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03-31-2006, 08:53 PM

how many people actually watched the video before posting? i guess you missed the part where they forced melissa into a private setting to bare her breasts. she adamantly told them beforehand she wanted someone from her security detail with her, which they refused over and over again. i guess when they were planning this raid, they couldn't include a female officer to take care of that section. how would you feel if a male police officer led your wife/girlfriend/daughter into a private setting, refused anyone to be with her - a point she raised beforehand - then asked her to show him her breasts. does that sound procedurally correct to you?

This doesn't matter to some folks.. Just let the cops do what they wanna do and don't make waves..

Hell I live in a hick town, in a hick county, in a hick state.. The town drunk and the county judge exec. is the same person.. Bible thumper central.. But it's also meth central.. If Tam is reading this, she can vouch for what I say..

and cops don't plant evidence here.. That stuff happens much more in the big cities.. not little towns.. A state trooper and county deputy know I have porn sites.. My boss/Church of Christ elder knows I have porn sites - and he had me do his business site and the church site..
Cops have been busted.. firemen have been busted.. judges have been busted.. It's not all kangaroo courts in rural areas.. Too many cameras, news outlets, and fed up citizens nowadays.. It ain't the 50's anymore...
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03-31-2006, 09:01 PM

Originally posted by Mutt

she doesnt have to run away from Nebraska - she has a successful website, she doesn't have to do the public events in Lincoln to make a good living.
Melissa is trying to sell a reality TV show - maybe that's why she wants to fight this in public - and if that's what she wants to do then she should do it - - but knowing she may be in for alot of crap.

Melissa posted here not long ago that her first go round with this brought her alot of notoriety and money BUT also alot of stress and she even said right here on GFY that she doesn't know if it's worth going through it again.

everything you said is very true, but what is more stressful - going through all of this, or leaving friends and family behind. when she posted that, it was in the context that she doesn't do this stuff on purpose to attract the attention (which so many times is brought up), its unwanted attention that is brought upon her by the local authorities. we get enough publicity by running a solid website.

we are well versed in 2257, obscenity, and all things related with this website (other things that are being inferred in this thread). we have lawyers. melissa has a criminal defense attorney for public nudity. she can recite to you the law by heart. not even 3 weeks ago i sat down with jeffrey douglas in his office. for the time being, the public appearances are actually being put off, only because the bar owner doesn't want the heat anymore.

she is meeting with a lawyer this week to show them the video, and to determine any wrong doing on the part of the police, which she believes there is plenty, and caught on video. i just hate it when people say we are egging the cops to come get us, that couldn't be farther from the truth. melissa is just living her life, and not caving in to basic police intimidation tactics. thats the point of all this.
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03-31-2006, 09:01 PM

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i guess you don't believe in fighting for individual rights. but melissa does, especially when she has been violated and it has been recorded. as for the fear of obscenity down the road, last time i checked, they sell playboys in the local stores over there.

she has to fight this one and i support her in that - the question is does she want to continue these run-in's with the local authorities by keep doing the public events that the cops will always find something to charge her with.

very few people win when they decide to fight the government. it looks great in the movies when the hero/heroine is on the courthouse steps being cheered on by the people for taking on the government and winning - but it doesnt work out that way very often and even when it does the price you pay in stress, personal upheavel and lawyers fees takes its toll.

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03-31-2006, 09:04 PM

Melissa,

If you're doing a reality show and will be getting even more publicity, and want to keep battling these guys harassing you, one thing you want to do is not have any ammo available for the other side that they can use to sway public opinion against you.

If I was your attorney, I'd strongly recommend you take the santa and the cop galleries off your site. That's the kind of stuff the media will go to town on.

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03-31-2006, 09:05 PM

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03-31-2006, 09:25 PM

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03-31-2006, 09:26 PM

You guys are too caught up in the local cop scenario. If you draw national media attention all it takes is for one of the lincoln DA/prosecutors to call up his buddy he went to lawschool with who's now a US Attorney to take a look at her site and make her life miserable.

