Would You Allow Your Girlfriend To Go To A Wedding With Her Ex-Boyfriend?

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  • GTS Mark
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    • Jan 2001
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    #1

    Would You Allow Your Girlfriend To Go To A Wedding With Her Ex-Boyfriend?

    So a friend of mine says that he is allowing his girlfriend to go out with her Ex-Boyfriend to a wedding because it was pre-planned. I personally said no fucking way and you're asking for trouble if you allow this kind of behaviour, but he doesn't agree. I said pnce that booze starts flowing at weddings you never what will happen...

    What's the verdict on this one GFY?

    DH
  • baddog
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    • Apr 2001
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    #2
    dumb idea . . . he probably isn't serious about her

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    • WiredGuy
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      • Aug 2002
      • 34515

      #3
      Not a good idea in my opinion unless its some kind of special circumstance like the ex and the girl are both friends of the bride or groom. Generally though, I'd say hell no. Once the booze flows and the girl starts seeing how happy the bride is, its a bad combination...
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      • clickclickclick
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        • Jan 2005
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        #4
        you trust her?
        if you need more than 3 clicks to get to a join page, something is wrong ;)

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        • BoyAlley
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          • Nov 2004
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          #5
          "Allow"? I'm sorry but if I were a woman and some man tried to tell me what I was and was not "allowed" to do, that'd be the end of that relationship anyway.

          A relationship lasts long-term because of mutual respect and trust, not because of "control".

          If you can't trust your woman, and she can't trust you, you're better off being fuck buddies and not partners.

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          • Rochard
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            • Dec 2001
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            #6
            Over my dead body.
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            • Paul Markham
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              • Jun 2001
              • 52942

              #7
              Originally posted by BoyAlley
              "Allow"? I'm sorry but if I were a woman and some man tried to tell me what I was and was not "allowed" to do, that'd be the end of that relationship anyway.

              A relationship lasts long-term because of mutual respect and trust, not because of "control".

              If you can't trust your woman, and she can't trust you, you're better off being fuck buddies and not partners.
              Yes but this only works with secure males and they are not a large section of the GFY crew.



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              • baddog
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                • Apr 2001
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                #8
                Your friend should watch Wedding Crashers, then decide.

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                • clickclickclick
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                  • Jan 2005
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                  #9
                  if she cant make it thru a wedding, ur chances are pretty bad anyways.
                  if you need more than 3 clicks to get to a join page, something is wrong ;)

                  p.s. i still bring the sales whores here.

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                  • soulboy
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                    • Apr 2004
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                    #10
                    I first place why shw doesn`t have the enough confidence to go with her actual boyfriend than the ex one.
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                    • quiet
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                      • Sep 2001
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                      #11
                      obviously that total horseshit, nothing to even consider.
                      we'll miss you our friend. RIP

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                      • redHOTrage
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                        #12
                        For a nominal fee

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                        • marketsmart
                          HOMICIDAL TROLL KILLER
                          • Dec 2004
                          • 20419

                          #13
                          nope... go see the Wedding Crashers for the short version of what will happen... Weddings bring out all the old emotions... i know cause i fucked an ex gf at a wedding who was engaged at the time... shame on me yes, but i couldnt help it... was just for old times sake...

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                          • marketsmart
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                            • Dec 2004
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                            #14
                            btw... the girl married her guy and has two kids... never told him a thing about that incident...

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                            • RayBonga
                              too cool for highschool
                              • Nov 2005
                              • 12164

                              #15
                              You have to trust your girl but somethings just don't make sense.

                              If they broke up why are they going to the wedding together ???

                              Is not like they are going to the same wedding, he's saying they are going together. To me that means that propably only one of them nows the bride/groom and both where invited as a couple.

                              Going as a couple makes absolutly no sense at this point.

                              It's funny how today people use that you need to trust her/be confident argumment to justify everything.

                              Like "my gf sleeps at her ex house 3 nights a week but I'm cool with that because I trust her and I'm very confident."
                              Last edited by RayBonga; 05-28-2006, 12:42 AM.

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                              • SleazyDream
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                                • Jul 2001
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                                #16
                                Originally posted by DrinkingHARDEST
                                So a friend of mine says that he is allowing his girlfriend to go out with her Ex-Boyfriend to a wedding because it was pre-planned. I personally said no fucking way and you're asking for trouble if you allow this kind of behaviour, but he doesn't agree. I said pnce that booze starts flowing at weddings you never what will happen...

                                What's the verdict on this one GFY?

                                DH
                                if my girlfriend asked me this i'd bitch slap the whore for even asking and then dump her ass.

