Donny you got a job, you have a kid to take of why arent you working yet?? Secondly to Belinda, if you need a break from each other its not going to work. You both should move on. My wife was 18 when we met, got married to me 19 and we are with each other 24/7. In fact the end of the month it will be 7 yrs of marriage. Either it works or it doesn't, if you have to work at it really hard its not a fit. Just my two cents.

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                                                  • Sly
                                                    Let's do some business!
                                                    • Sep 2004
                                                    • 31379

                                                    #75
                                                    Why are the same people in every Donny religion thread?
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                                                    • BradM
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                                                      • Dec 2003
                                                      • 3397

                                                      #76
                                                      Originally posted by Sly
                                                      Why are the same people in every Donny religion thread?
                                                      Same reason you are.

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                                                      • tony299
                                                        lurker
                                                        • Aug 2002
                                                        • 57021

                                                        #77
                                                        Originally posted by iwantchixx
                                                        that's bull... if she really loved him she would support his life decision and still find a way to do what she wants to do in life.
                                                        I have to disagree, its not like Donny said I going to wear a different type of clothes. He has decided to change his whole belief system and if it wasnt the belief system he had when Belinda fell in love with him. I can see that.It happens people change and they are different, people have a huge weight loss then get divorced they arent the same people.
                                                        Last edited by tony286; 10-10-2006, 06:01 PM.

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                                                        • SureFire
                                                          Confirmed User
                                                          • Jan 2003
                                                          • 4398

                                                          #78
                                                          Originally posted by Sly
                                                          Why are the same people in every Donny religion thread?
                                                          I posted two times in this thread. I tend to stay away from born-again-christian's threads...they scare me

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                                                          • Sly
                                                            Let's do some business!
                                                            • Sep 2004
                                                            • 31379

                                                            #79
                                                            Originally posted by BradM
                                                            Same reason you are.
                                                            Am I? I think I've posted in 2.
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                                                            • Belinda
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                                                              • Jul 2005
                                                              • 4365

                                                              #80
                                                              Originally posted by iwantchixx
                                                              that's bull... if she really loved him she would support his life decision and still find a way to do what she wants to do in life.
                                                              I DO support his decision, I have said in every thread about Donny that I support his decision, one of his decisions, and mine, was that we take some time to explore ourselves and what we really want in life. He needs to do his religious stuff and I want to stay in this business. This is giving us both what we need.
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                                                              • Donny
                                                                As you wish...
                                                                • May 2002
                                                                • 13754

                                                                #81
                                                                Originally posted by BradM
                                                                Donny: How many years is it? You keep changing your mind. It was 6, now 8.... pretty soon it is going to be 900. Better pick a year, write it down and stick to it.
                                                                What are you talking about?

                                                                I'll clarify times for you:

                                                                I've been shooting porn 8 years.
                                                                Belinda and I have been together almost 6 years.

                                                                Please point out the contradiction. If it exists, it was probably just a screw up.

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                                                                • BradM
                                                                  Confirmed User
                                                                  • Dec 2003
                                                                  • 3397

                                                                  #82
                                                                  Originally posted by Sly
                                                                  Am I? I think I've posted in 2.
                                                                  Then how do you know who is "in all of them" as you said? Posting is one thing. Looks like you're reading them.

                                                                  Now if you said "Why are the same people [posting] in every Donny religion thread?" I would have cut you some slack. But you never cut anyone else any. So....



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                                                                    • Mar 2006
                                                                    • 9483

                                                                    #83
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                                                                    • Donny
                                                                      As you wish...
                                                                      • May 2002
                                                                      • 13754

                                                                      #84
                                                                      Originally posted by iwantchixx
                                                                      that's bull... if she really loved him she would support his life decision and still find a way to do what she wants to do in life.
                                                                      She's very supportive.

                                                                      Please note:

                                                                      There is much more to the story than has been made public. None of you know all the details. If you did it would make perfect sense to you. Since you don't you're writing in ignorance.

                                                                      Carry on.

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                                                                      • L-Pink
                                                                        working on my tan
                                                                        • Mar 2005
                                                                        • 39151

                                                                        #85
                                                                        Originally posted by Donny
                                                                        She's very supportive.

                                                                        Please note:

                                                                        There is much more to the story than has been made public. None of you know all the details. If you did it would make perfect sense to you. Since you don't you're writing in ignorance.

                                                                        Carry on.

                                                                        You're gonna be a priest and can only date boys?

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                                                                        • Sly
                                                                          Let's do some business!
                                                                          • Sep 2004
                                                                          • 31379

                                                                          #86
                                                                          Originally posted by BradM
                                                                          Then how do you know who is "in all of them" as you said? Posting is one thing. Looks like you're reading them.

                                                                          Now if you said "Why are the same people [posting] in every Donny religion thread?" I would have cut you some slack. But you never cut anyone else any. So....



