yeah but you aint dipping your stick in to forgin terriorty.. thats the thing will you becomfortable seeing your WIFE get get fucked by a some guy? I doubt it...
Like i stated befor i would rather just have a pile of mud.
-- If you don't care at all about the girl than it woulnd't bother you (it would be actually fun for a short while), BUT you would not marry a girl you don't care about in the first palce.
-- Those who say they would marry if they connect with a female/find perfect match are in for a much BIGGER disappointment/trouble because you would care about a girl a great deal and her being a pornstar (NO MATTER past or present in that case) will NO DOUBT ruin the relationship
-- in other words no normal guy would marry a pornstar and have a happy long relationship ever, those who say they would are being in denial... there is no debate about it...
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Originally posted by Lexxx: -- ruin the relationship
-- in other words no normal guy would marry a pornstar and have a happy long relationship ever, those who say they would are being in denial... there is no debate about it...
Lexxx
Someone Pleez tell me WHAT is a "NORMAL" guy???
There is no such thing!!
And besides - some men REALLY get off on seeing their G/f ow WIfe with another man!!
(mine does)
Unless telling your son that his mother sucks on big dicks, gets fucked in the ass, gets cummed on her face, hair, nostrils, takes it in the ass, pussy & mouth, has a pussy big enough to steal shoes, all for money...doesn't bother you.
Lets try the method of deduction!
(don't take me literaly it's just general statements... I don't want to judge anybody's proffession, just expressing my opinion)
Porn Stars don't mind to fuck with strangers for money. That makes them like prostitutes... Now if you're a prostitute or a porn star you can enjoy your work - when some 14 inch dick is fucking your brains out or you can suffer from it but still do it because you need the money.
Most likely they enjoy the work, because they get all this money and never stop!
Now lets say the porn star enjoys her work, and that means she enjoys being fucked by a shitload of guys and she likes the popularity and she enjoys the fact that she's being watched getting fucked by billions of guys!
For me, sex means love. So does for alot of people. I am in this business coz I need the money - that's true.. but I am just a webmaster. my job is to sell.. like a regular salesman.. I don't judge anybody , but IMHO i think that having sex with thousands of guys , means that you're not a person who is capable of love! or maybe you are but not in the sence of the word.
I'm only 21 years old, but I can honestly say that i havent seen that much ass and pussy in my life, but what I've seen and tasted is enough to tell me that sex is an interaction between people, a kind of closeness that should be kept private and unique... If you take away the uniqueness from a couple, you will have nothing left.
Thats MY two cents..
KittyKat... I respect your choice of proffession. I'm not here to judge. God is!
God is? Are you honestly sitting there as an adult webmaster thinking God (if there is one) is really seein any difference between us and the models we promote?
You might not be doing it, dear boy, but by selling it you are creating a demand for it and therefore putting more of these 'judged' into employment.
Maybe I know too many swingers and people in poly relaionships but there are lots of people out there that can seperate sex from love. They also know there is difference between being with the person you love and using aother person's body parts.
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I guess you misunderstood
I didnt say that one proffession is good and one is bad
this is not what's being discussed in this thread
whats being discussed is should the well known reprocussions of this proffession (PORN STAR) get in the way with marriage! isnt it so?
Well in my opinion (if I have a right to have one) a person who fucks 100 guys a day isnt capable of love!
And if you're a person who can overlook all that crap, then hey! you're a bigger person than I am if you can take your self respect and shove it up your ass! And just thinking of the psychological traumas that your kids might get in school when the other kids find out that their mama is sucking dick for a living! I chose this proffession for my own reasons. Porn Stars choose theirs for their own. I am fully aware of the reprocussions that my proffession might have on my image, and accepted the fact that some of my friends think that i've sunk very low!
So kittykat with all do respect, I don't accept you crying and whining about the reprocussions of your proffession, which you knew about for sure! They're as clear as water! If you hadn't thought about it before you chose your proffession, then it's YOUR problem, and there's no reason to cry about it! Sorry if you feel bad or lonely or whatever, I'm sure you're a nice person.. that however isnt the point
It always amazes me on the reserved natures so many fellow smut merchants. That's not a put down ..it just always does suprise me.
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I wouldn't even fuck a pornstar (BrettJ can back me up on this... he's got proof from the Venecian) let alone marry one. I just have a slight issue being intimate with a girl that has more miles on her than the average 1980 Honda.
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I'm really not anyone important...
my point exactly ... pornstars have so many miles on them that they hardly run anymore ... a flat tire I can deal with, but a flat pussy is no excuse ... it's time to throw away, buy new :-)
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I'm really not anyone important...
was wondering, how many pornstars, besides Houston, fuck hundreds of guys in a day? how about hundreds in their career? I am willing to bet I have fucked more chicks than the average chick pornstar has fucked as part of her job, and that is not meant as bragging but as fact.
