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Parental Dilema...What do you say to you daughter when she wants to do porn?

03-18-2006, 11:20 PM

I'm a father with two young daughters.

I've been thinking about what they will do when they grow up. What if one wants to do porn? After working in porn for this time, how can I discourage them?

If I think that they are going about it in the right way, then I think I'll be as cool as I couldm aboiut it, but I would be so afraid of visiting any porn site just in case she is on it.

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03-18-2006, 11:22 PM

she probably wont tell you.
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03-18-2006, 11:24 PM

By the time you find out, it'll be too late... really, its not like these girls come up to their parents and say, hey dad, I'm thinking about trying this porno thing. They tend to keep this thing secret.
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03-18-2006, 11:25 PM

Originally posted by mfps

she probably wont tell you.

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03-18-2006, 11:26 PM

Do they know / will know that your in the biz?
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03-18-2006, 11:28 PM

What these guys said.

Unless she knows you are into porn and asks your advice. I then would tell her that what ever she does in front of a camera will be seen by her friends so she has to live with her decisions.

Most girls go into porn because they need the money, I would think I had failed in my role as a parent in not bringing her up with enough sense to make a good living. Unless she was doing it to supplement her student grant.

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03-18-2006, 11:30 PM

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03-18-2006, 11:32 PM

The day your daughter comes to you and tells you this, you lock her up in the basement for the next twenty years.

The day this happens in my household is the same day all fucking hell breaks loose.

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03-18-2006, 11:35 PM

Originally posted by Rochard

The day your daughter comes to you and tells you this, you lock her up in the basement for the next twenty years.

The day this happens in my household is the same day all fucking hell breaks loose.

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03-19-2006, 01:00 AM

Daughter doing porn definately ranks up there in the top 5 worst things that could happen to a parent... I'd lock her up, haha.
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03-19-2006, 01:30 AM

Its funny how many of us profit and make livings off other fathers daughters YET when it is one of our own we think we may have failed as a parent.

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03-19-2006, 01:55 AM

lol, I love this topic, with 3 daughters myself, I am dreading the day....

I have a bottle of cloraform waiting for such a day...

she will be knocked out, and placed in the "FPP" = Father Protection Program, where she will spend her days residing hail mary's and other inspirational sections from the good book, while locked in her room...

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03-19-2006, 02:10 AM

I would say...
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03-19-2006, 02:28 AM

Originally posted by WiredGuy

By the time you find out, it'll be too late... really, its not like these girls come up to their parents and say, hey dad, I'm thinking about trying this porno thing. They tend to keep this thing secret.
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03-19-2006, 02:30 AM

Originally posted by leroytrolley

Parental Dilema...What do you say to you daughter when she wants to do porn?

I'd tell her: "There is no money in porn".

There, problem solved.
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03-19-2006, 02:31 AM

Thank god I have a son.

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03-19-2006, 03:32 AM

Originally posted by escorpio

Thank god I have a son.

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03-19-2006, 03:50 AM

Originally posted by Gaybucks

Welllll... not so fast!

There are plenty of sites featuring straight guys jerking off (including our own soon-to-launch straightboysecrets.com) as well as lots of sites with gay sex featuring straight/gay/questioning guys on them (including our own high-converting boyfunk.com)

Probably not what you wanted to hear... but when your son turns 18, if he decides he wants to try it out, send him our way, and we'll make sure he's treated right

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03-19-2006, 04:59 AM

Originally posted by escorpio

Thank god I have a son.

Indeed..
As some guy with a daughter told David Letterman one night..

"You have one son to loo out for.. I have them ALL to look out for."
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03-19-2006, 05:28 AM

I don't think that ever will be a problem...

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03-19-2006, 05:39 AM

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03-19-2006, 06:11 AM

do you have pics of your daughter?

Originally posted by leroytrolley

I'm a father with two young daughters.

