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yes best thing is to leave the past behind you, and not let it influence your choices now. You have a son, so you should think about him. Being a calm person, and forget the past is one of the things in life some people have to deal with.
If you always look back, would you not go crazy? If you still have some love left, then transform this love in a friendship. And let your son see you try to do the best thing possible, your his roll model. I am sure in the begin it will take some efford, but you get better of it also, when you see how calm you handle it, you will grow more and see options to blow the smoke curtain away you face now.
As soon she gets her life back together, you can step back again without regrets to yourself. Make sure you stay strong, people love strong people.
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