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                                                                          • Donny
                                                                            As you wish...
                                                                            • May 2002
                                                                            • 13754

                                                                            #87
                                                                            Thanks to all of you:

                                                                            http://www.***************.com/2006/...re-please.html

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                                                                            • AsianDivaGirlsWebDude
                                                                              Purveyor, Fine Asian Porn
                                                                              • Jul 2004
                                                                              • 38323

                                                                              #88
                                                                              Originally posted by Donny
                                                                              (To BradM) What are you talking about?

                                                                              Please point out the contradiction. If it exists, it was probably just a screw up.
                                                                              Impossible! You were infallible when you denounced Christianity and the *********, and you are infallible now as the Lord Jesus Christ.

                                                                              BTW, I haven't been trying to argue with you, mostly I have been posting quotes of yours, just to point out the fuzziness of your thinking, lack of credibility, and foolishness of your ways.

                                                                              Okay, help everyone believe you, break down the millions of dollars you say you've earned over - what is it - eight years of shooting (including the lean early years, and when you went bankrupt in 2003):

                                                                              2006
                                                                              2005
                                                                              2004
                                                                              2003
                                                                              2002
                                                                              2001
                                                                              2000
                                                                              1999

                                                                              I won't argue with you about it, I'll take you at your word.

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                                                                              • Zarathustra
                                                                                Confirmed User
                                                                                • Oct 2005
                                                                                • 1094

                                                                                #89
                                                                                Originally posted by Donny
                                                                                oh stop it!!!!

                                                                                Good luck anyways

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                                                                                • Jace
                                                                                  FBOP Class Of 2013
                                                                                  • Jan 2004
                                                                                  • 35562

                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  the gospel of Thomas states that we should fall into the trap of organized religion, and that true faith of god is found in our hearts

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                                                                                  • SureFire
                                                                                    Confirmed User
                                                                                    • Jan 2003
                                                                                    • 4398

                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    Originally posted by Donny
                                                                                    Didn't click on the link. I am guessing that you will post on your blog and give this place a rest for your coming out party that was almost two weeks ago

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                                                                                    • fr0gman
                                                                                      Confirmed User
                                                                                      • Feb 2005
                                                                                      • 2093

                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      Originally posted by AVM
                                                                                      Convenient enough?

                                                                                      Come on...religion RARELY, if ever, comes into play during a relationship. In fact unless devowed extremist, I doubt the subject even comes up often with 20-40 yr old couples. Let alone the monumental decision of when it does come up, "leave soon after". Oh, and he quits his job....


                                                                                      heh, never....thought I'd be on the defense for religion.

                                                                                      But I think people (biasly) look at this circumstance as:


                                                                                      Religion (guy) vs Porn (girl)

                                                                                      Meanwhile this is a unique circumstance, of which warrants objective reasoning. You can't simply classify her as the savior, and the "right" of the two because she promotes the less primitive form of society (non-religion). Guy quits high paying job, the biggest issue/subject - money (72k yr concept being milked). Female leaves soon after....piece it together.



                                                                                      I think that you are missed one very important part. Any time that you introduce a paradigm shift into a relationship, unless all parties are in accord there will be friction and if one party is less equipped to deal with change the natural and visceral reaction is to flee the situation that causes the discomfort.

                                                                                      You can apply all the moral /ethical/ religious color to this that you want but the fact is that there is only ONE reason that people make polar shifts in their lives. When people feel that their choices have been limited to a degree that they see not way to easily affect change many often make powerful shifts. Some turn to drugs to change their internal state. Others turn to religion and still others commit suicide. In every case except the latter the pain and disease continue.

                                                                                      Quitting porn, giving all your money to the church of the rising sun nor terminating your relationship will make any of the things that are going on inside suddenly vanish. Donny needs some professional therapy and that is an obvious fact. My guess is that he feel out of control and making this shift is a really good way to shirk responsibility.

                                                                                      Both Donny and Belinda are having the same reaction to a common pain. Donny is running to the Lord to escape responsibility for his life and Belinda is running away to escape responsibility for her issues.

                                                                                      I say that we get them both on Dr. Phil...
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                                                                                      • fr0gman
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                                                                                        • Feb 2005
                                                                                        • 2093

                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Originally posted by Donny
                                                                                        Correct.



                                                                                        Throughout our relationship, Belinda and I allowed each other the freedom to "see other people" as long as we were honest about it. In other words, Belinda's her own person and can do as she wishes.
                                                                                        Well that is the hallmark of a strong (read: fucked up) relationship.

                                                                                        Donny,

                                                                                        Do yourself and your family a favor. Stop posting here or anyplacve for that metter. Get some professional, secular counseling and then take your family on vacation for a month. Don't talk about porn or god or anything that does not directly involve the productive growth of the family.... but above all stop wallowing in self'ism and stop posting your private life in public forums.

                                                                                        No good will come of this.
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                                                                                        • reynold
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                                                                                          • Oct 2002
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                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          I'm just hoping for the best for both of you then.

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