I've been thinking about what they will do when they grow up. What if one wants to do porn? After working in porn for this time, how can I discourage them?

If I think that they are going about it in the right way, then I think I'll be as cool as I couldm aboiut it, but I would be so afraid of visiting any porn site just in case she is on it.

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03-19-2006, 06:32 AM

buy a video camera.
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03-19-2006, 06:45 AM

First thing you do is tell her you get 15% as her manager and then try to talk her out of it. we all know that there are a few models that made it and managed to stay clean. Most models are not just posing naked but living a very hard lifestyle and end up worn out way before they make enough to retire. overall i don't think any girl should do porn unless they have a very realistic view of what their doing.

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03-19-2006, 07:22 AM

Tell her that its the same as other lines of work....there are good people....and there are bad people....then help her to find the good people. Hopefully she wouldn't try to do it without you....

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03-19-2006, 08:16 AM

Sleep well knowing that whether your daughter goes into the porn biz or not, you're a failure as a parent. If you keep this idea fresh in your mind, the day your daughter ends up in the porn biz it won't be so hard to deal with.

And if she doesn't, thats just a bonus.
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03-19-2006, 08:25 AM

One simple line...

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03-19-2006, 08:47 AM

Originally posted by MikeVega

First thing you do is tell her you get 15% as her manager and then try to talk her out of it. we all know that there are a few models that made it and managed to stay clean. Most models are not just posing naked but living a very hard lifestyle and end up worn out way before they make enough to retire. overall i don't think any girl should do porn unless they have a very realistic view of what their doing.

Ask her to show you some porn actresses that have made it big in this industry and, or others after being in this industry and show her 100 that have not. Then the ones that she finds that have "made it" ask her to research them and find out what happened to them say after 5 years, 10 years etc. Be blunt about it, show the real life not the fake glam that you see tossed all around. Really and openly discuss it and find out why she would choose a profession such as this. Show her GFY and let her see the drama that seems to go around and around in this industry, a lot of the time one person fucking the next with no regard for the future, Then start taking her along to the trade shows to see other girls FIRST HAND that are walking the floors... Point out the differance between the models that are only paid to be there, but don't do porn, and the real girls that are walking the floor who are into the industry. Basically, be honest and upfront with her about it and after you have given her the information let her make up her mind from that point. What else can a parent do? I'm not going to lie to my daugter, or try to hide her from the real world. I hope to raise someone that is stong and secure in herself and understands full well that you don't EVER want to be in a position where your dependant on someone else but self reliant. I'm not going to raise her with the fucking princess fairytale, barbie doll bullshit I see others crap up there daugters minds with today. I don't want to there to be a point where I have to "wonder" what she is thinking of doing, but, hopefully have created a safe harbor at home where she feels secure enough to talk with my wife or I about anything without fear or embarrassment. How this all works out is anyones guess, I will just try to do as good a job I can if I fuckup along the way try to learn from those mistakes and grow right along side her.

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03-19-2006, 09:33 AM

quit fantasizing and get back to work
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03-19-2006, 09:47 AM

try and show her there is much more money behind the scenes.

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03-19-2006, 09:59 AM

Originally posted by BlackCrayon

try and show her there is much more money behind the scenes.

is there? for most people no. most people should go back to high school or college and get a real job.
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03-19-2006, 10:07 AM

if you're not comfortable with your kids getting into the business why are YOU in the business?

think about it?

Seriously.

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03-19-2006, 10:08 AM

Originally posted by MikeVega

First thing you do is tell her you get 15% as her manager and then try to talk her out of it. we all know that there are a few models that made it and managed to stay clean. Most models are not just posing naked but living a very hard lifestyle and end up worn out way before they make enough to retire. overall i don't think any girl should do porn unless they have a very realistic view of what their doing.

