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  • TurboAngel
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    • Jun 2003
    • 30122

    #1

    I feel so guilty.

    I have been going up the street to the Nursing home and helping look after my friends mom, I went up early on Friday and she was a mess. I call all 6 of her kids and got one to come up there. I told them and the nurses that something was wrong with her, she's 79 and has Alzheimer's.

    Well I finally get the nurse to tell me she had fallen at 7 AM. By the time I hear this poor old Viola has been in so much pain it's a sin. So come to find out at 5 pm she had broken her hip and they finally take her to the hospital. I feel so bad I didn't make them take her in the AM when I knew something was wrong.

    I don't know about you but my experience is when people that old break there hip the end up dieing. I just wish I had made them go to the hospital soon and I hadn't let those horrible nurses pick her up and fling her into the wheelchair so she could use the bathroom.

    She has 3 screws in her hip now, I just hope she doesn't go back to that home.



    Last edited by TurboAngel; 09-10-2006, 06:13 AM.
  • DarkJedi
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    • Feb 2001
    • 28301

    #2

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    • Dragar
      Confirmed User
      • Sep 2006
      • 1079

      #3
      Why do you feel guilty
      sounds like you are doing more then most people would

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      • MaLayLaH

        #4
        We put my grandmother in a home last year after she had come out of the hospital. We ended up removing her from there a month later. The nurses treated them like babies, gave them time out. They would make all of them come to their meals in the cafeteria in a wheel chair, even if they could walk. I remember when she left, she stood up from her wheelchair and one old woman freaked out and went "SHE'S WALKING" like she saw a miracle. I don't trust most retirement homes now.

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        • TurboAngel
          H.B.I.C.
          • Jun 2003
          • 30122

          #5
          Originally posted by DarkJedi

          I know how you are hun and right now I realy can't take it ok.


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          • Nylz
            Confirmed User
            • Apr 2004
            • 8285

            #6
            Originally posted by DarkJedi
            No sig.

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            • DateDoc
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              • Feb 2005
              • 14243

              #7
              Sounds like you did a lot. Sounds like the nursing home sucks and is negligent!

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              • DarkJedi
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                • Feb 2001
                • 28301

                #8
                Originally posted by Nylz

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                • PlugRush Sascha
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                  • Jan 2004
                  • 2772

                  #9
                  You're doing more than most people just by helping and being there. Don't worry about this, it's a mistake anyone could make. You're not a doctor, so you don't know when something is broken. The nurses should've been more attentive, considering it's their job to be there and I'm sure they've seen more than one broken hip in their lives.
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                  • TurboAngel
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                    • Jun 2003
                    • 30122

                    #10
                    Thanks guy's.

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                    • Scootermuze
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                      • Dec 2001
                      • 4513

                      #11
                      As for the broken hip.. Some doctors say that it isn't
                      the fall that breaks the hip bone, it's the hip bone breaking that causes the fall..

                      And I've seen, as you, that once that happens things seem to go downhill from there..

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                      • FuqALot
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                        • Dec 2001
                        • 3817

                        #12
                        Originally posted by DarkJedi
                        hahahhaah

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                        • UniversalPass Pete
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                          • Dec 2004
                          • 7368

                          #13
                          It is not your fault! The damm nurse should have had her checked out after the fall! they treat those people like shit in those places! I watched my grandmother go through that.


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                          • wdsguy
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                            • Dec 2002
                            • 19568

                            #14
                            nursing homes are a death trap.

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                            • Ace_luffy
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                              • Feb 2005
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by DarkJedi



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                              • Machete_
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                                • Oct 2002
                                • 14579

                                #16
                                assholes...I hope you guys break you hip and have to wait for days untill some kind person help you. Chances are you wont have any friends to help you.

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                                • BlackCrayon
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                                  • Jun 2003
                                  • 19634

                                  #17
                                  don't feel guilty. without you caring more than her own children to visit her she might not of ever got the care she needed.
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                                  • HAPPYPEEKERS
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                                    • Feb 2004
                                    • 7566

                                    #18
                                    I know the feeling.. when my granny was alive.. she was in a nursing home for a few years at the end..

                                    A TV FELL OFF OF THE DRESSER AND LANDED ON HER HIP.. SMASHING IT??!!

                                    how in the fucking hell does a tv fall off of a dresser onto an 80 pound woman??

                                    She passed away :-(

                                    That is EXACTLY the reason we just bought my mom a small house.. she will never be in a nursing home.. I will take care of her myself until she passes away for damn sure!
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                                    • TurboAngel
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                                      • Jun 2003
                                      • 30122

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Happypeekers
                                      I know the feeling.. when my granny was alive.. she was in a nursing home for a few years at the end..

                                      A TV FELL OFF OF THE DRESSER AND LANDED ON HER HIP.. SMASHING IT??!!

                                      how in the fucking hell does a tv fall off of a dresser onto an 80 pound woman??

                                      She passed away :-(

                                      That is EXACTLY the reason we just bought my mom a small house.. she will never be in a nursing home.. I will take care of her myself until she passes away for damn sure!

                                      Wow, I'm sorry hun.

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                                      • baddog
                                        So Fucking Banned
                                        • Apr 2001
                                        • 107089

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by wdsguy
                                        nursing homes are a death trap.

                                        No, death's waiting room

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                                        • E$_manager
                                          Too lazy to set a custom title
                                          • Apr 2006
                                          • 13557

                                          #21
                                          You should't be guilty. Calm down. You did all you could as i understood, then why you feel guilty.
                                          If you wouldn't pay attention on her, then you would be guilty, but not after what you did for her.
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