You can have all the lawyers in the world, if the government wants to make your life difficult they can and will. See how quickly Mr Douglas runs to her aid when he asks for payment and all the accounts are frozen and her house is under notice of pendancy for criminal forfeiture. Sure its a worst case scenario but its a prime example of why you shouldnt stir a bees nest when you're running a company that is hated on by the current administration.
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03-31-2006, 09:27 PM

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03-31-2006, 09:33 PM

Originally posted by txl

You guys are too caught up in the local cop scenario. If you draw national media attention all it takes is for one of the lincoln DA/prosecutors to call up his buddy he went to lawschool with who's now a US Attorney to take a look at her site and make her life miserable.

You can have all the lawyers in the world, if the government wants to make your life difficult they can and will. See how quickly Mr Douglas runs to her aid when he asks for payment and all the accounts are frozen and her house is under notice of pendancy for criminal forfeiture. Sure its a worst case scenario but its a prime example of why you shouldnt stir a bees nest when you're running a company that is hated on by the current administration.

how many lawyers have you spoken to? how many court cases have you been through? how well versed are you with respect to obscenity? what lawyers have you spoken to. what you mentioned is not the worst case scenario. the worst case scenario is tonight we get attacked by aliens, and planet earth is destroyed into nothingness. that is the worst case scenario i can think of.

you obviously know nothing, and spew off basic bullshit about how the gov't can make your life miserable (gee, who doesn't know that). show me one case where someone was convicted of obscenity simply by posing nude (actually, show me one case where someone was tried for obscenity for simply posing nude). then, ill show some of the crazy things that have been tried for obscenity and dismissed. simply take a look around the internet.

someone wise once said, legal advice is worth what you pay for it. we'll listen to our attorneys, not you.

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03-31-2006, 09:40 PM

in addition to my other post, i know its very outlandish to think there is actually some artistic value in a gorgeous female posing in the nude. (end sarcasm)
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03-31-2006, 09:53 PM

Originally posted by Biggy

how many lawyers have you spoken to? how many court cases have you been through? how well versed are you with respect to obscenity? what lawyers have you spoken to. what you mentioned is not the worst case scenario. the worst case scenario is tonight we get attacked by aliens, and planet earth is destroyed into nothingness. that is the worst case scenario i can think of.

you obviously know nothing, and spew off basic bullshit about how the gov't can make your life miserable (gee, who doesn't know that). show me one case where someone was convicted of obscenity simply by posing nude (actually, show me one case where someone was tried for obscenity for simply posing nude). then, ill show some of the crazy things that have been tried for obscenity and dismissed. simply take a look around the internet.

someone wise once said, legal advice is worth what you pay for it. we'll listen to our attorneys, not you.

Biggy if you don't want to hear mixed opinions then she shouldn't post her legal situations on GFY. Simple as that.

Are you her manager or business partner or boyfriend???

Not trying to be critical, but realistically, if your profile is accurate and you're 23, you're defending her with opinions as if you've been in this industry for 30 years.

Most of the people giving her advice that is sound have been in adult entertainment for a long time and through legal issues themselves. I don't think any of us are just spouting off opinions without having past experiences.

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03-31-2006, 09:58 PM

ya her site is so slow its the same as a DOS attack, I tried going to her join page and it timed out.... sucks trying to be someone who is trying to join, sucks to be her not getting those joins.

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03-31-2006, 10:03 PM

Originally posted by txl

You guys are too caught up in the local cop scenario. If you draw national media attention all it takes is for one of the lincoln DA/prosecutors to call up his buddy he went to lawschool with who's now a US Attorney to take a look at her site and make her life miserable.

You can have all the lawyers in the world, if the government wants to make your life difficult they can and will. See how quickly Mr Douglas runs to her aid when he asks for payment and all the accounts are frozen and her house is under notice of pendancy for criminal forfeiture. Sure its a worst case scenario but its a prime example of why you shouldnt stir a bees nest when you're running a company that is hated on by the current administration.

You make it sound like the Lincoln DA actually has a buddy that's a US attorney..

Try this one... The Mayor (president of the cow shit committee for those of you who think Nebraska has hicks and rednecks) gets wind that her video showing the cops acting like horny little bastards, and violating proper police procedure, could end up in the national media.. He makes a phone call to the police chief.. "If the girl isn't violating any laws that she can actually be arrested for, back off cause we don't need the suits coming to our God fearing little town asking questions." "We don't want them to discover the gov't grants we get are helping to build my new house and pay for your new truck."

