Originally Posted by BVF

I would DEFINITELY listen to what this man said and act on it word for word...

Make sure EVERYTHING is spelled out as to what your expectations of each other will be, goals in life, CHILDREN, etc.....

And even if you do have a prenup, if the divorce is nasty or the woman feels like she's getting screwed, it's nothing to challenge the validity of the prenup in court....Even if it was signed in front of Jesus himself, the validity can be challenged and routinely it is....Also if the prenup leaves her with nothing, you can be sure as shit that it will be ruled invalid...

I remember this because I had a prenup that I wrote up myself during my divorce...Fortunately, I was able to get it ruled invalid because the shit was so lopsided in her favor, I would've been all the way screwed...

Also, I remember sitting in the lobby in family court and my lawyer was chitchatting with another lawyer that she knew and he was talking about how the prenup was being challenged because it left her with nothing...and he said this matter of factly and my lawyer just nodded like she's heard it all before...

What you want to do is NOT GET MARRIED IN THE FUCKING FIRST PLACE!!......If you're so enthralled with this woman, just live with her and draw up a nice power of attorney for emergencies....

Your mind is clouded right now....Don't do it...Just the fact that you're even ASKING about a prenup means you don't need to be doing it....