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  • ultimatebbwdotcom
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    • Mar 2006
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    #51
    If you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.
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    • dynastoned
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      • Feb 2005
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      #52
      thats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..

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      • WebairGerard
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        • Sep 2005
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        #53
        definatley dipping her toes into the cheating pool

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        • Denis_SC
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          #54
          Originally posted by xclusive
          I totally agree i'd let her go if she's willing to kiss another guy she will probably do anything else.
          Not probably but definitely will !

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          • DutchTeenCash
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            #55
            if it wasnt a friendly kiss on the cheek id have a serious talk with her...

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            • p2p chad
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              #56
              Originally posted by brand0n
              shes not that good of a kisser.. my bad..shesh
              hahaha, you're asking for it with those kinda comments Brandon! lol

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              • rowan
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                #57
                I personally think it's stepping over the line but I'm not sure you should unconditionally dump her for it.

                How did you find out?

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                • karlm
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                  #58
                  Mutual friend

                  Shes upset and says she wants me back ect

                  I dunno wtf too do anyone been in any simillar sits?
                  Originally posted by rowan
                  I personally think it's stepping over the line but I'm not sure you should unconditionally dump her for it.

                  How did you find out?
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                  • sperbonzo
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                    • May 2003
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                    #59
                    Originally posted by karlm
                    Mutual friend

                    Shes upset and says she wants me back ect

                    I dunno wtf too do anyone been in any simillar sits?
                    I took a girl back after she pulled a stunt like that. She cried and wailed and wanted me back, so I relented.


                    ....a year later I caught her cheating on me.


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                    • karlm
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                      #60
                      Yea ive been told the same thing once a cheater always a cheater
                      Originally posted by sperbonzo
                      I took a girl back after she pulled a stunt like that. She cried and wailed and wanted me back, so I relented.


                      ....a year later I caught her cheating on me.


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                      • sperbonzo
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                        #61
                        Originally posted by karlm
                        Yea ive been told the same thing once a cheater always a cheater
                        Exactly, within one relationship, I think that's true. She may not be a cheater in a later time in her life, but with you, the pattern is set.

                        Who knows, maybe you will teach her a lesson and she won't screw up with her next relationship. You'll be doing yourself a favor, and doing her a favor at the same time. I'm not saying that it's easy to break up with someone, but it's a lot easier than staying with the wrong one ...over the long run.
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                        • p2p chad
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                          #62
                          well, what was her reasoning for the kiss? just too drunk? or is it something deeper? everyone IS entitled to (pardon the expression) Fuck up once in a while, doesn't mean she'll do it again.....just playin devil's advocate here!

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                          • Platinum Red
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                            #63
                            cheating for sure though you did not tell us the whole story! did you get into a fight with her before hand? does she know that you think she is your gf?
                            tell us all of it

                            if you were fighting maybe it is not cheating
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                            • Mighty Chin
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                              #64
                              It's pathetic that you would have to ask.

                              How about this. Did it bother you that she was kissing another man. If Yes! than it is cheating.
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                              • Wiggles
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                                #65
                                my wife considers it cheating, so yeah i guess so.
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                                • LiveDose
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                                  #66
                                  Originally posted by karlm
                                  Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club

                                  Whhooops. Time to go and fuck one of her best friends.

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                                  • p2p chad
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                                    #67
                                    Originally posted by LiveDose
                                    Whhooops. Time to go and fuck one of her best friends.
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                                    • zigx
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                                      #68
                                      Originally posted by karlm
                                      Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
                                      smack that silly bitch the fuck down!
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                                      • volante
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                                        #69
                                        Here's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?

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                                        • Vitasoy
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                                          #70
                                          If it's only a peck on the lips now, but anything more, then hell yes.


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                                          • The Sultan Of Smut
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                                            #71
                                            Originally posted by volante
                                            Here's a question for everyone who considers it cheating: what if she was kissing another woman instead of a man? Would you still consider that cheating, and if so would you dump her or keep the relationship going in the hope of getting a threesome?
                                            Yup it's still cheating, it doesn't matter if it's a girl or guy but I suppose if it was my girlfriend I wouldn't mind it quite as much if she was kissing a chick. I suppose the test is to ask her if you can kiss the chick as well and see what she says.