People love seeing bad cops caught on tape where they can't weasel their way out of a situation.. So the negativity would turn toward the cops and not her..
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03-31-2006, 10:13 PM

Well I dont post often and never get into these tits for tats but this one caught my attention. Anyway... I just had my 2cents to give and I gave it. I don't care to list which lawyers I "spoke" to, but my opinion is actually well founded. Like I said, just my 2 cents. I'll let the freedom fighters get back to making themselves feel better. KRL seems like a wiseman, you should listen to what he once said.

and btw Scooter -- it was just a hypothetical situation.
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03-31-2006, 10:18 PM

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03-31-2006, 10:21 PM

Originally posted by Mutt

she doesnt have to run away from Nebraska - she has a successful website, she doesn't have to do the public events in Lincoln to make a good living.
Melissa is trying to sell a reality TV show - maybe that's why she wants to fight this in public - and if that's what she wants to do then she should do it - - but knowing she may be in for alot of crap.

Melissa posted here not long ago that her first go round with this brought her alot of notoriety and money BUT also alot of stress and she even said right here on GFY that she doesn't know if it's worth going through it again.

Wow I have to give you credit you really remembered that post? You are right and it is already stressing me out but in the back of my mind like I have said before if I don't stand up what's next? What will they try to say is wrong the next time and if it's not me maybe it's some other girl. Melissa

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03-31-2006, 10:36 PM

I just watched the video, but she did not bare her breasts, she had them covered with pasties... right.

Anyways, I did not see her forced into a private area to bare herself. I saw her in a car with other people, she removed her pasty and gave it to the cop. She could have just as easily reached under her shit to remove it. The cop was not wrong.

I liked all the talk about how many cop cars where there, that they were there for her.... not hardly... they were there because they were entering a bar full of patrons. A show of force helps prevent problems and if the customers started problems they had enough officers in place to respond.

I can see this from the other perspective, before starting my site I was a Sheriff Deputy. I did not like it, hated dealing with assholes and getting into fights.

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i guess you missed the part where they forced melissa into a private setting to bare her breasts.

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03-31-2006, 10:37 PM

Originally posted by KRL

Most of the people giving her advice that is sound have been in adult entertainment for a long time and through legal issues themselves. I don't think any of us are just spouting off opinions without having past experiences.

Originally posted by KRL

All you need is one rogue cop to get on a mission to nail you good and they can do anything. They have unchecked power and access to fuck up your world. You could end up in a situation with narcotics planted in your house, car or studio. Then it won't be a ticket, and you'll be stuck in a court jury trying to prove its not yours.

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03-31-2006, 10:43 PM

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Biggy if you don't want to hear mixed opinions then she shouldn't post her legal situations on GFY. Simple as that.

Are you her manager or business partner or boyfriend???

Not trying to be critical, but realistically, if your profile is accurate and you're 23, you're defending her with opinions as if you've been in this industry for 30 years.

Most of the people giving her advice that is sound have been in adult entertainment for a long time and through legal issues themselves. I don't think any of us are just spouting off opinions without having past experiences.

Biggy is my partner and one of the smartest people I have met in this business! What I like the most is he never tries tells me what to do. I make my own choices and he only jumps in when I ask him to. I think the main reason he is so sure on all of this is one he knows me and how mad I am about this but also he is a lot like me and does not like to see people be scared into doing something they don't want too. Melissa

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03-31-2006, 10:49 PM

Originally posted by txl

and btw Scooter -- it was just a hypothetical situation.

I realize that.. as was mine..
and it could go either way.. nobody knows, but I do know how some small towns work and they don't like outsiders snooping into the town's records..

