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Originally Posted by Brujah
I believe it's a choice, and it's more likely influenced by environment or other but not written into your genes that you'll be gay or straight. Maybe you're equally likely to be either gay or straight but tend to be driven toward one or the other by societal norms and values.
I don't believe it's hardcoded into your genes and you are born with it.
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So you believe that the environment (nurturing) when younger affects the way the brain responds to things later on?
That very well could be so...
Being in phone sex, we get a LOT of clients who have closet gay fantasies... and when I probe (hehe) into their mind about their upbringing/background... a lot were either just raised by their mother... or have always been submissive/dominated by women in general... and a LOT have low testosterone levels. They stay straight because that's the norm.. but spend 200-300/week on exploiting their homosexual tendencies with either mistresses, phone girls, cam girls, or even secret downlow sex.
But then again.. where do the big hairy, grr, manly, bears come from? lol
AND...
with chicks...
Would a chick turn gay because she's never got the proper sort of reinforcement from men? Or she just in general enjoys it? I don't know if I know many GIRLS who are just gay just because.. if I stop and think about it.. most chicks I know who are gay.. have some sort of male trauma in their life.. or have a narcissistic personality that they enjoy exploiting on a weaker, abused female...