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Originally Posted by Ayla_SquareTurtle
A lot of the people posting here don't seem to understand the fundamental facts behind DNA, child support and who has to pay.
Child support has to do with the CHILD not the MOTHER that's why it's called CHILD support.
Even if a woman pokes holes in a condom in order to get pregnant, that's an incredibly shitty, shitty thing to do, but in the end, if she doesn't abort or miscarry, guess what? There's a whole other human being now with rights of his or her own. One of his or her rights is financial support from both biological parents if they are able to provide it and will willingly provide or may be forced to provide it as allowed by the law.
The BABY has rights which cannot be taken away once it's here. Period. Is it fair? It is to the baby. The parent's rights are secondary at this point.
And for the record, I support FAIR child support and FAIR shared visitation/custody rights so don't get it mixed up. It's all about the kid. Mothers and father with agendas and egos don't and shouldn't factor in.
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Your on crack. (Sorry, I like saying that. Has a ring to it. )
You mean me that if I have sex with a woman using protection with the intention of having sex and not a baby, and she pokes holes in or grabs the used condom later and conceives a child without my knowledge, without my consent, and without my permission that I have to pay for it for the next eighteen years?
So the court and rape me over how much I have to pay in child support while restricting my rights to spend time with my child and have no say in how she is raised?
Child support doesn't work. You basically tell one parent he or she is responsible for the upbringing of the child, while the other parent has restricted access to their kids, no say in their upbringing, and tell them that a portion of their salary goes to the other parent?
And we wonder why society is so fucked up. Fathers walk because they can't afford to pay out 30% of their salary to the woman who won't let them see their child.
What a bullshit system. I thank god every day I never knocked anyone up. I have child, by my wife, and we are still going strong.