A video of cops demanding that a woman expose her breasts could be a slam dunk with the news media.. Not something a small town wants..
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04-01-2006, 07:13 AM

KRl made some very good points in this thread.
You eventually keep on playing with fire you are going to get burned. Nothing would make those police officers more happy then getting back at some 23 year old girl who makes more in a month then they do all year, even if they have to plant evidence.
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04-01-2006, 07:14 AM

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04-01-2006, 07:28 AM

Originally posted by bigdog

KRl made some very good points in this thread.
You eventually keep on playing with fire you are going to get burned. Nothing would make those police officers more happy then getting back at some 23 year old girl who makes more in a month then they do all year, even if they have to plant evidence.

Melissa is a gorgeous ambitious young woman. She's got tremendous opportunities ahead of her if she makes the right moves. She can and should go way beyond the porn industry with her kind of looks.

That's why when you have that kind of opportunity ahead you don't want to fuck it up with all the bullshit that can arise from playing games with some lame local cops on a mission to ruin her rep.

Plus its critical how far she goes with porn, if she has ambitions for TV and other mainstream projects. The money is great now, and she's having a blast doing it, but ask anyone who couldn't get the mainstream acting and modeling projects they wanted because of their porn background and you always hear "I wish I never did that". Good thing is its less of an issue than it used to be, but it still can present problems in many cases.

So I'm just throwing in my 2cents cause I've seen many go through this kind of thing, and its crazy to let shit like this have any chance to get in the way of her future objectives.

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04-01-2006, 08:21 AM

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Melissa is a gorgeous ambitious young woman. She's got tremendous opportunities ahead of her if she makes the right moves. She can and should go way beyond the porn industry with her kind of looks.

That's why when you have that kind of opportunity ahead you don't want to fuck it up with all the bullshit that can arise from playing games with some lame local cops on a mission to ruin her rep.

Plus its critical how far she goes with porn, if she has ambitions for TV and other mainstream projects. The money is great now, and she's having a blast doing it, but ask anyone who couldn't get the mainstream acting and modeling projects they wanted because of their porn background and you always hear "I wish I never did that". Good thing is its less of an issue than it used to be, but it still can present problems in many cases.

So I'm just throwing in my 2cents cause I've seen many go through this kind of thing, and its crazy to let shit like this have any chance to get in the way of her future objectives.

when you offer advice, you shouldn't look at the girls who didn't make it and give advice on what not to do. that doesn't help anyone, like the majority of your advice in this thread.

show me one girl who made the crossover by disowning her adult background and no on ever finding out.

stupidity, dressed in good intentions, is still stupidity.

btw, melissa is preparing for the possibility of narcotics being planted. controversy never lands an adult actress into the mainstream, only fucks up her chances, like mary carey.

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04-01-2006, 09:12 AM

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Slow download... But Nebraska? They not use to that kind of GirlsGoneWild type of stuff... Police can be assholes... And gotdam your server is SLOW!

The server is prolly slow cause there are 9,000 GFY surfers all trying to download the video at once.
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04-01-2006, 09:12 AM

Originally posted by venus

I just watched the video, but she did not bare her breasts, she had them covered with pasties... right.

Anyways, I did not see her forced into a private area to bare herself. I saw her in a car with other people, she removed her pasty and gave it to the cop. She could have just as easily reached under her shit to remove it. The cop was not wrong.

I liked all the talk about how many cop cars where there, that they were there for her.... not hardly... they were there because they were entering a bar full of patrons. A show of force helps prevent problems and if the customers started problems they had enough officers in place to respond.

I can see this from the other perspective, before starting my site I was a Sheriff Deputy. I did not like it, hated dealing with assholes and getting into fights.

The reason you don't see that is because my crew was thrown out and then 2 officers took me to the back and made me pull up my shirt. Now part of why they were there was because they did not think I had on pasties and or the right kind. So now if they thought I wasn't wearing them or there was a chance I wasn't shouldn't a female officer present or someone from my staff not even just for my safty but so that they are not getting themselves into any grey areas? Melissa

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04-01-2006, 09:28 AM

Originally posted by tony404

its not a badge of honor its immaturity

maybe not a badge of honor but in this society there is the idea that in order to succeed, you must conform. the ability to succeed while living by your own rules and not conforming to what is the accepted norm is something i'd be proud of.

