help me, gfy - my lady has a stalker

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  • Wolfy
    Confirmed User
    • Dec 2003
    • 3574

    #1

    help me, gfy - my lady has a stalker

    Not actually my lady, but rather a woman on a forum I own. This guy has gone as far as building a site around her, posted pictures of her on it, photoshopped said images to draw attention to a mole she has (kind of funny, since it's so trivial and childish, but annoying just the same :P), and is constantly harrassing her. He messages her on myspace, my forum, sends her emails from various addresses (so she can't block them), etc... it's starting to fuck with her pretty bad.

    Obviously, the best thing to do is ignore him, but I also want to help her get the images removed from his site. I am under the impression that since she took the pictures, she is the copyright owner, and as such can have him served and legally force him to remove the images, but I don't know how to go about it.

    I'd like to handle this with as little work on her part as possible, i.e. I don't want to tell her to go to the police department, fill out a report, then go to court for a restraining order, etc etc... I just want to serve the dickweed with some papers and let him know I'm not going to play with his punk ass. How do I go about this in the most efficient way possible?

    Thanks for your help everyone.
  • The Duck
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    • May 2005
    • 18243

    #2
    That sucks man, sorry to hear that.
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    • Darkhorse
      Horsing Around
      • Sep 2002
      • 5881

      #3
      Have you tried banning him from your forum for a start????

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      • Choppa
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        • Mar 2006
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        • u-Bob
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          • Jul 2005
          • 33063

          #5
          send a C&D to his host....

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          • Spunky
            I need a beer
            • Jun 2002
            • 133978

            #6
            Phone the cops..but they probably won't do anything

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            • iTEAM
              Confirmed User
              • May 2006
              • 147

              #7
              Send an email to the host.
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              • wizard29
                Moderaterateher
                • Apr 2006
                • 103

                #8
                can you post some pics so we can see what she looks like? this will help us devise a plan.
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                • wizard29
                  Moderaterateher
                  • Apr 2006
                  • 103

                  #9
                  Post #2
                  Get a restraining order. It sounds like that's the most you can do at this point. If he violates the restraining order you can press charges. Litigation is too expensive and doesn't sound like she'd win
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                  • Darkhorse
                    Horsing Around
                    • Sep 2002
                    • 5881

                    #10
                    Originally posted by wizard29
                    can you post some pics so we can see what she looks like? this will help us devise a plan.

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                    • Cash
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                      • Feb 2002
                      • 20825

                      #11
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                        • Jan 2004
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                        #12
                        pics plz

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                        • Mr. Pink
                          Registered User
                          • Mar 2003
                          • 14

                          #13
                          Can't you check his whois and kick the crap out of him with say a blunt axe?
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                          • AdPatron
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                            • Apr 2003
                            • 17706

                            #14
                            Yes, we need pics.

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                            • Wolfy
                              Confirmed User
                              • Dec 2003
                              • 3574

                              #15
                              how do I go about doing a C&D? I'm sure there is a proper way to do it and an improper way to do it.

                              The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to?

                              And yes, she's hot. Posting her pics here would kind of defeat the purpose of what I'm doing here though :D

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                              • Wolfy
                                Confirmed User
                                • Dec 2003
                                • 3574

                                #16
                                how do I go about doing a C&D? I'm sure there is a proper way to do it and an improper way to do it.

                                The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to?

                                And yes, she's hot. Posting her pics here would kind of defeat the purpose of what I'm doing here though :D

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                                • masterporndude
                                  Registered User
                                  • Aug 2005
                                  • 60

                                  #17
                                  If your that serious about stopping the guy I would hire an attorney
                                  As far as taking down even copyrighted material good luck I have my shit stolen and used all the time and just because I notify them and send out all those emails to their host and all the other places it doesnt mean they will take it down.Sometimes it works out but more often than not I wind up giving up.

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                                  • Xavierz
                                    Registered User
                                    • May 2006
                                    • 8

                                    #18
                                    adultsitelaw . com / forms.html (sorry for spaces, under 30 posts)

                                    There are examples that you can use for a C&D, you send one to him to scare him, and you send one to his host (hosts usually dont put up with legal issues so they will most likely take the content off right away or suspend him altogether)

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                                    • NoHassleSteve
                                      Confirmed User
                                      • Jul 2004
                                      • 450

                                      #19
                                      Originally posted by Wolfy
                                      The whois shows fake data, and yes he is banned. The guy uses proxies though, so how do you really keep someone from posting if they really want to?

                                      I have no idea how well it works... but this is SUPPOSED TO lead to his registar slapping him around or siezing his domain
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                                      • writersworld8
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                                        • Mar 2006
                                        • 432

                                        #20
                                        sorry to hear that.. =( call the cops!

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                                        • shahab6
                                          So Fucking Banned
                                          • Nov 2005
                                          • 1614

                                          #21
                                          If its just some girl you know that comes to your forum, Why don't you let her deal with it?

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                                          • Latinamistress
                                            Registered User
                                            • May 2006
                                            • 24

                                            #22
                                            Depending on where you're located calling the cops will be about as useful as doing nothing!
                                            I had a similar situation with a guy last year ... he scared the shit out of me ! I called the police over here in the UK, and they told me a policeman would be around the following day to speak with me. The following day no policeman showed up, so I phoned the station only to be informed that they had changed their mind about visiting me. (obviously also forgot how to work a phone and let me know) They basically told me to sod off ! To start any kind of proceedings yourself, or herself.... You will need a static address! To kick shit out of him you will also need an address. If you opt for the latter and you say whois gives you false information... do make sure you get the right address before you turn up with your baseball bat.
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                                            • pr3yb14ck
                                              Registered User
                                              • May 2006
                                              • 28

                                              #23
                                              Hmm... yeah why dont you let her deal with it.

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                                              • Latinamistress
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                                                • May 2006
                                                • 24

                                                #24
                                                obviously because he's formed a friendship with her , and CARES!
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                                                • thumbnailsource
                                                  Confirmed User
                                                  • Feb 2004
                                                  • 154

                                                  #25
                                                  Tell her to complain to his hosting company. If he continues hire legal help

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