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I'd have to make the Hawaii DVD but I already have several others made from trips with his brother, cousin and friends. I also have lots of pictures I've taken of him since he was a young kid which I could mix in with my other pictures and make a couple slide show DVDs. I could hand him 10 or 12 hours worth of stuff he can relate to.
I thought it would be a nice way to pass the time he will have at home and maybe he could have his friends over to watch it with him. Now I'm concerned about how it might affect him. I don't think it should be his choice. He may think he can handle it but it might have an adverse affect on him. It would be like letting him pick the amount of medication he takes.
Right now he is in Miami and has to have the surgeries before he can go to his home town. His wife has stayed by his side and many of his friends and co workers have travelled to see him. He seems to be upbeat and ready for the challenge.
His body will heal and with a little luck he may get a really good prosthetic leg and continue to be productive but it won't matter if his mind isn't into it. Attitude is everything in a situation like this and I want to be very careful I don't do anything to undermine his.
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