I hear ya' man. However violence/degrading acts against women (or people in general) is just one of my main peeves, so I call it out when I see it.
I've had plenty of friends who might scare the bejesus out of most people in polite society (if you want to call it that), simply by their outward appearance (bikers, punks, etc), yet they had hearts of gold, and were the nicest people once you looked past their rough exterior. Likewise I'm sure many people would deplore my involvement in the porn biz, even though most of my content is pretty vanilla.
I've actually worked with TT Boy's brother, and Talon was a total pro too (I was kinda surprised to later learn that he started in the biz by doing gay porn, but he was requested by the female talent I was working with so I hired him - in any case, since he is only doing straight scenes now, I would hire him again).
I'm sure some of what he does is an act, and of course, most of the female talent know about him or what the scene is, so I'll leave it at that.
Good luck with you program...
ADG