I know beforehand that if I give a loaded gun to a psycho that he might use it to kill me. If I go ahead and give him the gun, I'm partially responsible for empowering him and I have to accept that my destiny is now in the hands of a psycho. The ultimate consequence would be him shooting me.
This is all known beforehand. So the thing to do is not to give him the gun. If you have sex with a woman, you're [potentially] voluntarily giving up a certain amout of control and putting it in her hands if it leads to pregnancy. If she wants to be a 'bitch' and have a kid when you're dead set against it, there is nothing you can do. But you already knew this but didn't care enough or didn't think about it enough when you were hitting it between the sheets.
I don't know if the gun analogy works. It's certainly not the best but I couldn't think of anything else lol.
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