                                the only - and I mean ONLY way that can be approached with ANY class is if the ex-boyfriend asked the new boyfriend if it's ok. then there's respect - trust - and some class and it's worth considering depending on circumstances.

                                if the girl is asking the new boyfriend - dump he hoe. she's got no class


                                and for you people that wana jump on me for sexism - if the situation was reversed I'd say the same thing for the other party.
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                                • xNetworx
                                  So Fucking What
                                  • Jan 2004
                                  • 14445

                                  #17
                                  If he takes care of his wife and she is happy and if he satisfies her sexually, it should be OK.

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                                  • marketsmart
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                                    • Dec 2004
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                                    #18
                                    Originally posted by pimpporn
                                    If he takes care of his wife and she is happy and if he satisfies her sexually, it should be OK.
                                    ah ok.... its not about that imho, its about old emotions getting stirred up...

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                                    • SmutGiant
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                                      • Oct 2003
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                                      #19
                                      Depends... does your friend have a massive penis?

                                      j/k, but it is kind of hard to say. Especially if both of them have an existing relation with the bride/groom. One would at least hope to be fortunate enough to be able to trust their g/f or b/f in a situation like this.

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                                      • SmutGiant
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                                        #20
                                        how long has it been since she broke up with the ex?

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                                        • Paul Markham
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                                          • Jun 2001
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                                          #21
                                          How many of you guys would ask permission if it were the other way around?



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                                          • SmutGiant
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                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by Paul Markham
                                            How many of you guys would ask permission if it were the other way around?
                                            I wouldn't go at all unless I knew the bride or groom. I would do my best to pull some strings to see if my g/f can get an invitation extended her way

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                                            • hova
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                                              #23
                                              I think I would
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                                              • tunafox
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                                                • Apr 2006
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                                                #24
                                                She can go, just not with the ex.
                                                Hot & wet, just what i'm looking for...

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                                                • FilthyRob
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                                                  • Feb 2004
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                                                  #25
                                                  I would have to say fuck no fucking way!
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                                                  • WWC-Pajio
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                                                    #26
                                                    .....no way I will let her!! I don't think she'll go in the first place.. :D
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                                                    • CaptainWolfy
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                                                      #27
                                                      hell no!

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                                                      • d00t
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                                                        #28
                                                        his days are limited with this girl

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                                                        • bizarredollars
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                                                          #29
                                                          not a chance!!

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                                                          • lilith_godess
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                                                            • Mar 2006
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                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by BoyAlley
                                                            "Allow"? I'm sorry but if I were a woman and some man tried to tell me what I was and was not "allowed" to do, that'd be the end of that relationship anyway.

                                                            A relationship lasts long-term because of mutual respect and trust, not because of "control".

                                                            If you can't trust your woman, and she can't trust you, you're better off being fuck buddies and not partners.
                                                            i second that!

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                                                            • gangbangjoe
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                                                              • May 2004
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                                                              #31
                                                              Originally posted by BoyAlley
                                                              "Allow"? I'm sorry but if I were a woman and some man tried to tell me what I was and was not "allowed" to do, that'd be the end of that relationship anyway.

                                                              A relationship lasts long-term because of mutual respect and trust, not because of "control".

                                                              If you can't trust your woman, and she can't trust you, you're better off being fuck buddies and not partners.


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                                                              • woj
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                                                                #32
                                                                What the fuck is he thinking? I don't see ANY possible good coming out of this...
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                                                                • drama
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                                                                  #33
                                                                  I'd let her go.. i couldnt fucking care, however, when she got back the locks would be changed and her phone calls would never be returned.

                                                                  You dont need some slut playing you for a fool

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                                                                  • nancycash
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                                                                    #34
                                                                    i know some guys who control their girls and it's really terrible as they have big problems always. trust - first of all!
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                                                                    • d00t
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                                                                      • Sep 2002
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                                                                      #35
                                                                      wedding = 100% positive day .. everyone is happy and `love` is in the air.

                                                                      She feels comfortable enough to go to the wedding with her ex, almost proving that HE ditched her and she still has feelings, hense the reason she's going.

                                                                      With all the romance in the air and positive vibes on the day there is about a 0.5% chance of them NOT hooking up at least for that one night.

                                                                      Your friend obviously is playing this "too cool" - unless of course he's out slamming this chicks mom that same day.

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                                                                      • Rhesus
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                                                                        • Aug 2004
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                                                                        #36
                                                                        Sure, if she'd do anything there she shouldn't, she shouldn't be my gf either. Mutual trust and respect, that's what it's about.