Remember, we are talking the average pornstar, not a porn super star. I would be willing to bet that Tracy Lords fucked less than 25 guys in her career, Linda Lovelace probably about the same, maybe up to 50, that is no big deal.
Originally posted by kisslolita: Well in my opinion (if I have a right to have one) a person who fucks 100 guys a day isnt capable of love!
Well, that's because, as you sad, for you sex=love. This is not the case for the rest of us.
This is not the place to start a discussion about love, but I think it's unfear to consider that a pornstar is not capable of love. She is a person, not a object... and as kittykat69 sad... they have feelings like most of us.
And there is a diffrence between making sex and making love(and for a pornstar this diffrence is even bigger).
I agree that once it's a casual thing, then having sex and making love is different.
But when it's a marriage or a serious thing, then it is the same.
And they might be capable of love, but don't cry about how shitty it is for you since noone wants to marry you coz you're a pornstar... You chose the proffession and you enjoy it.. so face the reprocussions
that's all i am saying
Originally posted by 3Xguru: Well, that's because, as you sad, for you sex=love. This is not the case for the rest of us.
This is not the place to start a discussion about love, but I think it's unfear to consider that a pornstar is not capable of love. She is a person, not a object... and as kittykat69 sad... they have feelings like most of us.
And there is a diffrence between making sex and making love(and for a pornstar this diffrence is even bigger).
fucking ay... im surprised that at 21 you can't see the difference... have you ever been in a long term relationship? have you ever even dipped your wick?
sex=love????? by the same reasoning doesn't that mean not having sex means you can't love?
sure sure.. there are pitfalls to the profession and there are consequences and repercussions to your job.. but how the hell does that affect you as a being capable of love? - can you say 'don't whinge about not being able to hold down a boyfriend' ? yeah - but yuo've been licking toads if you think that same person can't love..... it's a natural act for fucks sake.. physicality and orifices.. next time you take a dump tell me if you fall out of love..
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Porn Stars don't mind to fuck with strangers for money. That makes them like prostitutes...
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If you read my earlier poata instead of jumping to your own judgements about soemthin of which you knwo verty little baout - we DON"T fuck a lot fo strangers!!!!!
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I am in this business coz I need the money - that's true.. but I am just a webmaster. my job is to sell.. like a regular salesman.. I don't judge anybody , but IMHO i think that having sex with thousands of guys , means that you're not a person who is capable of love! or maybe you are but not in the sence of the word.
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See above opinion - there are NOT many pornstars who have fucked d 1000's of guys
Also - if you sell it you are EVERY bit as bad!!!
ARE YOU TRYING TO TELL ME THAT A GUY WHO SELLS CRACK TO TEENAGERS IS NOT GUILTY COZ HE DIDN"T COOK THE SHIT??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!! >
Don't tell me this shit man - and DON"T BRING RELIGION INTO THIS!!!!!!!!
If you wanna start on religion go right ahead I will beat your ass into the ground - I was a qualified minister by time I was 12 hand have been initiated into 5 major world religions - so DON"T GET ME STARTED THERE!
I know my standing with God (KRSNA) - I accept TOTAL responsibilty in hios eyes for the actions I perform - "Try not pulling the splinter from your brothers eys without first extracting the rafter from you own eye" !!!
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you're a bigger person than I am if you can take your self respect and shove it up your ass!
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Excuse me babe- but I have MORE self respect most peopel - in fact most of you all knoow that NOONE loves ME as much as ME!!!!
I'm the mostnarcissistic bitch around - but I'm still a nice girl.
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I am fully aware of the reprocussions that my proffession might have on my image, and accepted the fact that some of my friends think that i've sunk very low!
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Ah ! so the shoe is on the other foot - so you see - it's only people PERCEPTION of right and wrong!!!!!
don't try to percieve this job until you have worked it!
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So kittykat with all do respect, I don't accept you crying and whining about the reprocussions of your proffession, which you knew about for sure! They're as clear as water! If you hadn't thought about it before you chose your proffession, then it's YOUR problem, and there's no reason to cry about it! Sorry if you feel bad or lonely or whatever, I'm sure you're a nice person.. that however isnt the point
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Yeah I AM a FUCKING nice person- ask anyone here and they'll tell you how much i go out of my way for ppl and I NEVER ask anything in return!
Which IS what the whole hread is about - not ALL pornstars a brainless stuck up bimbos- and we CAN ,maek good hwives or girlfriends - ask the guy I live with - there is NOTHING I won't do for him- even just last week i massaged his feet with my $400 bottle of Gaultier.
