Swingers Cruise in two weeks... anyone else going?

I can imagine the disease spreading on that thing... went on a cruise with my family a few months ago..3 of us got bronchitis-like illness on the ship. Mix that with 2000 walking STDs... wow.

Just out of curiosity, are there a lot of hotties like Alysha on swingers events like this?

So, all swingers have STD's now? I guess you're completely uneducated on this, huh?

This will be our third swinger's cruise, but the first full ship takeover. I had sex with several different women on the first two cruises, and they were all what everyone here would consider hotties.

But, that doesn't mean that everyone on the ship is a hottie... in fact, there is a large "older" crowd, as they are usually the ones who can afford to get away for a week or so. But, there will be plenty of 20 and 30 somethings on board, just like the last two... and we'll have a great time again, except this time we have less rules... like being able to be naked by the pool.

Have been to tons of lifestyle clubs and parties, never a cruise or resort tho.. that's our next goal, can't wait.

Actually i find people in the lifestyle are more fanatical about being safe, clean, and using protection than the average people who hook up in a club. they generally have committed relationships and don't want to bring something home that could cause issue there, not to mention the fact that there's respect. Swingers usually come prepared with protection, can most people in a bar going out with the intention of picking someone up say that? Doubt it.

i would go, but i dont want to catch aids...

i have no idea what you're talking about since i only fuck hookers bareback..

what kind of losers pick up chicks in bars?

NOICE!.. would love to go..

wow... the ignorance just oozes

My wife and I would like to go on one of those cruises sometime... but we won't be making this one... we have a young daughter (just getting ready to turn 3)... it makes it hard to attend events like this. Our club is partnered with LoveVoodoo to promote Hedo tho.

i would guess NO on that one...ever been in a swinger club/bar...

never been because I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I was just curious what kind of crowd comes to these parties

I can't speak for clubs everywhere but our club here in NC is a nice clean environment with a great mix of people and there are definitely some very sexy couples that attend. We have an on-premises club that is 15,000 square feet. Here are some pics: http://www.carolinafriends.com/album/

Over this winter they have made a ton of improvements and we haven't updated the pictures yet... but they should give you an idea of what the club looks like.

On friday nights they allow single men... so the crowd tends to be a bit smaller. Usually 60-90 couples. On saturday night it's couples and single ladies only... average attendance is usually 150-180 couples. On holiday weekends that number is more like 250-300 couples. We also have hotel takeover events 4-5 times a year and 500-600 couples attend those (at least here in Charlotte).

The people that attend come from all walks of life but I would say that there are many more financially stable people than average income people in general. Many are business owners or professionals.

Alot of "vanilla" people (this is a term that swingers use to describe people who are not swingers) have misconceptions about what swinging is... and there are also alot of swingers that cause this misconception because they have a narrow mind about the lifestyle in general. Our club has alot of active swingers... but it is rarely an orgy type of situation like the big mainstream paysites portray. The most common sexual activity is purely between couples in our club.

Everyone is not the same... but I enjoy watching my wife get fucked while she is eating pussy and I am getting blown by the girl she is eating out. Our sex life has improved 1000% and there is no doubt about that... but the biggest benefit has been the change in our relationship in general. We really don't have any secrets... we have great communication and there is no jealousy whatsoever. It's refreshing... I have to tell you... people are always bitching about marriage... well, I couldn't possibly feel anymore free. My life is awesome and there is no doubt. I think I am the luckiest and happiest man alive.

BTW... if you ever need a place to shoot here in the Charlotte, NC area... let me know... I have a key to the club. Hit me up and we will work out the details. NOTE: The club is only available for this purpose monday-thursday.

the hot ones are waiting in the toilet

Are you sure you did not accidentally book at http://www.gaycruisevacations.com/?

well perhaps you should consider donating yourself to the CDC :P

Ive never been. The lifestyle is pretty intresting to me.
So tell me is it protected sex for the most part? Or do you see a lot of unprotected sex at these things?

Im pretty much a germ phobe as it is, seeing lots of unprotected swaping although hot in the movies would probably freak me out in real life if I was involved.

Whats it like? Ive always wanted go and observe.

The pervert in me I guess. Hey, I am after all Boneprone.
Seems intresting indeed.

Been to Plenty of swinger clubs, Columbus, Atlanta, Miami, Vegas etc. All seem pretty much the same. There are nice places, like in Atlanta etc, and there are dives. No matter where you go it seems the place is usually full of unattractive or very FAT people... but you do have exceptions. We have met some of the people that we have shot with over the years at swinger clubs, so there is always that chance. For me, that lifestyle ended a long time ago. I never found it to be my cup of tea and much rather enjoy a quite night at home with just my new family.

Most people use protection... I haven't seen many people going without it. We have partners (2 couples) that we play with without protection... but we are the only ones they ever play with... so we aren't that worried about it.

Another important thing to remember is that females can catch almost all of the same shit from oral sex as vaginal sex. We are very selective about our partners and are regularly tested (once a month) to be safe. We rarely play with more than one couple a month...but it has happened.

In 5 years of involvement in the lifestyle, I have never caught anything. I have had Chlamydia before... but my first wife gave it to me... and it's how I found out she was having an affair... :P

That looks like a great cruise! You'll have to tell us how it was when you get back.

Brad