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04-01-2006, 09:34 AM

Originally posted by tony404

Ok say she ever wants to work in the mainstream, a good job not mcd's say goodbye to that. Any kind of licensing for a profession say good bye to that too. Adoption say goodbye to that. Stop pushing me your kissing your flash goodbye lol

and having your a site where you are naked on it won't? you shoot porn for a living but think everyone in it is fucking up their lives?

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04-01-2006, 09:35 AM

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04-01-2006, 09:42 AM

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04-01-2006, 09:56 AM

Originally posted by Biggy

when you offer advice, you shouldn't look at the girls who didn't make it and give advice on what not to do. that doesn't help anyone, like the majority of your advice in this thread.

show me one girl who made the crossover by disowning her adult background and no on ever finding out.

stupidity, dressed in good intentions, is still stupidity.

btw, melissa is preparing for the possibility of narcotics being planted. controversy never lands an adult actress into the mainstream, only fucks up her chances, like mary carey.

Your age shows thru your atitude, people are giving advice to save her from pain. I know you and melissa know it all but you can be gracious about it they are just trying to protect her. By the way a lady in FL who had a solo girl site was busted for obscenity in 2000 by a sheriff who had a real problem with her.

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04-01-2006, 09:57 AM

Originally posted by BlackCrayon

and having your a site where you are naked on it won't? you shoot porn for a living but think everyone in it is fucking up their lives?

dont take what I say out of fucking context I was talking about having a criminal record not working in porn.
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04-01-2006, 10:01 AM

I think (but dont know) that when you see female police dealing with females it's usually a curteousy, not a requirement. The less they feel the subject would be embarassed or traumatized, the less likely they'd be to arrange for a female officer.
Just a guess.

Anyway that sucks to be the focus of attention like that. Hopefully it'll all work out ok and maybe you should invest in a bar that YOU own, because now the bar owner is gun shy you say.

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04-01-2006, 10:05 AM

Originally posted by tony404

dont take what I say out of fucking context I was talking about having a criminal record not working in porn.

all i was saying is that having your own porn site will fuck up a lot of mainstream possiblities just as much if not more than a couple misdemeanors.

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04-01-2006, 10:13 AM

Originally posted by BlackCrayon

all i was saying is that having your own porn site will fuck up a lot of mainstream possiblities just as much if not more than a couple misdemeanors.

not really unless your jenna where everyone knows you. A girl can do whatever she wants but when you have a record there is a record of it that every employer can find with a background check. Also most girls are not as big as they think they are because we know the girl doesnt mean most of the regular world does. I have a friend who is a porn star, won a avn been in 100 films, if she is at a signing you would think she was the biggest star on the planet. I could talk to 100 people maybe 2 would know who she was. She could leave the business tomorrow and go back to mainstream life without a hitch.
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04-01-2006, 10:23 AM

Originally posted by tony404

not really unless your jenna where everyone knows you. A girl can do whatever she wants but when you have a record there is a record of it that every employer can find with a background check. Also most girls are not as big as they think they are because we know the girl doesnt mean most of the regular world does. I have a friend who is a porn star, won a avn been in 100 films, if she is at a signing you would think she was the biggest star on the planet. I could talk to 100 people maybe 2 would know who she was. She could leave the business tomorrow and go back to mainstream life without a hitch.

heh, maybe some unknown cam girl but eventually word will get around whatever area she lives in. friends and family find out all the time coming across stuff online. i can only imagine if someone was looking for dirt, they could eventually find it. when it comes to legal things, sure. its not as bad but you mentioned adoption. do you really think that someones past as a porn actor won't be brought into play? or you just think that no one will ever know? seems a bit naive or optimistic to think that. why do you think we see the threads where girls beg to have their pictures taken down?

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04-01-2006, 10:30 AM

Originally posted by HotMelissa

I am sorry but I know what I am doing! If I wasn't set pretty much already I may not be stretching the envelope so much. Before I started doing this I was working with Annuities and I was training all of our new employees and I was only 21 years old. I am not worried that a couple misdemeanors will stop me from getting the right job. In less then 2 years I will have enough money put away to never have to work again if I don't want too. I have been smart and invested most my money. Melissa

Let this young girl think she knows what she's doing...She's just making herself "hot" and I don't mean hot in a beautiful way...