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I wouldn't even fuck a pornstar (BrettJ can back me up on this... he's got proof from the Venecian) let alone marry one. I just have a slight issue being intimate with a girl that has more miles on her than the average 1980 Honda.
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I gaurantee most girls you'd pick up at a club have hadjust as much sex - and their aLOT dirtier too..
they don't get checkups evryother month and they sleep with any dirty fucking guy.
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... pornstars have so many miles on them that they hardly run anymore ...
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Just 5 minutes with one and you'd change your mind!! heeheeee
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was wondering, how many pornstars, besides Houston, fuck hundreds of guys in a day? how about hundreds in their career? I am willing to bet I have fucked more chicks than the average chick pornstar has fucked as part of her job, and that is not meant as bragging but as fact.
Remember, we are talking the average pornstar, not a porn super star. I would be willing to bet that Tracy Lords fucked less than 25 guys in her career, Linda Lovelace probably about the same, maybe up to 50, that is no big deal.
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Baddog - you knw your Porn Stars Man!!!
I wanna know what the latest world record is for guys in a day - i was told it was 700..
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And they might be capable of love, but don't cry about how shitty it is for you since noone wants to marry you coz you're a pornstar... You chose the proffession and you enjoy it.. so face the reprocussions
that's all i am saying
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Don't FUCKING DARE use this line on me!!!
You wanna know the REAL STORY behind why i got into porn- well ICQ me sometime it's a sage that would make even YOU cry..
I idn't do it coz I wanted to - but I had NO CHOICE- sure you might say "oh but you gota brain use that" but when you need BIG dollars FUCKING fast or your head is on the chopping block (YES!! I mean that Literally- I've had an axe to the back of my head ) then YOU find a faster way tomake somecash without robbign a bank (that was my second option)
It just so happened that i actually enjoyed doign it after alland i chose to stay in it afetr all the shit was out of the way.
I currently only work with 3 guys one of whom is my partner.
I DO accept my positiom - and one thing that I have realy learnt from wporking in this industry is that you soon find out who your true friends really are.
I woon't be doing it much longer anyhow - I only do custom shoots atm as it is..
I will retire when i'm 25 and sit back and reap the rewards of all the online work I am doing.
I know who my friends are now- and when I get to the top - I'm gonna make sure they are right their with me.
Well shit - I haven't bene to slepe for 3 days now - I know I am rambling - I don't mean to sound so angry and I'm not actuaklly angry but I have toput the caps in for extra emphasis - coz as you can tell I feel VERY stongly about ...well about anything I belive and hold to be true.
Kisslolita- all the best to you - i hope that ypou are happy with what you do and ihoep that you find what you are lookign for too.
anytime you feel liek a freindly chat you can always contct me.
(why is it that all the new ppl at this board srart going for my throat and they all endup being my best mates??? LOL
Originally posted by kittykat69:
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... pornstars have so many miles on them that they hardly run anymore ...
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Just 5 minutes with one and you'd change your mind!! heeheeee
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I have 5 min free!
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"I wanna know what the latest world record is for guys in a day - i was told it was 700.."
A guy could stick it into literally 1000's of women in one day. The real record would be how many times a man could cum and actually spew cum each time. Be interesting to know what this record would be too, I would think the upper limit would be 20-30 times a day????? Any thoughts guys???? After 4-5 times (and a big smile on my face) I'm TOTALLY empty, but there's lots of ammo again in a few hours.....
This dog, is dog, a dog, good dog, way dog, to dog, keep dog, an dog, idiot dog, busy dog, for dog, 20 dog, seconds dog!
It's not always about love! There are things that do matter!
Eg:
You're in love with your girlfriend and you catch her in bed with another guy.
Can you say "Love is all that matter then?
Originally posted by 3Xguru: It's not always about love! There are things that do matter!
Eg:
You're in love with your girlfriend and you catch her in bed with another guy.
Can you say "Love is all that matter then?
Actually, yes you can. I have been caught by my woman with another woman when I was younger. She stayed until other things came up that caused us to drift apart.
It comes down to this. If you are in love with someone, but it is not reciprocated, is it worth sticking around? Are you really in love, or just in lust? Or is she the only chick you can find that will fuck you, so you think you are in love.
If you catch her with another guy, there is usually a reason, and it will usually be your fault (just ask her, if you do not believe me). Chicks, or should I say, most chicks, will usually not stray unless they have been hurt or ignored. Guys on the other hand need little incentive to stray. It is not even our fault, it is genetic. It is for the propagation of the species.
So, if you love her, and you catch her with another guy, and you know you fucked up, it is entirely possible that you will kick the guys ass, and get on with your life together with your woman. If it turns out your relationship was purely physical, or one sided, then you will probably kick her ass, and tell the guy that he can have her.
Yeah, I have been there a time or two, or three, or four, or . . .
