If you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.
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thats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..Comment
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if it wasnt a friendly kiss on the cheek id have a serious talk with her...
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hahaha, you're asking for it with those kinda comments Brandon! lolOriginally posted by brand0nshes not that good of a kisser.. my bad..shesh
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Mutual friend
Shes upset and says she wants me back ect
I dunno wtf too do anyone been in any simillar sits?
Originally posted by rowanI personally think it's stepping over the line but I'm not sure you should unconditionally dump her for it.
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I took a girl back after she pulled a stunt like that. She cried and wailed and wanted me back, so I relented.Originally posted by karlmMutual friend
Shes upset and says she wants me back ect
I dunno wtf too do anyone been in any simillar sits?
....a year later I caught her cheating on me.
Save yourself the time. I wish I had just moved on when I had the chance.
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Yea ive been told the same thing once a cheater always a cheater
Originally posted by sperbonzoI took a girl back after she pulled a stunt like that. She cried and wailed and wanted me back, so I relented.
....a year later I caught her cheating on me.
Save yourself the time. I wish I had just moved on when I had the chance.
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Exactly, within one relationship, I think that's true. She may not be a cheater in a later time in her life, but with you, the pattern is set.Originally posted by karlmYea ive been told the same thing once a cheater always a cheater
Who knows, maybe you will teach her a lesson and she won't screw up with her next relationship. You'll be doing yourself a favor, and doing her a favor at the same time. I'm not saying that it's easy to break up with someone, but it's a lot easier than staying with the wrong one ...over the long run.Michael Sperber / Acella Financial LLC/ Online Payment Processing
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well, what was her reasoning for the kiss? just too drunk? or is it something deeper? everyone IS entitled to (pardon the expression) Fuck up once in a while, doesn't mean she'll do it again.....just playin devil's advocate here!Comment
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cheating for sure though you did not tell us the whole story! did you get into a fight with her before hand? does she know that you think she is your gf?
tell us all of it
if you were fighting maybe it is not cheatingComment
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It's pathetic that you would have to ask.
How about this. Did it bother you that she was kissing another man. If Yes! than it is cheating.Do you need design work done. I am available check out my site TMC Web DesignsComment
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Originally posted by karlmFound out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
Whhooops. Time to go and fuck one of her best friends.
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HAHAHA...yes, the ULTIMATE retaliation!! Make sure to pick the hottest one tho! Really piss her off! lolOriginally posted by LiveDoseWhhooops. Time to go and fuck one of her best friends.
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smack that silly bitch the fuck down!Originally posted by karlmFound out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
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Here's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?Comment
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Yup it's still cheating, it doesn't matter if it's a girl or guy but I suppose if it was my girlfriend I wouldn't mind it quite as much if she was kissing a chick. I suppose the test is to ask her if you can kiss the chick as well and see what she says.Originally posted by volanteHere's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?Comment
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with no doubt.. i will call that cheating!!
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Kissing lips is borderline cheating, kissing dick is solidly cheating, and kissing puckered anus is so badly mega-slut-class cheating that you'll have to assume she's been doing all your friends and their dogs for the past 6 and a half years.Originally posted by karlmFound out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
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It's cheating for sure. BUT it's a kind of "minor" cheating, when you forgive but not forget.Comment
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cheating for sure... at least that means that I don't care about my boyfriend much... If I kiss someone I mean
and for my boyfriend... God, I would kill him
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I agreed...unless she was completely wastedOriginally posted by PlatinumpimpI agree. If you love somebody you definately shouldn't feel the need to make out with somebody else, whether its kissing or fucking.Comment
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So, thats what you know about?
Imagine all the shit that you DONT know about my man.
Shit like this is why its just easier to swing..... You dont have this silly bullshit get in the way.Comment
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I would be wondering why my girlfriend (or wife, as the case may be) is out sucking face with some other guy.Originally posted by dynastonedthats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..
It amazes me that some of you don't seem to mind (or care) if your woman is out sucking face with some other guy.
A friendly peck on the cheek given to a known friend is a different matter. THAT I can understand, as it's perectly fine. But actually kissing some guy on the lips? I don't think so. I'm not the jealous type at all, I'm the type that would tell her to keep right on kissing the guy and "See ya"...... in other words I'd give her the kiss off. :DPromote Wildmatch, ImLive, Sexier.com, and more!!

