Thanks guys. I am being very positive and maybe you can help. I have some good news.
Saw Eva today about midday, I was advised by the accountant I need to get a letter and from the doctor to get power of attorney moved to me.
So at the hospital the doctor was having lunch and I saw Eva. As I started to speak to her she tried to get up and opened her eyes. This freaked me out as none of the nurses knew I had not been told they are slowly taking her off the sedatives. She's 80% sedated and if all goes well she will be less tomorrow.
She kept trying to get up, open her eyes and moved her arm a little. I then saw she was crying and the nurse said she knows I'm there and I should keep talking and tell her to relax. Tough to talk as you cry with relief and joy.
The doctor came in, read Eva the riot act about staying down and then told me that she's not "Out of the woods yet" and the next 5 days, Thursday to Saturday, are critical for a relapse and infection but they feel she is improving better than average. So I feel a lot better today and even had a decent meal tonight.
Now the bad news and me asking for help. Come and read this as I do not want to turn this into a spam thread. Too much good stuff going down.
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