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Originally Posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
I agree with you that things aren't working very well as they are. I never said that the way things are right now is perfect. However, I do believe that babies have the right to support regardless of whether their mother was a gold digging bitch or their father was a loser alcoholic or whatever. The laws happen to agree with me in that respect, but they still have a lot of work to do to set things up so that actual parenting is shared equally
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the issue for most men is that the law also supports the mothers attempts to entrap the father... i.e. the woman that blew a guy in california, ran to the bathroom and inseminated herself and won a claim for child support. the law supports denying the fathers rights as a parent. the law doesn't require the mother to account for how money is being spent or to insure its being spent on the child etc etc etc etc etc etc.
the entire system is backwards and unfair to men. i am not saying that a man should have no obligation... but the system should be a little more balanced.. and the system shouldn't be encouraging women to have child out of wedlock