you should've thought about it before you got married! You're blaming your kid for smoking? Well just put yourself in his shoes, his parents are divorced and he's only 12 years old. If he had a father he'd be following his steps. I don't think a 12 years old kid is going to listen to his mom at that age, he wants a father for guidance specially for those bad habits (smoking.. etc) . That's my opinion, beeing honest here
