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Originally Posted by polish_aristocrat
it's a choice? you mean a 15 year old boy realizes he has no luck with the girls so he decided to find a boyfriend and get fucked in the ass?
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Originally Posted by Sly
Do you choose to be straight? I sure as hell don't... that's what I am. I never sat around and said "hmm, tits look pretty good... maybe I'll go that route."
Now some people I think are gay for attention (it sounds stupid, but I have a friend... I swear she isn't really gay)... but in general, I don't think it's a choice. There have been studies showing differences in brain activity between gay and straight people... what causes that, who knows.
The only thing I know is that I could not "choose" to be gay.
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I believe it's a choice, and it's more likely influenced by environment or other but not written into your genes that you'll be gay or straight. Maybe you're equally likely to be either gay or straight but tend to be driven toward one or the other by societal norms and values.
I don't believe it's hardcoded into your genes and you are born with it.