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  • Validus
    Confirmed User
    • Jul 2001
    • 4012

    #1

    Shoot with BF on set, thoughts/comment?

    On the last little photo session the chicks BF/friend was there. It felt really strange and she was distracted, talking with him, or rather kept on looking to him. How do you deal with that stuff?
  • MaDalton
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    • Feb 2004
    • 39864

    #2
    never in the same room

    even better: not in the same building

    tell him to come back in a couple of hours
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    • BoyAlley
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      • Nov 2004
      • 19714

      #3
      Yeah I think that's a huge mistake. Never allow spectators, even if, or maybe I should say especially if, they're boyfriend/girlfriend.

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      • Validus
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        • Jul 2001
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        #4
        Originally posted by MaDalton
        never in the same room

        even better: not in the same building

        tell him to come back in a couple of hours
        Yea ah?! I mean, in theory I didn't care much... but it was distracting. Messed up a lot with the focus and so on.

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        • PTM Desiree
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          • Jun 2006
          • 71

          #5
          We have no problem if a model brings someone along, but boyfriends are just asking for trouble, either they lend their 'input' or you find out later in the week that they cant handle it and your model goes byebye.
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          • MaDalton
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            • Feb 2004
            • 39864

            #6
            Originally posted by Validus
            Yea ah?! I mean, in theory I didn't care much... but it was distracting. Messed up a lot with the focus and so on.

            it doesn't work, been there, done that

            she's distracted, she feels weird, she cannot let herself go... result is shitty

            some guys start telling you what positions she should do and stuff like that - or tell the girls not to move this way, that way - whatever.

            big mistake

            only exception: boy/girl shooting with boyfiriend as male talent, but also that works just in 1 out of 10 cases
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            • fitzmulti
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              • Jan 2003
              • 14861

              #7
              Originally posted by MaDalton
              it doesn't work, been there, done that

              she's distracted, she feels weird, she cannot let herself go... result is shitty

              some guys start telling you what positions she should do and stuff like that - or tell the girls not to move this way, that way - whatever.

              big mistake

              only exception: boy/girl shooting with boyfiriend as male talent, but also that works just in 1 out of 10 cases
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              • Validus
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                • Jul 2001
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                #8
                Originally posted by PTM Desiree
                We have no problem if a model brings someone along, but boyfriends are just asking for trouble, either they lend their 'input' or you find out later in the week that they cant handle it and your model goes byebye.
                Back in the days, when I was working with talent a lot... they never wanted their BFs to even know... but now. Doing these easy shots (non-nude)... having the BF there just messes me up... was wondering if it just me...

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                • Honez
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                  • Apr 2003
                  • 6636

                  #9
                  Originally posted by MaDalton
                  it doesn't work, been there, done that

                  she's distracted, she feels weird, she cannot let herself go... result is shitty

                  some guys start telling you what positions she should do and stuff like that - or tell the girls not to move this way, that way - whatever.

                  big mistake

                  only exception: boy/girl shooting with boyfiriend as male talent, but also that works just in 1 out of 10 cases
                  100% agree with you on all of it.
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                  • MaddCaz
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                    • Mar 2006
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                    #10
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                    • Mutt
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                      • Sep 2002
                      • 34431

                      #11
                      don't allow it - even if the guy is a decent guy it distracts and affects the model's interaction with the photographer and the camera - u will get shittier work. it's a job - ask the girl if she is allowed to bring her boyfriend to her job at Hooters or Starbucks. he can come once to meet you - that's it - then go away.
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                      • minusonebit
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                        • Feb 2006
                        • 7391

                        #12
                        Not a good idea. Closed set.

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                        • Doctor Dre
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                          • Jan 2001
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                          #13
                          Definitly not ... That's just asking for trouble there.
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                          • Mr.Right - Banned For Life
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                            • May 2005
                            • 18314

                            #14
                            I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car.

                            However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.

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                            • MaDalton
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                              • Feb 2004
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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Batts
                              I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car.

                              However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.

                              yeah, that works sometimes. and it might get you a second model
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                              • ChefJeff
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                                • Apr 2003
                                • 1499

                                #16
                                Closed set. No boyfriends. Hot girlfriends, yes.

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                                • Validus
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                                  • Jul 2001
                                  • 4012

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Batts
                                  I will never shoot with a boyfriend there, he can wait in the car.

                                  However i have found when they bring a female freind with them, they shine more on camera beucase they are showing of in front og their friend.
                                  Yea. Ok.. good point

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                                  • Basic_man
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                                    • Oct 2003
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                                    #18
                                    Never let the GF/BF in the same room during the shoot..
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                                    • Validus
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                                      • Jul 2001
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                                      #19
                                      I messed up soooo much... like lighting.. and focus... grrrr

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                                      • zigx
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                                        • Sep 2003
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                                        #20
                                        yeah i wouldnt have done it
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                                        • NoWhErE
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                                          • Sep 2005
                                          • 10588

                                          #21
                                          I've seen a model flake because her boyfriend was pushing her too hard to perform... it was sad.

                                          Even though I took the guy for a walk so that the photographer could do his job, the girl was so freaked out she couldn't do anything anymore
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                                          • MandyBlake
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                                            • Nov 2002
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                                            #22
                                            i think you need to bring it up beforehand.
                                            ask her if she is comfy with him there...or if he will make her feel inhibited at all. if she's ok with him being there and you are also, just mention to her that its cool with you if he's there but he needs to stay low key as to not interrupt the shoot at all.
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                                            • The Duck
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                                              • May 2005
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                                              #23
                                              no way in hell
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                                              • LiveDose
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                                                • Feb 2002
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                                                #24
                                                Avoid it at all costs. If she wants a girl friend there that is fine. Suitcase pimps/ boyfriends bring nothing but jealousy and suddenly they feel they have some type of knowledge or advice to offer.

                                                Tell the model no boyfriend or no shoot.

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