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Originally Posted by WiredGuy
At this point, I'm just in it as a job/work, in my opinion, this business is horrible on relationships which is probably why i've been single for more years than I care to remember but I'm not about to give up on my work.
Ohhh well.
WG
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I agree 1000% percent. The worst part for me was being stuck at home for days at a time. This business can be very anti-social.
As corny as it sounds, I actually like having a "day job" now cause it actually gets me out of the house.
But meeting women that are "ok" with this biz are hard to find. It seems like the "bad girls" are the ones ok with it and the "good girls" run for there life thinking we must be sleazballs".
I learned this lesson the hard way a few years ago. I met this gorgeous Italian American girl at a family friends wedding. Cute, funny and best part of all Italian American like me. We totally hit if off and were talking, hanging out a lot. But of course I had to brag that I have a cool rockstar job running adult sites. That instantly put me in the "friend zone" cause she assumed I was a perve.
I have NO doubt in my mind if I would have just held out telling her and got her liking me more first, she would have had no problem finding out later. If I would have just waiting till after actually sleeping with her it would have been fine. She's be all googly eyed for me and not think twice about it.
Live and learn....