I know there's always threads like this but search is horrible on this forum.
Preferably something like
http://www.adulttemplatesevolution.com/ themes with the cartoon, a nice logo, PSDs with the template, 2 column designs or three column but sidebars gotta be on the right hand side, and the post area should look good with borders and all that stuff they have at
http://www.adulttemplatesevolution.com/