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                                                                        • d00t
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                                                                          #37
                                                                          Originally posted by Rhesus
                                                                          Sure, if she'd do anything there she shouldn't, she shouldn't be my gf either. Mutual trust and respect, that's what it's about.
                                                                          Sure - that's what women want you to think it's all about.

                                                                          Decoded into mantalk, "mutual trust and respect", to her - really means "honey, I am going to this wedding no matter what because i want to bone my ex-boyf because you're a useless, spineless lame excuse for a boyfriend.. ill be dumping your ass in 2 weeks when i tell you about this wild sex night im about to have after the wedding"

                                                                          dude seriously, less oprah - more work.

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                                                                          • Matiz
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                                                                            #38
                                                                            I would let her go - and dump her..
                                                                            ...

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                                                                            • Rhesus
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                                                                              #39
                                                                              Originally posted by d00t
                                                                              Sure - that's what women want you to think it's all about.

                                                                              Decoded into mantalk, "mutual trust and respect", to her - really means "honey, I am going to this wedding no matter what because i want to bone my ex-boyf because you're a useless, spineless lame excuse for a boyfriend.. ill be dumping your ass in 2 weeks when i tell you about this wild sex night im about to have after the wedding"

                                                                              dude seriously, less oprah - more work.
                                                                              Idiot, you have yet to find a true love.

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                                                                              • d00t
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                                                                                #40
                                                                                Originally posted by Rhesus
                                                                                Idiot, you have yet to find a true love.
                                                                                Yeah, you're right again

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                                                                                • babsy
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                                                                                  #41
                                                                                  I'm with boyalley. What the fuck gives me the right to dictate to my GF what she can and cannot do? She can do whatever she pleases. I might not like it, but the idea of me "disallowing" her is just repulsive. I can't even comprehend treating my GF like that. It's barbaric.

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                                                                                  • mattt
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                                                                                    #42
                                                                                    no way....

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                                                                                    • Rhesus
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                                                                                      #43
                                                                                      Originally posted by babsy
                                                                                      I'm with boyalley. What the fuck gives me the right to dictate to my GF what she can and cannot do? She can do whatever she pleases. I might not like it, but the idea of me "disallowing" her is just repulsive. I can't even comprehend treating my GF like that. It's barbaric.
                                                                                      Exactly!

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                                                                                      • Drake
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                                                                                        #44
                                                                                        She'd become my ex just for asking.

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                                                                                        • Doctor Dre
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                                                                                          #45
                                                                                          How about your GF living with your ex ?
                                                                                          Until a month ago I was still living with my ex of 1 year and a half.

                                                                                          That's what my ex gf's bf had to go through... but we're good friends now (me and the dude).

                                                                                          Even if she's teasing or trying to use me to piss him off it dosen't work anymore.
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                                                                                          • Ross
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                                                                                            #46
                                                                                            No I wouldn't allow it to happen. Is this dude such a loser he can't find another date to take to the wedding? Or does he even need a date? He could probably hook up with the bridesmaids or something if he was on his own.

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                                                                                            • woj
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                                                                                              #47
                                                                                              Originally posted by Rhesus
                                                                                              Idiot, you have yet to find a true love.
                                                                                              I think you are just naive man... I've had friends that dated/married "true love" for years, and then out of nowhere they just break up...

                                                                                              .. and now a days around half the marriages end in divorce... don't you think that ALL those married couples said EXACTLY the same thing? That they found "true love" etc..
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                                                                                              • maxjohan
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                                                                                                #48
                                                                                                Originally posted by SleazyDream
                                                                                                if my girlfriend asked me this i'd bitch slap the whore for even asking and then dump her ass.

                                                                                                the only - and I mean ONLY way that can be approached with ANY class is if the ex-boyfriend asked the new boyfriend if it's ok. then there's respect - trust - and some class and it's worth considering depending on circumstances.

                                                                                                if the girl is asking the new boyfriend - dump he hoe. she's got no class


                                                                                                and for you people that wana jump on me for sexism - if the situation was reversed I'd say the same thing for the other party.
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                                                                                                • SGS
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                                                                                                  #49
                                                                                                  Very strange arrangement. Weddings are very "family" and "personal".
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                                                                                                  • evildick

                                                                                                    #50
                                                                                                    Originally posted by nancycash
                                                                                                    i know some guys who control their girls and it's really terrible as they have big problems always. trust - first of all!
                                                                                                    To get trust you have to give respect first. Going to a wedding with an ex is not showing respect for her current boyfriend. Doesn't matter if her intentions are good or not. It's just common sense.

                                                                                                    Let her go and tell her not to come back. Will save him trouble in the long run.

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