If she wants to risk getting fucked then let her...And when she DOES get fucked, just let her rot....

And BLAMMO, just two seconds ago, a girl just as hot or hotter than melissa just turned 18....Uh oh! There's another one...It goes on and on..Let her do what the fuck she wants even though we all know that she's a fucking imbecile for doing this shit.

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#139

04-01-2006, 10:31 AM

Originally posted by BlackCrayon

heh, maybe some unknown cam girl but eventually word will get around whatever area she lives in. friends and family find out all the time coming across stuff online. i can only imagine if someone was looking for dirt, they could eventually find it. when it comes to legal things, sure. its not as bad but you mentioned adoption. do you really think that someones past as a porn actor won't be brought into play? or you just think that no one will ever know? seems a bit naive or optimistic to think that. why do you think we see the threads where girls beg to have their pictures taken down?

I agree to disagree , I worked in the adult business for 20 yrs. Ive seen girls come and go, they can do it. Now if the girl decides to tell the world what she did in a past life , well shame on her. As far as adoption unless your a big star and kept your mouth shut no one would know. Alot of people think they are bigger then they really are. Also unless a girl dresses like a stripper in her real life, most wouldnt realise its her. They may say boy that girl looks like her but our girl could never do that.
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04-01-2006, 10:34 AM

Quite interesting indeed.

The thoughts that cross my mind are these:

Most people would focus on the negative aspects that may affect Ms. Midwest. No one likes being shaken down for sure. The flip side is that even negative publicity is "publicity" evidentary by this thread and previous ones alone. Sometimes noteriety breeds more fame.

Has anyone considered that the LPD finds it equally entertaining?

6 PM LPD Roll Call

Corporal - "So what's on the agenda tonight Sarge?"

Seargent - "Oh, well.. we'll work some traffic stops, maybe a few DUI checkpoints, and if shit get's boring we can always go check in on Melissa Midwest."

Corporal - "Hell yeah SARGE!"

I've been there in good ole Lincoln. It's not LA, and the LPD may have a little time on their hands.

I'm no lawyer, but if it were me... I wouldn't move. Why leave someplace you like? Also, I wouldn't go ANYWHERE without a videocam or a cam crew as you had in this instance. I'd also be uploading those vids to Howard Stern and any other sympathetic audiences to make sure that favorable publicity stays in your corner and not the corner of the Bible Thumping 80 year old residents of NE. As a matter of fact, MM should be honored they have nothing better to do.

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04-01-2006, 10:54 AM

Originally posted by tony404

I agree to disagree , I worked in the adult business for 20 yrs. Ive seen girls come and go, they can do it. Now if the girl decides to tell the world what she did in a past life , well shame on her. As far as adoption unless your a big star and kept your mouth shut no one would know. Alot of people think they are bigger then they really are. Also unless a girl dresses like a stripper in her real life, most wouldnt realise its her. They may say boy that girl looks like her but our girl could never do that.

well you would know way more than i but do you really know what happens to these girls after they go? yeah the girls themselves might think they are bigger than they are but if they are plastered all over tgp's, it takes the risk up a notch. the whole idea of 'one one will ever know' makes me wonder how many average women out there have done porn.

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#142

04-01-2006, 11:09 AM

Originally posted by HotMelissa

Below is a link to the page with all the info and the video! The crazy part is my camera guys got the whole thing on tape and were assulted by the police for taping it. Click the link below to read about it and to watch the video of the poilce freaking out on me. Melissa

http://www.melissamidwest.com/policevideo.html

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#143

04-01-2006, 11:11 AM

Originally posted by KRL

Melissa is a gorgeous ambitious young woman. She's got tremendous opportunities ahead of her if she makes the right moves. She can and should go way beyond the porn industry with her kind of looks.

That's why when you have that kind of opportunity ahead you don't want to fuck it up with all the bullshit that can arise from playing games with some lame local cops on a mission to ruin her rep

Plus its critical how far she goes with porn, if she has ambitions for TV and other mainstream projects. The money is great now, and she's having a blast doing it, but ask anyone who couldn't get the mainstream acting and modeling projects they wanted because of their porn background and you always hear "I wish I never did that". Good thing is its less of an issue than it used to be, but it still can present problems in many cases.

