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generally speaking, for women, a guy's personality is the dealbreaker, for guys, a woman's looks is the dealbreaker

of course that is simplifying things extremely, but it is a good way to look at the differences of what the sexes are looking for in each other

you can then add in money, and looks and personality in varying lesser degrees of importance for both sexes, but generally speaking, the above sums it up well I think

(and I am speaking of initial hooking up, once a couple is together, a whole bunch of other factors come into the picture)

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