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                                            • axelcat
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                                              #72
                                              cheating for sure

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                                              • WWC-Pajio
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                                                #73
                                                with no doubt.. i will call that cheating!!
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                                                • amandaspost
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                                                  #74
                                                  Definitely cheating...
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                                                  • Viewfinder
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                                                    #75
                                                    Originally posted by karlm
                                                    Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
                                                    Kissing lips is borderline cheating, kissing dick is solidly cheating, and kissing puckered anus is so badly mega-slut-class cheating that you'll have to assume she's been doing all your friends and their dogs for the past 6 and a half years.

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                                                    • calibra
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                                                      #76
                                                      It's cheating for sure. BUT it's a kind of "minor" cheating, when you forgive but not forget.

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                                                      • Tricksy
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                                                        #77
                                                        cheating for sure... at least that means that I don't care about my boyfriend much... If I kiss someone I mean

                                                        and for my boyfriend... God, I would kill him


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                                                        • Jennyfer
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                                                          #78
                                                          Originally posted by Platinumpimp
                                                          I agree. If you love somebody you definately shouldn't feel the need to make out with somebody else, whether its kissing or fucking.
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                                                          • ilbb
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                                                            #79
                                                            CHEATING you should leave because she is not worth it...

                                                            ...and sure kick the bastard's balls

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                                                            • Herb Kornfield
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                                                              #80
                                                              So, thats what you know about?

                                                              Imagine all the shit that you DONT know about my man.

                                                              Shit like this is why its just easier to swing..... You dont have this silly bullshit get in the way.

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                                                              • CDSmith
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                                                                #81
                                                                Originally posted by dynastoned
                                                                thats not cheating in my book. might be a little disrespectful and something you guys could talk about. but nothing worth getting your panties all in a bunch. then again everyone feels a little differently about it..
                                                                I would be wondering why my girlfriend (or wife, as the case may be) is out sucking face with some other guy.

                                                                It amazes me that some of you don't seem to mind (or care) if your woman is out sucking face with some other guy.

                                                                A friendly peck on the cheek given to a known friend is a different matter. THAT I can understand, as it's perectly fine. But actually kissing some guy on the lips? I don't think so. I'm not the jealous type at all, I'm the type that would tell her to keep right on kissing the guy and "See ya"...... in other words I'd give her the kiss off. :D
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                                                                • fl_prn_str
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                                                                  #82
                                                                  what type of kiss? kiss that you would give your blood relative or kiss that would determine what a person had for lunch.

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                                                                  • Ivana Fukalot
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                                                                    #83
                                                                    Originally posted by karlm
                                                                    Found out my girlfreind was kissing another guy in a club
                                                                    oh, i think thats not good. But maybe she was a very very drunk?
                                                                    If she was kissing with a girl, its ok.

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                                                                    • CDSmith
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                                                                      #84
                                                                      Originally posted by Ivana Fukalot
                                                                      But maybe she was a very very drunk?
                                                                      That's no excuse.
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                                                                      • Kevin - The PNN
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                                                                        #85
                                                                        Depends on what set of lips he was kissing.

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                                                                        • polish_aristocrat
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                                                                          #86
                                                                          send her to Dirty Danza and make her puke on his cock
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                                                                          • GlydeGirl
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                                                                            #87
                                                                            What I think is totally crazy is that you folks don't have a conversation with your girlfriends/boyfriends when you first start dating as to what is cheating and what isn't cheating.

                                                                            I'm a swinger and have negotiated all the things that I (and my man) are allowed to do with full approval of the other partner. You know what WE consider cheating and a total deal breaker??? Fucking somebody WITHOUT USING CONDOMS. That's the only thing that we consider cheating.

                                                                            Next time you want to figure out if what your girlfriend/boyfriend was doing was cheating, have a conversation with them (ideally when you first start dating) and negotiate the ground rules. Then everybody knows up front what is acceptable and not, so when a rule is broken it is completely clear that this is a violation of the relationship agreement.

                                                                            You crazy serial monogamists and your lack of communication and negotiation skills!

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                                                                            • bdld
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                                                                              #88
                                                                              thats no big deal, let her have her fun.

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                                                                              • Babagirls
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                                                                                #89
                                                                                depends on the situation. if they were both drunk as balls, and HE made the move, then its not really cheating ONLY IF she told him to never do that again.

