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Originally Posted by A1R3K
I'm trying to talk some sense into him until he made it personal, and since I'm not one to back down, I'm guns blazing.
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Originally Posted by AlienQ
So basically posting does nothing but hurt my business, I am not allowed an opinion, I am not alllowed to point anything out or have a thought on a subject relating to the biz as a whole.
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This is the thing, you don't post an opinion, you don't point anything out... you make it personal every single time. You can't possibly point out someone's typo without making statements about their education, or mental intellect, or even their business.
You make it personal every single time, trying to rip into people as much as you possibly can right out of the gate. You don't wait until it escalates, you just go for the kill immediately and hope to win any argument by having them hate you.
And every single time, you end up with a thread like this where 99% of the people are laughing at you, hating you, trying to explain this crap to you again and again. And yet you keep right on thinking that you're right.
See, everyone posts an opinion, makes points, even gets into arguments... but it's because you make it personal, and go on the attack in the biggest way you possibly can that makes it hard for people to want to work with you.
You can't even see the difference between a rational debate and personal/professional attacks and insults.
But what ever. Keep struggling to pay those bills all the while pounding your chest about everyone else being wrong and you being right. You're the man. You've got it all figured out, we don't. You win. Enjoy the next Christmas you have to cancel.