How do pornstar boyfriends deal with seeing their girlfriend getting fucked?

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  • woj
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    • Jul 2002
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    #51
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    • BusterBunny
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      • Aug 2005
      • 19291

      #52
      couldnt tell you
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      • alec
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        • Jun 2005
        • 1877

        #53
        I think they both understand each other's job..

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        • Expo_Vids
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          • Jul 2005
          • 1162

          #54
          I am too lazy to read this entire thread but often the reason they allow their "girlfriends" to fuck guys on camera for money is because a large part of the money the girl makes goes to him.
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          • TimCase
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            • Jul 2004
            • 123

            #55
            I realize that every relationship is unique in its own way...I know couples where each partner is so jealous that they flip out whenever their mate is caught talking to a member of the opposite sex, and these people aren't in the adult industry in any way. I also know people who are married who've been swingers for years and are very happy...people who aren't in the business whose S.O.'s are porn stars or escorts...people who are happily monogamous and couldn't imagine having it any other way.

            I also realize that it's much easier for people to explain away the happy, supportive, successful porn industry relationships that are out there (few and far apart though they may be) by saying "Well, it must be about the money she brings home to her pimp"...or it must be about "his kink of watching his lady get banged by other men"...or something else to that effect.

            Perhaps -- and this might be a stretch for some people, I admit -- there are couples who work within this industry who are happy and secure in their relationships because they have figured out that love and sex are, quite simply, two different things.
            Last edited by TimCase; 03-29-2006, 10:43 PM.
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            • Wankus
              Registered User
              • Aug 2002
              • 51

              #56
              Originally posted by Nydahl
              the very most of them are just cheap loosers unable to get a job and live on it
              so they don't care as far as the girl is coming back home after fucking - with money in the pocket.
              That's a pretty uninformed response. There is no doubt a lot of suitcase pimps in this business who leach off their porn star spouses but if you look at many of the others, you'll see many couples that met in the business, both working successfully in their jobs. Hell, even Tim Case has a job now--kinda depressing if you think about it. We loved him as a tag along loser.

              Believe it or not, I think it's actually harder for two couples who are BOTH shooting porn. A jealousy, competition and strange resentment can build up and the two either get bogged down by "cans and cants" on set or they go to the other extreme and just bang everyone on and off set, no rules, until someone can't take it anymore.

              Nicole and VooDoo really have a good respect for one another. They seen to be one of the most secure, well communicating porn couples in the biz. I think it may help them that they're swingers because they're already groomed to avoid jealousy on the most part.

              Me and Tyler don't really "swing". We've played a little but don't really enjoy it that much. We'd much rather chill with each other because since she FUCKS for work, she enjoys actually having sex with meaning at home.

              Just my thoughts.

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              • Wankus
                Registered User
                • Aug 2002
                • 51

                #57
                Originally posted by d_train
                guys date pornstars because seeing their girlfriend being fucked by other guys is what gets them off. that's what they are after.
                Listen. We all have our things. Personally, if I tag team Tyler with a buddy that I respect, someone I trust, someone I consider a good friend...it can be hot because I'm with her when she's the queen for the day. I'm part of the kinky little fantasy with her.

                When she goes to shoot. When I see her movies on the screen. When I am home editing a fucking promo for KSEX knowing that she's bent over and gettin' it from a guy with twice my pipe? It fuckin' sucks! Trust me! LOL


                PS TIM CASE: Don't get any ideas. You're not a buddy I respect!

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                • Wankus
                  Registered User
                  • Aug 2002
                  • 51

                  #58
                  Originally posted by Expo_Vids
                  I am too lazy to read this entire thread but often the reason they allow their "girlfriends" to fuck guys on camera for money is because a large part of the money the girl makes goes to him.
                  Sorry for so many responses. Just got home from work and can't sleep.

                  There is truth in the fact that many guys live off their girls. BUt there are many cases that the couples can seperate their lives, have their own careers and be almost a normal couple.

                  I make a salary at KSEX. I host TV shows in iNDemand, live events, etc. That's my money. It goes in my account and I use it to pay my personal bills.

                  Tyler shoots scenes for other companies. She feature dances on the road. She also hosts events at clubs, TV shows, etc. That is HER money and goes in her account.

                  As a couple, we both have equally invested in Team Tyler Productions. Any work that goes into that company, we both chip in evenly out of our own personal accounts and any profit from the company we both split evenly.

                  Obviously if one of us is having some down time in their entertainment careers (common) the other may help them out, but in general it's very precise and fair.