                                                                                BUT if shes all over some dude and kissing on him all night, then thats cheating lol

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                                                                                • Dveron
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                                                                                  #90
                                                                                  Originally posted by ultimatebbwdotcom
                                                                                  If you think "i wouldnt be doing this if the bf/gf was in the same room" - its cheating.
                                                                                  I agree. Thats a rule I live by in my relationship.
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                                                                                  • Kevin - The PNN
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                                                                                    #91
                                                                                    It is amazing to me. You are in the Porn Biz and you are getting worked up about your girffriend kissing another guy. WTF

                                                                                    I bet if she kissed a another girl - you would be boasting about it - no bitching about it.

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                                                                                    • MetaMan
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                                                                                      #92
                                                                                      def. cheating, she is obviously scandalous, break her off now.

                                                                                      these types of girls will only end up cheating on you in the future. any girl going out to clubs and acting like she is single should be that indeed SINGLE.

                                                                                      it IS different though if the guy came up and out of no where kissed her. as long as she shoved him away and told you then those are grounds for forgivness.

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                                                                                      • CDSmith
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                                                                                        #93
                                                                                        Originally posted by MaskTVMaura
                                                                                        I'm a swinger
                                                                                        You are the exception then.

                                                                                        As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.

                                                                                        Do unto others and all that. :D

                                                                                        Frankly I'm a bit surprised by some of the ho-hum no-biggie replies in this thread, but on the other hand seeing as this is gofuckyourself... I guess it isn't such a big surprise after all.
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                                                                                        • GlydeGirl
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                                                                                          #94
                                                                                          Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                                          You are the exception then.

                                                                                          As for us "serial monogamists" being crazy and all, my only thought is that I fucking shouldn't HAVE to "negotiate" what is acceptable and what isn't with my girlfriend. If you're into open relationships then that's the time to be negotiating boundaries. But with regular relationships it's pretty much a given that it's very much NOT cool to go sucking face with strangers, drunk or otherwise.

                                                                                          Do unto others and all that. :D

                                                                                          Frankly I'm a bit surprised by some of the ho-hum no-biggie replies in this thread, but on the other hand seeing as this is gofuckyourself... I guess it isn't such a big surprise after all.
                                                                                          Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.

                                                                                          Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.
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                                                                                          • CDSmith
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                                                                                            #95
                                                                                            Originally posted by MaskTVMaura
                                                                                            Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating. That is reason enough to be sensible and take the precautions to negotiate the important things -- like what constitutes cheating -- in your relationships, even if you aren't a swinger.

                                                                                            Besides, what's so upsetting about negotiation that you would want to avoid it in the first place? When doing business deals, you negotiate every last detail -- you don't just "assume" things. When an agreement is in place, you can always refer back to it and hold people accountable to what they agreed to.
                                                                                            Romantic relationships aren't business deals Maura. Do you not know this?

                                                                                            Swingers do need to set boundaries.
                                                                                            But in regular relationships it is normally understood that once you're together you're together, no outside contact. At least that's the way it is with most people I know (who aren't swingers)

                                                                                            You being someone who prefers the open-ended style of relationship might find it hard to grasp that other people don't go around "negotiating" with each other every time they meet someone new.

                                                                                            No worries, I'm just as befuddled about your way of life, as I have no idea how people can watch their lover get laid by someone else.

                                                                                            To each their own.
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                                                                                            • CDSmith
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                                                                                              #96
                                                                                              Originally posted by MaskTVMaura
                                                                                              Fact is, that the guy DID have his girlfriend kiss another guy and he DIDN'T negotiate with her in advance if it was cheating.
                                                                                              Do you really think that in most cases if a guy tells his girlfriend that kissing someone else is a no-no that she won't go do it anyway?

                                                                                              Seriously, I am laughing here.
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                                                                                              • adultfora
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                                                                                                #97
                                                                                                drop the bitch - if she allready kisses someone.. then she also would fuck another.. dump her and post naked pictures on the fucking net so she can feel how it is to be fucked over
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                                                                                                • sherie
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                                                                                                  #98
                                                                                                  Originally posted by woj
                                                                                                  I was just giving stupid response to a stupid question, it should be pretty obvious that kissing another guy when you are in a relationship is not cool...
                                                                                                  I figured as much, hense my response haha :P
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                                                                                                  • polish_aristocrat
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                                                                                                    #99
                                                                                                    Originally posted by CDSmith
                                                                                                    Do you really think that in most cases if a guy tells his girlfriend that kissing someone else is a no-no that she won't go do it anyway?

                                                                                                    Seriously, I am laughing here.
                                                                                                    she's a swinger
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                                                                                                    • stev0
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                                                                                                      #100
                                                                                                      definately cheating... probably bringing you home herpes from the club, watch out.

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