Originally Posted by Pleasurepays

everyone says "it takes two" etc.

but the fact of the matter is that "two" has almost nothing to do with the legal system and how men are treated. it may take two to get a woman pregnant... but it doesn't take "two" to make the decision to have a child. it doesn't take "two" to make the decision to get an abortion. it doesn't take "two" to make every decision for that child. As Rochard is pointing out... in many cases, it takes "one"... the man basically has few to no rights in this area and the entire system is weighted against men and he is expected to pay in every single case like he is some kind of asshole just for having a dick.

"i had an unplanned child and it is the best thing that ever happened to me..." -- Really? who gives a shit? Does that mean that all families work out just perfectly fine? does that mean that every unfit, immature retard should be a parent because you think you are having a experience.

I think some of you should actually grow up in foster homes or come from very dysfunctional families before preaching about "whats best for a child".