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03-19-2006, 10:14 AM

Originally posted by detoxed

is there? for most people no. most people should go back to high school or college and get a real job.

there is no money in real jobs either. people will might eventually work their way up to decent money working for someone else but you can make just as much or more yourself if you work just as hard. go to college, get a job and make 40k/year if you're lucky...that sucks.

there are a lot of broke asses on the internet side of things but i don't see how performers make more than the people producing it. if that was the case they could never break a profit.

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03-19-2006, 10:14 AM

one of two would be failure

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03-19-2006, 10:51 AM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

if you're not comfortable with your kids getting into the business why are YOU in the business?

think about it?

Seriously.

There are many things I do/have done that I wouldn't want my kids to do. Think about it....seriously.
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03-19-2006, 11:03 AM

you apologize to them for being a horrible father
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03-19-2006, 11:31 AM

Originally posted by bdld

you apologize to them for being a horrible father

That is a severe cop out. You very well could be one of the best fathers ever and still end up with either a stripper or porn star daughter. It is life, nothing more and nothing less.

If a daughter of mine or hell even a friends daughter, niece whatever told me she wanted to be in porn. I would sit her down and have a serious conversation with her. Explain everything from the worst to the best. If there is still somewhat of an interest I would do my best to try to explain there is more to be made behind the camera than in front of it. If that still fails and that is what they really wish to do. I would have to just do my best to explain the right and wrong way to go about it.

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03-19-2006, 11:38 AM

I got 2 girls. 19 and 17. They are both well aware of what I do. The oldest aske me what I would do if she wanted to get in to "the business". I told her to go right ahead, but remember, there is more money behind the camera, than there is, in front of it. She's helping with building galleries to start with.
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03-19-2006, 11:40 AM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

if you're not comfortable with your kids getting into the business why are YOU in the business?

think about it?

Seriously.

There is a big difference between being talent and uploading a few cartoons and some scripts to grab galleries.

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03-19-2006, 11:47 AM

Originally posted by devilspost

There is a big difference between being talent and uploading a few cartoons and some scripts to grab galleries.

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03-19-2006, 11:48 AM

Originally posted by avalanche

Tell her that its the same as other lines of work....there are good people....and there are bad people....then help her to find the good people. Hopefully she wouldn't try to do it without you....

thats what id do only if i knew her well enough to know for a fact she isn't doing it out of desperation or insecurity and she was strong enough to handle other people giving her shit about it when/if they found out

and i would like to think that when im a parent i would raise my daughter so she would actually TALK to me if she was considering it, and would listen to what i have to say

doing (extremely softcore heh) porn hasn't hurt me, i know this. even my relationships are still in tact and me and my dad go out for chili cheese fries sometimes. it's all about who the girl is as a person... it's just not good for some people. my mom told me, after months of telling me i can't have a site, that she won't try to get in my way (now that i live on my own) as long as she doesn't see it damaging me

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03-19-2006, 11:52 AM

I have spoken to the fathers of several models.
Always an interesting discussion, but in all cases I did shoot the girl...

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03-19-2006, 11:55 AM

No kids for me....One less thing I have to worry about.

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03-19-2006, 11:57 AM

Can you imagine how cool it would be, you open a "check out this teen model I just shot" thread on gfy, and it's your daughter?

or better yet, you review galleries on your tgp, and you see a gallery with your daughter submitted...

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03-19-2006, 04:55 PM

I am not sure if porn industry still thrives at that time..

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03-19-2006, 11:16 PM

I will expose her to the real side of the industry, as much as I can.

Anyway, I like this thread, It's worth thinking...

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03-20-2006, 01:25 AM

You won't be able to decide really for her when she reached the legal age. For now if you don't want her to do porn in the future, be a good example and you must quit first.
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03-20-2006, 06:33 PM

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03-20-2006, 07:08 PM

Originally posted by SleazyDream

if you're not comfortable with your kids getting into the business why are YOU in the business?

think about it?

Seriously.

I wouldn't be confortable with my daughter doing double penetration, deep troath and stuff like that... seriously.

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