What would you do if...

**Spunky** · 06-05-2008, 09:02 PM

When kids are involved it's differant..I would for the kids..for a woman only..nope

**aico** · 06-05-2008, 09:03 PM

Did you smoke it before she married you?

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 09:05 PM

Originally posted by aico

Did you smoke it before she married you?

Good question.

I did not at all.

One of the things she loved about me was the fact that I didnt drink or smoke a thing.

Her argument now is that i am not what she married and if i keep on then her leaving me will be justified

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 09:08 PM

Originally posted by Spunky

When kids are involved it's differant..I would for the kids..for a woman only..nope

you're right, it is different.

if we had no kids i would probably make a compromise where maybe i could smoke on my day off or something like that but if she demanded i stop 100% i would tell her to fuck off

i was raised in a broken home and i dont wanna do it to my kids so i may have to take 1 for the team here.

**Holly** · 06-05-2008, 09:17 PM

For her to take 3 kids away and end a marriage there's got to be a little more to this story. Sounds like there's something going on with you or your behavior that she thinks the smoking is the cause of.

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 09:22 PM

Originally posted by Holly

For her to take 3 kids away and end a marriage there's got to be a little more to this story. Sounds like there's something going on with you or your behavior that she thinks the smoking is the cause of.

see, the 1st part of your reply is touches on what i say to myself when i try to look @ myself from the outside

3 kids and divorce me because i fucking smoke weed???????????????????????

weed doesnt cause any noticeable changes in my behavior except when i am high and that is *respectfully* when she is sleeping. I wait her out then blaze hard.

i dont come home stoned or do stupid shit, i just smoke in peace and smoking herb is the 1 single thing i have thats all mine and something that makes me happy

other than blazing, i go to work/come home/take care of kids/pay bills

but she calls me a nasty drug addicted loser for smoking

the weed isnt changing anything here so its not what u think, shes just getting tired of it for whatever reason

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 09:22 PM

and someone remind me to stop leaving such long responses...

drinking and smoking makes me type all night long on GFY

**VeriSexy** · 06-05-2008, 09:23 PM

I think the answer is clear, and sounds like you're making the right decision

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 09:27 PM

Originally posted by VeriSexy

I think the answer is clear, and sounds like you're making the right decision

well i didnt exactly say what my decision was, i just stated that i wasnt gonna take anyones advice from gfy and ive already made my own decision then decided to post this thread asking others what they would do

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 09:36 PM

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**Holly** · 06-05-2008, 09:39 PM

Why don't you ask her to tell you *specifically* what it is about the smoking that she doesn't like? Tell her to make you a list so you can see exactly what you're doing that's pissing her off.

Here's one clue for you: "drinking and smoking makes me type all night long on GFY"

Maybe she thinks you should be in bed with her at night, instead? I work online and I'm a nightowl who doesn't sleep well, so it wouldn't bother me. But I bet a lot of women wouldn't like it if their husbands were up half the night drinking, getting high, and on the internet.

**Babaganoosh** · 06-05-2008, 09:41 PM

You've got 3 kids and you don't want to stop smoking weed? Sorry but it's time to grow up and be a husband and father.

**iSMOKE** · 06-05-2008, 10:00 PM

damn.......

**dav3** · 06-05-2008, 10:16 PM

Would she rather you start drinking? LOL Just start bringing up stuff she does, that you don't like and build a compromise.

Besides, cannabis isn't technically a narcotic/drug.

**M0nk** · 06-05-2008, 10:49 PM

I would try to make a deal , and smoke less , but never give it up unless I´m concious it affects my daily life in a negative way (which doesen´t happen)

**tony286** · 06-05-2008, 10:55 PM

Originally posted by Babaganoosh

You've got 3 kids and you don't want to stop smoking weed? Sorry but it's time to grow up and be a husband and father.

you got a point. someone has kids, selfish time is over. She is telling you, you've changed its effecting you time to drop it. Go to na meetings if its that hard to give it up. If you just cant walk away from it,you have a problem. imo

**tony286** · 06-05-2008, 10:56 PM

Originally posted by M0nk

I would try to make a deal , and smoke less , but never give it up unless I´m concious it affects my daily life in a negative way (which doesen´t happen)

usually the person doing it is the last one to realize its affecting their lives.

**Kudles** · 06-06-2008, 07:22 PM

Call a counselor they might help. I 'm sorry if it's bumming you out though.

**Sid70** · 06-06-2008, 10:28 PM

i think you are jsut building a huge thread full of keywords to promote your nick, iSMOKE!

**Adultnet** · 06-07-2008, 02:18 AM

Originally posted by iSMOKE

her leaving me will be justified

If she started to search for a reason to leave you she will find a reason. So don't bother stopping if you think this will save the marriage for the long run I would not try to change myself if she likes you as is now and not as what before be with he if not...

she can make her choice.

**Adultnet** · 06-07-2008, 02:19 AM

Originally posted by kievdesign

i think you are jsut building a huge thread full of keywords to promote your nick, iSMOKE!

lol..

indeed

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