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what type of kiss? kiss that you would give your blood relative or kiss that would determine what a person had for lunch.Comment
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oh, i think thats not good. But maybe she was a very very drunk?Originally posted by karlmFound out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
If she was kissing with a girl, its ok.

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That's no excuse.Originally posted by Ivana FukalotBut maybe she was a very very drunk?Promote Wildmatch, ImLive, Sexier.com, and more!!

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Depends on what set of lips he was kissing.
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What I think is totally crazy is that you folks don't have a conversation with your girlfriends/boyfriends when you first start dating as to what is cheating and what isn't cheating.
I'm a swinger and have negotiated all the things that I (and my man) are allowed to do with full approval of the other partner. You know what WE consider cheating and a total deal breaker??? Fucking somebody WITHOUT USING CONDOMS. That's the only thing that we consider cheating.
Next time you want to figure out if what your girlfriend/boyfriend was doing was cheating, have a conversation with them (ideally when you first start dating) and negotiate the ground rules. Then everybody knows up front what is acceptable and not, so when a rule is broken it is completely clear that this is a violation of the relationship agreement.
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depends on the situation. if they were both drunk as balls, and HE made the move, then its not really cheating ONLY IF she told him to never do that again.
BUT if shes all over some dude and kissing on him all night, then thats cheating lol
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I agree. Thats a rule I live by in my relationship.Originally posted by ultimatebbwdotcomIf you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.Adult Comics Club - Updated Bi-Daily. 60% Recurring Payouts. Exclusive Comic Content.Comment
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It is amazing to me. You are in the Porn Biz and you are getting worked up about your girffriend kissing another guy. WTF
I bet if she kissed a another girl - you would be boasting about it - no bitching about it.
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def. cheating, she is obviously scandalous, break her off now.
these types of girls will only end up cheating on you in the future. any girl going out to clubs and acting like she is single should be that indeed SINGLE.
it IS different though if the guy came up and out of no where kissed her. as long as she shoved him away and told you then those are grounds for forgivness.Comment
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You are the exception then.Originally posted by MaskTVMauraI'm a swinger
As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.
Do unto others and all that. :D
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Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.Originally posted by CDSmithYou are the exception then.
As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.
Do unto others and all that. :D
Frankly I'm a bit surprised by some of the ho-hum no-biggie replies in this thread, but on the other hand seeing as this is gofuckyourself... I guess it isn't such a big surprise after all.
Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.Last edited by GlydeGirl; 03-15-2006, 02:03 PM.Comment
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Romantic relationships aren't business deals Maura. Do you not know this?Originally posted by MaskTVMauraFact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.
Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.
Swingers do need to set boundaries.
But in regular relationships it is normally understood that once you're together you're together, no outside contact. At least that's the way it is with most people I know (who aren't swingers)
You being someone who prefers the open-ended style of relationship might find it hard to grasp that other people don't go around "negotiating" with each other every time they meet someone new.
No worries, I'm just as befuddled about your way of life, as I have no idea how people can watch their lover get laid by someone else.
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Do you really think that in most cases if a guy tells his girlfriend that kissing someone else is a no-no that she won't go do it anyway?Originally posted by MaskTVMauraFact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating.
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I figured as much, hense my response haha :POriginally posted by wojI was just giving stupid response to a stupid question, it should be pretty obvious that kissing another guy when you are in a relationship is not cool...AIM sherierocks
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she's a swingerOriginally posted by CDSmithDo you really think that in most cases if a guy tells his girlfriend that kissing someone else is a no-no that she won't go do it anyway?
Seriously, I am laughing here.
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