My point is if she was going to dump you for doing something you wanted to do ...
And that is exactly WHY relationships don't last anymore. The allllllll
ME syndrome. 2 yrs makes it a more than casual relationship. A serious one in fact which the other person DOES have a say in what the one does.
Don't get caught up in the allll me thing so early in life. Trust me, it ends up s*cking later on. I lucked out and found someone that basically ignored the BS that I did while pursuing the 'me' thing. I have quite a few GF's that didn't luck out to find someone. So they go home to empty apartments to a tv dinner and maybe a cat or small dog for company. Might sound like its not so bad eh? Try it for a few years straight. (Your family slowly pqsses away, your brothers or sisters etc if you have them move on) And then its Y.O.U. for the company. BTW, constant dating around and going to bars gets pretty boring after you get a certain age as well. lol
Being alone later in life would really be a bite. It takes more than friends to make a life for most people. Don't you believe the hab-draggle kids that pop in here with their grandiose ideas on life that marriage or permenent relationships aren't needed etc etc. Theres nothing like waking on a cold morning to smell fresh coffee or being able to cuddle up to get warm before facing the day. A part time GF or BF just doesn't cut that... oh and the older ya get, the LESS you have all those part time relationships.
So sit your butt down and talk it over with her. LISTEN to what she says. And listen to what Amp said as well. Travel? HA. HA. We know quite a few people that were promised the World and not ONE of them got what was on their 'contracts'. NONE.
One guy, Navy, ships mechanic, spent TWO years in ICELAND... up a river (seriously) NOT on a ocean or sea... he lived at an old airforce base. But he
did work on a ships engine. The SAME engine. day after day. It was bolted to a hanger floor. Took it apart and put it together over and over and over and...