                  In the end, we don't really become sticklers to "this is your money" "this is my money"...we're a serious couple. We view it all as OUR money. But the point is, no one is mooching off the other. We work together--independently...if that makes any sense. LOL

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                  • Wankus
                    Registered User
                    • Aug 2002
                    • 51

                    #59
                    Originally posted by TimCase
                    I realize that every relationship is unique in its own way...I know couples where each partner is so jealous that they flip out whenever their mate is caught talking to a member of the opposite sex, and these people aren't in the adult industry in any way. I also know people who are married who've been swingers for years and are very happy...people who aren't in the business whose S.O.'s are porn stars or escorts...people who are happily monogamous and couldn't imagine having it any other way.

                    I also realize that it's much easier for people to explain away the happy, supportive, successful porn industry relationships that are out there (few and far apart though they may be) by saying "Well, it must be about the money she brings home to her pimp"...or it must be about "his kink of watching his lady get banged by other men"...or something else to that effect.

                    Perhaps -- and this might be a stretch for some people, I admit -- there are couples who work within this industry who are happy and secure in their relationships because they have figured out that love and sex are, quite simply, two different things.
                    Goddamn it Tim! I wish I read this before all my posts! LOL You spelled it out perfectly. And on a different topic, I want to thank you for keeping your relationship secure and together after Fifi sucked my dick on a few occasions.

                    Love ya like a bruthah!

                    Wank

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                    • Doctor Dre
                      Too lazy to set a custom title
                      • Jan 2001
                      • 51692

                      #60
                      Originally posted by Jace
                      yup, i totally agreee

                      the best times were when the mom or dad was on set to watch though, i NEVER got used to seeing that shit
                      Now that is fucking disturbed
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                      • tristan_D
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                        • Jul 2005
                        • 7865

                        #61
                        Originally posted by Jace
                        yup, i totally agreee

                        the best times were when the mom or dad was on set to watch though, i NEVER got used to seeing that shit

                        I never expected being stage parents could stretch this far
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                        • Wankus
                          Registered User
                          • Aug 2002
                          • 51

                          #62
                          Originally posted by tristan_D
                          I never expected being stage parents could stretch this far
                          Sean Michaels' mom used to cater food on his sets.

                          Tyla Wynn's mom is way out there and brags about, in detail her favorite scenes that include her daughter.

                          Then of course there's BiSexual Britni...who claimed to love getting it on with her mom.

                          I don't even shoot porn and my mom's in denial about what I do.

                          "Hows your son, Grace? What's he up to now?"

                          "He lives in Los Angeles...he's a fireman." LOL

                          True story.

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                          • Stallion
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                            • Jan 2001
                            • 6632

                            #63
                            dont think I would beable to handle it that well
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                            • wyldblyss
                              Confirmed User
                              • Nov 2003
                              • 5779

                              #64
                              Originally posted by Jace
                              yup, i totally agreee

                              the best times were when the mom or dad was on set to watch though, i NEVER got used to seeing that shit
                              OMFG you are joking? that is just so so so so wrong!!

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                              • Ivana Fukalot
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                                • Mar 2006
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                                #65
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                                • Wiggles
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                                  • May 2004
                                  • 14423

                                  #66
                                  fuck i could never do that, i'm way to jealous!
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                                  • Porno Dan
                                    Court Jester
                                    • May 2003
                                    • 6342

                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by Wankus
                                    Sean Michaels' mom used to cater food on his sets.

                                    Tyla Wynn's mom is way out there and brags about, in detail her favorite scenes that include her daughter.

                                    Then of course there's BiSexual Britni...who claimed to love getting it on with her mom.

                                    I don't even shoot porn and my mom's in denial about what I do.

                                    "Hows your son, Grace? What's he up to now?"

                                    "He lives in Los Angeles...he's a fireman." LOL

                                    True story.
                                    My Mom moved out of country so she wouldn't to hear all her friends talking about me.

                                    This is very interesting topic. I know I have had problems with every girlfriend I have dared since I became a porn producer/star. I even went as far to quit starring for my last girlfriend, but we ended up cheating on each other.

                                    It is very difficult and does put a strain on relationships.

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                                    • tony299
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                                      • Aug 2002
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                                      #68
                                      I think if they are swingers then its no big deal but if they are not and if they are insecure its doomed to fail.

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                                      • Wankus
                                        Registered User
                                        • Aug 2002
                                        • 51

                                        #69
                                        Originally posted by tony404
                                        I think if they are swingers then its no big deal but if they are not and if they are insecure its doomed to fail.
                                        It's not always that simple my friend. First, even swingers have their jealousies. Second, even if you're secure in yourself and your relationship, if you're NOT a swinger, it can build up and eat at you knowing that while you're off to the office, your girl is off to get fucked.

                                        If you're a committed spouse and not playing on the side, that can get to you. Trust me. ;)

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                                        • Purple Haze
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                                          • Apr 2004
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                                          #70
                                          Good topic....lets keep the responses coming.

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                                          • Joey B. Lo
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                                            • Mar 2006
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                                            #71
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