- physical and emotional relationships when people are in LOVE are intertwined... if you catch your girl with a guy, kick his ass, and go on with her again then you are just a pathetic fuck who thinks he is in love... love ASSUMES some rules and boundaries and crossing them is not only cheating physically but cheating emotionally as well not matter what anyone can say about it, so save your breath...
- the original question was "would you marry a pornstar?" - marriage is a holy matrimony and no matter how one can bent the words, sex wih other people has NO PLACE in real marriage with love. So, anybody who values the vows would not marry a pornstar... others would but... whatever.
- kittykat... after seeing that picture with you sucking off one guy and another fucking you I understand why you are afraid of relationships... if you ever want one, then you'll have to quit whatever you are doing now and totally bury everything in your past... it would leave a very bad aftertaste for anyone caring for you after seeing those pictures... people can SAY they would understand, but they WON'T in reality, belive me. For a reasonable guy the girl's past would not matter in his words BUT do not let him know, otherwise you might be surprised how in reality it does matter...
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Lexx -I have a really good relationship right now- we work together and it's great - what I'm scared of is if I ever have to start a NEW relationshoip - and honestly I could never bury what I do..
Honest it would just come up to bite me.
I expect my aprtner to ne honest with me and I give them the same.
It took me fucken long enough to find the right girl, and I will be getting married in June. It's no longer about sex like it is with most guys that are just looking for a piece of ass to fuck! It's about having a friend for life. But sex in my opinion is a pretty private thing. I'm in the industry, but you don't see me making porno shoots or selling content. I run CJ sites. I barely have any content on the site (except a few galleries here or there).
I donno what will be in the future. But i dont consider myself a pimp or a porn king or whatever! heh... this is fucken internet.nobody knows your face that's the beauty of it!
Anyways kittykat.. I didn't mean anything personal against you when i said what i did.
I'd love to chat with you if u find the time
what's your ICQ?
Originally posted by kisslolita: I run CJ sites. I barely have any content on the site
You run CJ and operate using lolita as a marketing ploy, and think you are better than someone else? Give it a rest. CJ is bad enough, but lolita just makes you a kiddie porn purveyor, so if you think you are better than anyone else, or that you are doing nothing wrong, well you have another thing coming.
In my book, you are the bottom of the barrel. At least Kitty deals with adults and not under-aged kids.
Love is different for different people. Part of the love I have with my husband is that he knows I am bisexual and encourages me to ocassionally express that side of my sexuality.
For others, love is saving yourself for the wedding night and never looking past that partner.
In my view the comparisson of finding out that your partner had cheated on you and being a porn star isn't a good one. In te first instance your partner has done the ultimate - they have violated your trust. Trust is what holds people together.
If your partner is a porn star then chances are you know about it. Therefore it isn't cheating (in my world).
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Originally posted by baddog: You run CJ and operate using lolita as a marketing ploy, and think you are better than someone else? Give it a rest. CJ is bad enough, but lolita just makes you a kiddie porn purveyor, so if you think you are better than anyone else, or that you are doing nothing wrong, well you have another thing coming.
In my book, you are the bottom of the barrel. At least Kitty deals with adults and not under-aged kids.
Who the fuck do you think you are that you say such shit about me?
What does my CJ site has to do with fucken child porn? Please check your facts before you make such accusations!
HELL!
And I never said in any of my threads that I was better than anybody or that my proffession is better and someone elses isnt!
All I said is that if you go and work as a garbage man, then you gotta know that you will stink all the time. And that's a part of your job. And you have to accept the fact that people would stigmatize you "Gee he's a garbage man he stinks" even if you don't stink...
Got the point FUCKO?
BTW - I don't think using names like "FUCKO" is going to get you very far in this biz...
we all have different opinions in life and while Ienjoy a good debate as much (well, probably more so) then the next person - but I think that resorting to name callign belongs in the playground not on the boards (friendly advice)
Originally posted by kisslolita:
What does my CJ site has to do with fucken child porn?
If you will go back you will see that I said you were using lolita as a marketing ploy. You are trying to entice pedophiles to your site by suggesting that they may find lolita content. In my book there is no difference between actually providing it, or drawing them into your site by suggesting that this is the type of content they will find by going there.
No point trying to argue that this was not your intent, as there are just too many other names you could have come up with, without using the word lolita.
Originally posted by Sjayne: Love is different for different people. Part of the love I have with my husband is that he knows I am bisexual and encourages me to ocassionally express that side of my sexuality.
For others, love is saving yourself for the wedding night and never looking past that partner.
That's right, love is diffrent for diffrent people. This is why so mani people that answered this thread had so many oppinions about marrying a pornstar.
IMO, there is a right partner for everyone, you just have to find it.
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