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Originally Posted by AmeliaG
Say two people hook up at some random event. They are not in love. They do not have a relationship. Maybe the guy doesn't even know the chick's last name. But the condom breaks and she gets knocked up.
Should he be required to pay for an abortion?
Should he be required to pay for half an abortion?
Should he be required to support the proceeds of a broken condom with a stranger for the rest of his life or at least 18 years and nine months?
What if the chick put pinholes in the condom because she knew the guy had some money, but the kid is definitely his genetics?
Is there a point at which the man stops being responsible for a choice someone else makes or does he lose the right to make further choices when he agrees to have sexual intercourse?
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As a father of a 1.5 yr old daughter who was not planned, I can tell you the following:
- even after the first "shock" [doh!] I Thank God for every little second I spend with this adorable princess.
- after becoming a father who was on psychedelics for approx ten yrs I also became very very much against abortion.
- The father should pay for sure, no blah-blah, everything else is bullshit. If you don't take care of your family you'll NEVER be able to look in the mirror again (neither take Acid or Mushi and stuff..) and you are simply a Fucking Bad Man.
I was not in love with the girl, I was not living with this girl, but after she told me she is pregnant I rented a flat, prepared for the child's arrival, always went to the doc with her, took the "parent course" and so on. I was a pothead punk, and this thingg changed my entire life in a very very good way. Now I am a responsible father who smokes a splif in the evening and think with big smile on my face of the nice partytimes I have had in the last years.
I don't regret nothing, this situation is very OK to me - and I hope I will tell you the same if you ask me 10 yrs later :D :D when i will have 2-3-4 children ;)