So I'm just throwing in my 2cents cause I've seen many go through this kind of thing, and its crazy to let shit like this have any chance to get in the way of her future objectives.

Agree KRL!

Seen at all before and will prob see it yet again. The net result is ususally future problems and not worth the hassle - it's just an inhibitor to more revelant "bigger fish" in the future.

I can think of a couple of friends who were/are models - one is now doing TV presentations among other things, - another is a "celeb" in her own right. Neither would have got that far by having a problematic background.

Smell Melissa has more to lose than a couple of dumb cops.

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04-01-2006, 12:59 PM

Wow, crazy stuff!

Makes you wonder what will happen during the April 12th oil contest, lol!

I would be very careful, considering that you think getting a ticket is being under arrest. That right there makes me wonder if you can handle playing with fire. I think your a doll, and would hate to hear anything bad happening to you.

What's more important? being happy, having a huge successful site? Or dealing with the people that are trying to bring you down? I think you will do just find and will not need to bank anything on what happens to you in your small town. I also wonder, did your very first incident, bring on that many sign ups?

Get the hell out of dodge. Go as far with what you want to do without being harrassed. Dealing with that crap is going to make you sick. I don't care what pay offs or attention you may get from it, Your successful reguardless.

Good luck with whatever you do do, I would hate to feel like I was being watched, we also don't want to read about some crap being planted, thats plain scary.

Your simply "bigger" than your small town and they can't hang with it.
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04-01-2006, 01:05 PM

to slow Joe!
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#146

04-01-2006, 01:12 PM

Originally posted by BlackCrayon

well you would know way more than i but do you really know what happens to these girls after they go? yeah the girls themselves might think they are bigger than they are but if they are plastered all over tgp's, it takes the risk up a notch. the whole idea of 'one one will ever know' makes me wonder how many average women out there have done porn.

another example I remembered at lunch lol
John Cornetta owner of the local atlanta sex newspaper and of adult video stores very vocal, been in the press local and national.
http://atlanta.creativeloafing.com/2...over_news.html
Well he got the acting bug, mainstream .He has got to a six episode contract to play characters on the cooking show good eats. Has had parts in showtime and Mtv productions.
I dont think after porn someone cant have a life , what we see is many who were fuck ups before, during and after porn. Because they did porn is the excuse they use their life isnt going anywhere.
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#147

04-01-2006, 03:55 PM

Originally posted by BVF

Let this young girl think she knows what she's doing...She's just making herself "hot" and I don't mean hot in a beautiful way...

If she wants to risk getting fucked then let her...And when she DOES get fucked, just let her rot....

And BLAMMO, just two seconds ago, a girl just as hot or hotter than melissa just turned 18....Uh oh! There's another one...It goes on and on..Let her do what the fuck she wants even though we all know that she's a fucking imbecile for doing this shit.

Ouch.

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#148

04-01-2006, 06:42 PM

im not taking sides, but as the EX GM of a very popular bar / music venue in colorado i know that is in violation of liquor license laws.. they could have their licenses suspended just for having the dildo there and pretending you were going to put it in your mouth.. im surprised the bar manager didnt stop you first..
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#149

04-01-2006, 07:03 PM

Originally posted by PR_Tom

I think (but dont know) that when you see female police dealing with females it's usually a curteousy, not a requirement. The less they feel the subject would be embarassed or traumatized, the less likely they'd be to arrange for a female officer.
Just a guess.

I think in a situation like this, where a woman is required to expose herself, a female should be present.. Not sure if it's in their police procedures, but definitely something I'd check into..

I know in most places, if a male cop is transporting a female, he has to radio in his location, time, and current mileage..
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04-01-2006, 07:35 PM

Originally posted by Scootermuze

I think in a situation like this, where a woman is required to expose herself, a female should be present.. Not sure if it's in their police procedures, but definitely something I'd check into..

I know in most places, if a male cop is transporting a female, he has to radio in his location, time, and current mileage..

That's what makes you wonder about these particular cops. To have a male officer ask a female detainee to lift her shirt is not standard police protocal in any department I've ever heard of.

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