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Originally Posted by Defiance Inc
.....You played it safe, wussed out, compromised your very being. You'll rot inside because you can't be who you are. I've seen it a million times 
Here is how I've done it...
GF: '3 somes are disgusting!'
ME: 'I've done some, my ex and I were swingers.'
GF: 'Well I would NEVER DO THAT!'
ME: 'I didn't ask you to, did I? Besides, for me it takes a lot of trust to do that.'
ME: <watching the gears tick in her head>
Conversation is pretty much over cause I check mated her. 
You must decide if you want to sacrifice your dignity.  |
This is some really good stuff
the bottom line is there is/was a problem with his whole approach to the relationship thing, there is a compromise of his own ideals and a choice to change and deny his own being to project what he thinks will impress her, he is denying himself and putting her on a pedestal for which he feels he must sacrifice to her....